Ok so I need help This guy I go to school with and haven't talked to in like a year asked me to hang out like 4 weeks ago. Just out of the blue really. So I'm pretty sure he likes me, other wise why the hell would he want to hang out with me right.
ok so anyway he is super shy at the same time. I have to start most of our convos, and he kind of kills them after a few things. I'm running out of things to talk about with him. But We have EVERYTHING in commen! I don't get it! He keeps asking me out to do stuff so I guess It doesn't bug him much but I would really be able to talk and have him feel good talking to me you know! and Now we are going to spend like 40 mins in a car together with nothing to do but talk so I really need help, then were going to the race track for a good 4 hours and then another 40 min drive back. Heis Real Shy, and I really like him and I'm almost sertin he likes me, so how can I get him to talk?
2007-08-07 21:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so I need help This guy I go to school with and haven't talked to in like a year asked me to hang out like 4 weeks ago. Just out of the blue really. So I'm pretty sure he likes me, other wise why the hell would he want to hang out with me right.
ok so anyway he is super shy at the same time. I have to start most of our convos, and he kind of kills them after a few things. I'm running out of things to talk about with him. But We have EVERYTHING in commen! I don't get it! He keeps asking me out to do stuff so I guess It doesn't bug him much but I would really be able to talk and have him feel good talking to me you know! and Now we are going to spend like 40 mins in a car together with nothing to do but talk so I really need help, then were going to the race track for a good 4 hours and then another 40 min drive back. And Trust me I talk about everything he likes, Sports, Hunting He is Real Shy, and I really like him and I'm almost sertin he likes me, so how can I get him to talk?
2007-08-07 21:30:18 · update #1
I've never dated a guy like that, so I imagine it can be kind of awkward for you. Here's a tip. Does he have a good guy friend? If he does, then notice what they talk about......how does his friend get him to open up and talk..... what subjects, etc. A lot of times you can learn things about your guy that you never knew, just by being quite and listening to him and his friend talk. His friend is quite talkative, right? Just be quite yourself long enough to learn from him.You really need to draw your guy out to learn if you and he are really that compatible. So don't be reluctant to probe him gently with all kind of questions to acquaint yourself with his thoughts, desires, likes and dislikes. Don't be satisfied with a simple yes/no answer. So many times a girl has married a guy, thinking she really knew him, only to find out later..... that he is something of an enigma, and had she known he was like this she might not have married him, but it's too late then.
When you and he are together, you don't have to fill up every minute with nervous chatter; when there is silence between you, just look over at him and smile sweetly. Y'all are gonna be fine.
2007-08-07 21:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be provocative..Tickle him if you have to!! Haha!! Anyway, just get the point to him that you want him to open up..but of course..don't just tell him. be like....come on, i know there's more of you in there Sup? make a ghetto face and wink or something lolz. It's cute. Give him attitude make him angry..try to make him get his true way of being out. Something that actually might help could be to act "shy" urself..act like u also feel the same way as he does..or like u don't know what to talk about.. Usually that gets ppl to open up cuz they dnt feel so threatened anymore. Yayness. Hope i helped.
2007-08-08 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Parker232 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to be shy. That lasted a few years. But, if you hug him...whisper in his ear, and say something nice, he's probably sure to talk afterwards. Either that, or try talking to him on messaging stuff. There's a lot of IM crap around, so...people are usually sometimes easier to talk on the phone, or on instant messenger stuff. If it don't work, get back to me...but, it might. Give him a reason to talk, also. If you're willing to do anything to get him to talk, if you like each-other...it's worth it. Trust me.
2007-08-08 04:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, you should talk about what most guys would talkk about with each other
bring up some sports, or like past stuff.
girls, what he thinks of them
and such and such .
2007-08-08 04:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by mistadatbiet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should talk about what most guys would talkk about with each other
bring up some sports, or like past stuff.
girls, what he thinks of them
and such and such .
2007-08-08 04:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Daireen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirt? say something like hey baby wha's up. not too personal and more informal i guess u might get a response someday
2007-08-08 04:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get a Shy guy to talk?
"Simple!"
"Just tell him to feel free to talk and make him feel comfortable"
2007-08-08 04:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
help him out...
start the conversation yourself.
get some topics... coax him into somethnig he likes
2007-08-08 05:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mirza H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it gets to a point to where you must tell him flat out,, you like him BUT,, he needs to open up more with you, tell him. in this case you must lead him, or he wont, until he opens up more...
2007-08-08 05:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋