Singles & Dating - 7 August 2007

My boyfriend met my mother and father for the first time a couple of months ago - it all went well and life goes on. However my boyfriend confessed the other night that he could tell my mum's eyes that she thinks "I can do better." But he can tell my father just wants me to be happy. He also accused my mum of being a fusser and domineering over my dad!? How he managed to gage all this from a 20 min chat over a beer I don't know. He has an awful, loveless relationship with his own mother and he has said in the past that his previous girlfriend's parents didn't like him. I was really taken aback - why would he be like that. My mum hasn't said a word to me about thinking I am too good for him? !

2007-08-07 23:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have no idea what happened. the last time we talked was last night and before that..last saturday. both times, she blew me off. last saturday, i was trying to be understanding. she was tired from work and had to wake up early the following day for a trip. last night though...it was different. she was cold. normally, if i'm not talking much, she'd be the one to initiate the conversation. my point is..she doesnt like it when i'm not saying anything but last night she was blowing me off...AGAIN!!

i dont know why.

do girls regularly blow off guys out of nowhere??? if not...what could i have done wrong and how can i remedy this?

2007-08-07 23:46:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering if guys look for a girl who is rich, or come from a rich family? or is this somehow intimidating, or off putting when they find out the girl is rich?

Assume the girl is not snobby and does have a great personality.

2007-08-07 23:46:04 · 13 answers · asked by grapes 2

2007-08-07 23:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by tracey 1

2007-08-07 23:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by Baby j. 1

I am a black American woman, mid-thirties, ok looking and employed. Everytime I reach out to someone for friendship or dating, I get rejected. I feel so demoralized, like I'm not even a human being anymore. I have noticed many other black women experiencing the same thing. Please help before I blow my brains out. And I'm not kidding about the last sentence, my life is truly worthless at this point.

2007-08-07 23:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by loneleegirl 2

about 2 months ago i started dating a divorced woman. She divorced because she cheated on her husband and then stayed with the man she cheated on him with for a year. This past Christmas, they broke up. Now, she tells me that she stays in contact with both her EX's. She also said that she was over him and that she rarely talked to him. And the man (we'll call him Tom) she cheated on her husband with, one night, about 1 month ago, text her while we were in bed together and she answer the text in front of me, at 11:30PM. She wouldn't tell me who it was at first, but i found out by looking over her shoulder as she was deleting the text to him she sent. I freaked and she "that was very disrespectful to do that"...and she agreed and we had a fight and i shouldv'e walked out but we talked things out. 3 days later he called at 12:00AM and she didn't pick it up to answer.

2007-08-07 23:34:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes i am a shy person( ive been reminded by people all the time), but there is something deep down thats telling me that i can change and overcome it its a phase. but is shyness something which you never can eliminate within yourself . cause the most people can never understand the full feeling and affect of having low confidence. i jus wanna know can i put this behind me or will it never leave

2007-08-07 23:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My personality, Im Hyper, Very funny, I like shopping, gossiping, spreading rumors, i give advice, i like writting short stories and ppl luv them, I also luv videos games, Dirty jokes, Adult comedy, I luv Japanese anime also. Im btchy when i get pissed off. but im innocent(or so ppl think) but ma friends know the real me, since i make them do all da dirty work for me cuz im to lazy to fck up ppl who i hate. When im rlly pissed off i handle it on my own but yea, lazy... I always speak my mind no matter wat. I hang out w/ guys alot cuz there koolz yea no?
Now problem... Even if i like a guy i show no way of ppl being able to tell because i talk 2 any guy normally. I make jokes and talk bout bad *** sht i like and he likes also. talk bout videos games w/ them and sex jokes. or fcked up jokes to other ppl. So i like guys so im like " ok hes cute, imma make him like me." ok when all da guys i try to make like me. they actually do in da end but i reject them when they ask me out. wtf?

2007-08-07 23:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you're dating a guy and hes always giving you stuff??? Should you keep accepting his gifts or tell him its too much? I mean sending roses 3 times in 2 weeks? Another thing he bought that was quite expensive and it seems like he always tries to impress me when we go out. He brings out BIG MONEY right in front of me and plays with it then puts it back in his wallet. Im not as interested in him as he is in me so should i accept?

2007-08-07 23:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by alt 2

Well, this is the weirdest question I've ever asked here... but... Here we go...
I'm a part-time bartender, last night I waited on this guy that has just moved here from Jacksonville, FL, I'm guessing he has no job yet, he was trying to get people to buy him cocktails all night last night... he did find someone though... So, tonight, I was off from work, bumped into him at a bar... after about 15 mins he wants me to go to his place for a "bar-b-q" I says no...
He CALLS ME: BORING... then LEAVES... Did I do the right thing by saying " NO "... Felt like he was a hustler or something like that...

2007-08-07 22:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by Fabricio A 1

My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. He says he is not in love with me but is "falling in love with me so much." This has confused the life out of me, needless to say, as it seems a bit soap opera to me and am scared he just won't love me - but his actions indicate otherwise. Whenever I go away he is like a lost puppy. This weekend I am going to the US for 11 days - the longest we have ever been apart - and he keeps saying how lost he will be without me, and has gone a bit quiet this week. I went away for three days a couple of mths ago and he was miserable. I will miss him very much but I think the break will do us good and may help him sort out how he feels about me. His lack of "in love" for me has hurt me deeply ( especially because he admitted he has fell more quickly in the pas and left me very worried - his last two relationships which he gave his heart to ended badly and I am sympathetic to this, but am concerned about the outcome of this relationship on my heart.

2007-08-07 22:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is doing computer engg. m.m.coet&myself elec. engg. in pvg.coet we both r in pune now our home town is ahmednagar. once i fought with some boys &because of that i think she angry on me once went her to give bday gift but she didnt accepted it.she is very sweet. many guys are after her. please help me .

2007-08-07 22:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by ash7 1

i have so many boyfriends right now...
how am i going 2 control them??..
im kinda "4" timer here....i cant choose!!
help!!!...
need opinion here!!...

1st bf: seaman
2nd bf: soldier
3rd bf: working in a bank
4th bf: police

i don't have any idea why i have so many bf!!...but they're rich 2!!....but i really want 2 have only 1 bf....
help!!...

2007-08-07 22:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 22:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 22:21:43 · 16 answers · asked by cuteangel242002 1

theer is this guy i like.
and he likes me.
and he sent me a text syaing what would u do if i asked u out i love you and that
But i dont wanna go out with anyone but i do...
If that makes sense
Plus he hangs around with popular people and plays fotty and that what am i ment to do!!!
WHAT DO I REPLY TO TEXT!!!

2007-08-07 21:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl is already in a love relation, and another guy comes in her life who loves her and the girl acknowledges it. What circumstances can make the second guy a winner ?

2007-08-07 21:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by Boleto Gandhigiri 2

So I met a guy, we hit it off, then he says he is not sure if he is over his ex and also he is not sure he is sexually attracted to me. He wants to be friends and we hang out a lot. I'm coo with that. Now girlfriend is hanging out with him when I have other plans. When I call either one of them, not knowing they are together, they invite me. I feell SO pissed. I know there is no sexuall attraction there at least from her to him. I'm not sure what to do.....just let ito go?

2007-08-07 21:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by janelle 1

He's living abroad, can't afford to call more than once a week. So the only way is e-mail. Yesterday, I wrote something that made him mad and he said he won't write me for a week, until he did what I was mad about. If I haven't always thought he never liked writing me, it wouldn't have been a biggie. Now, I feel like he was like "YES, I finally got a way to get rid of her", and it hurts. It's like deep down he doesn't really like the person that i am. Because I love him & his e-mails are the bright spot of the day. I don't expect him to feel everything that I feel. I'm not that unrealistic. However, you'd expect people to feel things if they love you, right? Like want to know about you and how you are feeling every morning? If they don't, it's a sign of trouble, innit?!! Or is this a guys' thing & am I reading too much into it OR have I been right all along, that he never loved me, & married me because I was the only one he could??

2007-08-07 21:34:33 · 11 answers · asked by Biqo 2

i have a friend/co worker that ive been in love with for 4 years. when i met him i knew he had a girlfriend and it was for sure that they were getting married. ive come to terms about their marriage and such. but for the while, we've always flirted and said naughty things and such, to a point where co workers have actually thought that we have hooked up. im a naughty texter but only for fun and as a joke, and i sent him one for the first time, and his replies were a little too intense, in a way that im scared that what hes said might happen. he loves his wife very much, and i know he'll do anything for her. so im asking what are the chances that he might actually do something? thanks!

2007-08-07 21:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly 1

im still a virgin and we've been together exactly 6 minths now and i promised him that in like 4 - 5 months i would have sex with him and he agreed that he would wait....but hes gettin really anxious and i can tell...... but now i think i've changed my mind...(???) and i dont know how to talk to him about it.... HOW DO I TELL HIM? im so scared that he'll get mad at me.... i wanna tell him 2morrow but its our 6th month anniversary...would that be a bad time???

2007-08-07 21:23:20 · 34 answers · asked by ***_____*** 2

2007-08-07 21:22:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I need help This guy I go to school with and haven't talked to in like a year asked me to hang out like 4 weeks ago. Just out of the blue really. So I'm pretty sure he likes me, other wise why the hell would he want to hang out with me right.

ok so anyway he is super shy at the same time. I have to start most of our convos, and he kind of kills them after a few things. I'm running out of things to talk about with him. But We have EVERYTHING in commen! I don't get it! He keeps asking me out to do stuff so I guess It doesn't bug him much but I would really be able to talk and have him feel good talking to me you know! and Now we are going to spend like 40 mins in a car together with nothing to do but talk so I really need help, then were going to the race track for a good 4 hours and then another 40 min drive back. Heis Real Shy, and I really like him and I'm almost sertin he likes me, so how can I get him to talk?

2007-08-07 21:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by cowgirl 1

i m haivng a very horrible time with my luv life, coz her parents doesnt like me and they dont let her talk to me or mail me once and now everyone saying to me that i should forget her for a while, but dont u think if u love smone how can u possiblely think of forgetting it coz its ur first and only luv, if one day v have to forget abt it then y v get into this first on first hand rite this is not luv dont u think and not an option that i forget her, plzz help me with this

2007-08-07 19:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 19:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I nvr got a girlfriend cuz i wanted like a perfect girl
but im getting pretty lonelyy ROFL
i have an urge to jus go out with any girl and also hoping that my love life will be like a movie. Like first girlfriend became my wife. LOLS i dont know something impossible~
So what should i doo?
help me pleasee

2007-08-07 19:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by Troubled1 1

Please help me...i really like one of my guy friends that worked with my brother and we started talking and flirting alot. well one weekend i went to his buddies house and we were all drinkin and i was all over his friend and completly ignored him
i feel really bad about it now...after all that happened they guy i like kinda backed off
but then he went out of town for the weekend...i went on a date w/ another one of his friends
since that...he barley talks to me. and since he isnt talking to me i want him SO bad i cant stand it.
i feel like such a b**** and a whore. i told the guy i like him but he never really says anything. we have talked some since all that happened...but now it's different
and i cant get him out of my head
what can i do??? PLEASE help

2007-08-07 19:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just met the cutest most exotic most funny guy ever hes like i swear the guy of my dreams and i cant go out with him because my bestest friend is with him! and when she talks about him and her i get sooooo jelous but theres noo way im telling her that i like him what should i do to calm myself down this guy has got me going crazy already! and i cant stop thinking bout him

2007-08-07 19:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1

2007-08-07 19:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy The Surfer 4