okay...let's keep this real...we have only IMed each other 2 times. when we did we were up all night talking.needless to say i fell for the guy.
i noticed a patern. i used to write him a lettter every day. now i write him and wait for him to respond.
i feel stupid for falling for this guy. he's in another state.
he writes me back appologizing for being so buisy, tells me he wants to meet me in person, and he misses talking to me...
okay great....so why dont we IM each other any more. why is he not on line for day's st a time.
should i believ him that his labtop broke? i tell him to just let me know if he doesnt want to talk to me, and he say's i'm not bothering him.
i just dont get it.
so....oppinions any one?
2007-08-09 19:39:55 · 8 answers · asked by sheri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U R ALL FUCKWITS. I MARRIED A GUY I MEET ON THE INTERNET AND HE IS THE NICEST GUY - UNLIKE THE SCUM I DATED BEFORE WE MEET. UR ALL JEALOUS COS UR LOVE LIFES SUCK BAG.
2007-08-09 20:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's easy to get sucked in to the internet relationships. You can't see the other person living their everyday life. You know only what they tell you, which will only be the good things. They will not tell you the things that everyine else hates about them. You won't even know if they aer the same person as their picture. Of COURSE he wants to meet you. He's MALE! He wouldn't say no.(No offense guys, but you know I'm right) he may be using the internet to meet different girls everyday. But he wil never admit to that, so don't even bother asking. Many years ago, I chatted with a guy every day for like a month, only to learn that he was a fictional persona that some guy made up to get me to talk to him after I had rejected the real him.
2007-08-09 19:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gnurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably married and not telling you the truth about anything. Just to give you an example of what actually happens read this:
Thirty-five percent of the people who use personal ads for dating are already married.
Be very careful when chatting online. Do not trust anyone. You can not imagine the people that have been lured into traps, bilked out of every dime they had, raped, killed, etc...
If you do decide to meet anyone that you have met online, be sure that you do it in a public place and have someone with you.
Look up online scams on the web, to get an idea of what I am trying to explain to you.
2007-08-09 19:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, especially if you are a minor. But either way, if you've never met him in public, he could be a creep, or could be married. Hey it happens. Look on the website www.snopes.com as there is an actual phone call by a d.j. to a guy in which he unbeknowestly reveals to his lover that he is, in fact, married.
2007-08-09 19:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Brett M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the screen!
Honey, call up a girlfriend and go hang out and do something fun! This guy will be history and out of your mind by the end of the week.
Suggestion....block him from your IM. DELETE any future emails.
2007-08-09 19:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Greenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he apologized for being busy & said he wants to meet you....maybe he just doesn't have time to stay up all night talking. Maybe he has a job or obligations. Call me naive, but I say take him at his word (for now at least...if it goes on for several months without meeting or any solid progression, then maybe he's leading you on.)
2007-08-09 19:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, online 'affairs' as you call them, are rubbish. people are really different offline. yu never know whom you could be talking to.
i once thought id completely fallen for a guy, and no one could ever hope to even par him, but a couple of months later, he turned out to be rubbish.
so, yea, keep talking to this guy informally if you want to, but dont get too personal, it could be dangerous.
2007-08-09 19:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by stickfiction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online affairs never do workout... cuz its hard to trust a person that you havent even seen think about it. i have been in the same situation, this girl stated how she thinks im so sexy and etc and gave me her number but never picks up her phone and never calls me back. so its all bullshit. and on top of that if you FALL IN LOVE with the person but NEVER SEE him in your life wats the point? you just feeel SOO PISSED that you claimed that you have falllen for him or her but never seen them in person. i think its full of bull ****.
2007-08-09 19:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by ofomyzrc88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋