There is this boy I met on camp who is CRAZY about me. He even asked me to the movies, I said yes! :( How do I dump him? Please!
2007-08-09 03:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you've only been asked out, it's not like you're in a relationship.
and learn to say NO when you mean NO. saying YES when you mean NO is a very bad habit, and can make you miserable.
if someone you don't really want to go out with asks you out, "no thank you" is an appropriate response. you don't have to give a reason.
just let him know that you're not interested in dating... it can't be much simpler than that.
2007-08-09 03:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell himyou changed your mind, or that your not ready to go on dates just yet, OR that your parents told you you couldnt go out that nite , and next time..think before you say YES, its not nice to dump someone you havent even dated yet, after all he may be a really nice guy. Personally i think you should keep the date, but refuse another if he asks, and your not into him. THAT would be the RIGHT thing to do, but you dont want to hear that right!!!
2007-08-09 10:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you've given it some thought and you're just not ready to date right now or you're not in a mindset where you can give yourself to any sort of relationship. It's better to tell him than to leave him hanging, and if you're honest with him he'll have a lot more respect for you than if you ignore the situation.
2007-08-09 10:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on whether you want to be friends with him. Why did you say yes and change your mind?
I would say, be honest. Don't make something up unless you have no respect for him or yourself. Tell him you would rather no go to the movies, and you're sorry.
2007-08-09 10:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Fleabag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you go to the movies?
If not then why did you say yes?
You have to ACTUALLY be dating someone in order to "dump him"!....you do know that right?????????????
If you don't like him then simply tell him you're not interested so he can turn his attention to someone who is!
2007-08-09 10:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by dedmunne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way a woman/girl/other came dump a guy, that will leave amemory, is to become silent around him. stop doing things the same way. after 5 minutes silently leave. don't say bye, just disappear
2007-08-09 10:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say he's cool and everything but you just dont like him like that and you would appreciate it if he backed off... you have to think about you, no matter how you do it it'll probably hurt him but who cares? if you want to keep him happy that badly then you wouldn't dump him. sometimes you have to think about what is best for you.
2007-08-09 10:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Sorry Jim, somethings come up and I can't go to the movies with you"...or just straight out tell him.
2007-08-09 10:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. tell him the truth. don't skirt around it. Guys HATE that....just let him go and let him get over it....he'll think you're a jerk...but that's just life
2007-08-09 10:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking to him...and why would you not want someone who is crazy for you...they are the best
2007-08-09 10:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋