Singles & Dating - 9 August 2007

i would just want to know, why do men look for girls?..

2007-08-09 20:14:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I been dating a girl for almost 2 years. Our relationship when there is no problems goes more than great. I love her but I dont know if I can even be IN love with her. Whenever me and her fight or something goes wrong I remember her past and I get mad. Mostly cuz I dont agree with many of the things she has done. She slept with 4 guys after only dating them for 3 months each. Then she broke up with them short after yet she claims sex is a thing of love. I hate her for her past, but I love her as a person. Thats the main thing that bothers me but she lied to me about alot of things one of them was that she hooked up with a guy cuz she was "angry" with me and I didnt find out until 7 months later. She never told me cuz she was afraid I would leave her. I love her and we have broken up a few times, but we always end up together. She claims she doesnt need me and that I could do better but I love her. Is there any way I can forgive and forget? How can I make things better?

2007-08-09 20:11:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long would it take me to drive from Albuquerque to Atlanta? :) Would LOVE be worth the trip?

2007-08-09 20:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

As to a question i ask a couple of days ago i asked my girlfriends bestfriend why she was acting so wierd around me and she admitted she had feelings for me. I have no interest in dating her, but now i am in an ackward situation do i tell my girlfriend and what do i say to her bestfriend (who also has a boyfriend if things weren't ackward enough) about this

2007-08-09 20:04:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 20:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by loriebeth b 1

2007-08-09 19:59:35 · 5 answers · asked by bebe4u 2

If you could date the perfect guy, what qualities would you want? What qualities would be dealbreakers? Thanks.

2007-08-09 19:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Marc M 7

okay...let's keep this real...we have only IMed each other 2 times. when we did we were up all night talking.needless to say i fell for the guy.
i noticed a patern. i used to write him a lettter every day. now i write him and wait for him to respond.
i feel stupid for falling for this guy. he's in another state.
he writes me back appologizing for being so buisy, tells me he wants to meet me in person, and he misses talking to me...

okay great....so why dont we IM each other any more. why is he not on line for day's st a time.

should i believ him that his labtop broke? i tell him to just let me know if he doesnt want to talk to me, and he say's i'm not bothering him.
i just dont get it.

so....oppinions any one?

2007-08-09 19:39:55 · 8 answers · asked by sheri 2

i have a friend that met a guy online about 3 months ago. she had just joined a black website community (i wont say which one) but she met him her first day there. they have chatted online everyday since then and she says she really likes him. they even now end each conversation with "i love you ".

now here's where it gets tricky.

my friend has a lot of self esteem issues that evolved from bad relationships where she doesn't too much like herself, and how she looks. i personally thinks she's beautiful, and so do all the guys who constantly hit on her. anywho, she says she really wants to meet her "online lover" face to face, and he is dying to spend time with her also. but she lied when she first met him. she used a picture of her sister on her profile, and they look nothing alike. she said the guy constantly tells her that she is beautiful... but it's not her he's looking at. so now she's scared of what he may say when he sees the real her.

what advice can i give

2007-08-09 19:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont have a girlfriend, and it just seems like every girl is already taken, i feel very alone.

2007-08-09 19:16:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 19:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by badboy 1

2007-08-09 19:07:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy i've been dating for 11/2 months just completely stopped talking to me. Last time I saw him he told me he was only dating me and I told him I was only dating him too. He said he wanted this relationship to the next level. Since we both have strong feelings for each other, I totally agreed with him. Well, a few days after our talk, I felt like he was totally blowing me off. When I would call him he said it wasnt a good time and he would call me back. I did this for about 3 days and he never returned any of my calls. He did call me back after I had sent him a sweet text msg on his phone. Then said he would call me back in a few days. Well, it's been a week since our last conversation. What do you think happened? Did he change his mind about us being more serious and is afraid of commitment? He 's the one that brought up this topic. I'm soo depressed. I really do miss him and I don't want to call/txt him bcuz I don't want to seem pushy.

2007-08-09 18:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by Ana D 3

2007-08-09 18:38:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

All you see these days are women that are nothing but arm candy for men. Do men grow out of that and eventually like real women or am I doomed.

2007-08-09 18:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by like it or not 1

She is running around with her exes, and not just one at a time. While he is at work, she goes barhopping with a group of male friends and more than one are an ex. He goes to defend his territory, and she says no dont worry about it. I HAVE NEVER TOLD A GUY NOT TO FIGHT, ESPECIALLY OVER ME. Meanwhile, back at the ranch, she is begging to "work this out i love you" i think she should shove it. Hes all confused and said fine I wont stand up for you, even when the greasies start to hit on you. So, again, i offered some stress releif and said i would be more than happy to help her make an exit. : ) o he is so lovey to me. he lets me be lovey to him. i was with a man for so long that wouldn't let me touch him all lovey. To run my fingers thru his hair or something simple like that. this isnt love its even more wonderful : )

2007-08-09 18:31:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 year old male... going on 20, and i have this really hot blonde math prof (young 30\s). She has caught me checking her out many times.... so today I went to her office and we talked for a bit then i asked if she wanted to get a coffee and she paused for a long time and then just said "not right now but thanks".

do u think she hates me now? what do i do next time i go to class? act like it never happened?

2007-08-09 18:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 18:28:49 · 4 answers · asked by A. Kalashnikov 1

kids are so funny and the most honest people on this earth. do you have any funny stories that you would like to share from your most embarrassing moments file? for me the other day my 3 yr. old decided to follow me into the bath room while i took a shower. i had just taken my hair weave out and thrown it on the floor in my bedroom. my hair was due for a serious shampooing so i get into the shower and start showering and after a few minutes my 3yr. old leaves out of the bathroom. i dont think anything of it cause she does that from time to time. minutes later i step out of the shower and im drying myself off and she comes back in and asks what im doing and i tell her i just finished showering and washing my hair. then i say "mommy is done cause im all clean now" and she says "you didnt wash your hair , mommy" and i said "yes i did Boo Boo." then she gets upset sort of and says "no you didnt......see!" then hands me a big handful of the hair i had just threw all over the floor.

2007-08-09 18:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has a raspy voice and my boyfreind is out of town and im home alone wat do i do he said he's wacthin me wat should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-09 18:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

who have no hair on their head?

2007-08-09 18:11:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom says it hurts a little. but i want to know a little more. and does it hurt a guy the first time?

2007-08-09 18:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 18:10:29 · 2 answers · asked by facethefacts 1

Well i feel so sad right now....i know im a guy and "men dont cry" but i feel like crying right now......

What the heck is wrong with me?

And it really didnt help what my girlfreidn said to me :'(

We love each other, and its a long distance relationship, i love her enough to marry her right?

But then all of a sudden she said something that made me feel....wow it made me feel way worse.

Anyway, why the hell am i so sad???? And BTW i was sad before she said it so....

2007-08-09 18:09:09 · 26 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4

How can I read somebody's body language and what do they mean?

2007-08-09 18:08:56 · 4 answers · asked by pre med student 2

2007-08-09 18:04:54 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1

ok well my ex has a girlfriend now. and they've been fighting a lot lately because me and her are friends. then he comes and emails me saying "thnx so much" i say huh.. and he says "bcuz of u i dumped my g.f" and then i ask him how its my fault and he said because she slept over at my house (sleepover). so they work things out a few hours later and are back together. than he says "f*** u" i say what did i do?!?!?! he says "thnx for f***ing things up" i say well u guys just apologized so stop making her only be friends and hang out with you. let her have a life. etc.. so he "dumped her" then he said it was because of me in general..

what is all this nonsense about? is it me, or him?! whats going on?!

2007-08-09 18:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated someone for 2 years and throughout our relationships there were moments when I didn't want o have sex. He knew this yet always asked me to do it for him and our relationship. When we did have sex I had tears coming down my face and he'd ask me if he could finish off. I didn't interact with him sexually I just laid there while he did it so that I could make "him happy." If I didn't say no yet he could see I didn't want it was it rape?

2007-08-09 17:58:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 17:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

My guy friend who I like,turned 19 today,August 10th,and I am kinda falling in love with him.And since it was his birthday,I was going to TRY and be extra nice to him.

We were talking online,and he told me "BRB,sorry Britt" and I was like,ok,and I waited for like,30 minutes almost!And then I notice that he signed out on me,while I was waiting for him to come back.

So I texted him telling him that he really knows how to make me feel like crap.

And then I called him,and I was like "Why did you sign out?" And hes like,"Sorry,I fell asleep...I guess someone else signed me out."

Then he told me while on the phone that he was gonna go,and I said ok,and hes like,bye babe,and I just said bye.

It hurt my feelings.

And I think I had the right to like,get mad over that.

I treat him AMAZINGLY.Better than Ive ever treated a guy.

And he treats me like this!

Didnt I have the right to get alittle angry?

2007-08-09 17:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4