The guy i've been dating for 11/2 months just completely stopped talking to me. Last time I saw him he told me he was only dating me and I told him I was only dating him too. He said he wanted this relationship to the next level. Since we both have strong feelings for each other, I totally agreed with him. Well, a few days after our talk, I felt like he was totally blowing me off. When I would call him he said it wasnt a good time and he would call me back. I did this for about 3 days and he never returned any of my calls. He did call me back after I had sent him a sweet text msg on his phone. Then said he would call me back in a few days. Well, it's been a week since our last conversation. What do you think happened? Did he change his mind about us being more serious and is afraid of commitment? He 's the one that brought up this topic. I'm soo depressed. I really do miss him and I don't want to call/txt him bcuz I don't want to seem pushy.
2007-08-09 18:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by Ana D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Afraid of commitment...we're guys, we do stuff like this.
Ask if he want to date, of just be friends
Luck
2007-08-09 18:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but it sounds like he was only talk! The same thing happened to me, i dated this guy for a month, then he stopped calling me. He told my girlfriends that he THOUGHT i was mad at him && that he was pushing me to far. But thats bull crap cuz i messaged him one day, he read it but didnt reply!!!! Some guys are just into playin those stupid games. But us girls are strong!!!!! We are strong!! Once we've been through it, we can recongize the signs!
Right now, you can either tell him to forget about moving to the next level ((even though it hurts hun!! its for your own good!)) Or, just stop talking to him && move on!
Don't put your life on hold. Every minute you spend focusing on this guy is a minute that's holding you back from a better future. Dr. Phil tells his guest, "As long you are obsessed on this guy, you will never put your heart, soul and mind into getting your life in order and starting another relationship if you want one."
2007-08-10 02:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by hawaiizangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems afraid of commitment. Send him a text and tell him that you need to know what is going on. If he hasn't called in a couple of days consider moving on.
2007-08-10 01:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, guys are fullllllllll of games. there will be a million more of this in your future..it happends. there could be a million reasons why he has act like that and he said he would call you in a couple days? whoa! what is that? you need to kick this looser to the curb. let it go..you dont want him to see your weekness. show him you are stronger then him..listen to me! i know how guys work. so anyways, you deserve better. forget him! theres many million fish in the sea better then him. it wasnt meant to be if he goes weeks without talking to you. oh well, move on baby! good luck! dont call him dont text him! move on! and if he does decided to call you back..act like its whatever and you didnt even care..its a game..learn to play it
2007-08-10 01:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he wasn't thinking when he said that. And he's hoping that you forgot. Tell him that he shouldn't worry about going to the next level. And just enjoy how you guys are like, right now. ^_^
Or maybe he's cheating on you.
I hope that helps
2007-08-10 01:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him...if he wanted to be with you, he would show it. So, obviously he doesn't..or,actually sounds like he may have someone else lined up. Cut all ties with him and move on..you are too good to beg a man...to hell w/him...u will find someone way better than him and be glad u didn't waste more time w/his loser ***...
2007-08-10 01:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm..u can try to ask him out for dinner but do take care of yourself. do not offer anything to him (body) since you are not sure about his intention. try to be cool and pretend that u treat him as your friend. see what he will say or do.
if he is acted like impatient and don't bother to entertain you, then you should know what to do..stay alert and good luck;)
2007-08-10 01:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by cst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! I personally think he is dating another girl.
2007-08-10 01:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by GINGER B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he's just playing with your head, waiting for you to offer sex, then he'll call you all the time!
2007-08-10 01:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can move on.
2007-08-10 01:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋