If you're dating a guy and hes always giving you stuff??? Should you keep accepting his gifts or tell him its too much? I mean sending roses 3 times in 2 weeks? Another thing he bought that was quite expensive and it seems like he always tries to impress me when we go out. He brings out BIG MONEY right in front of me and plays with it then puts it back in his wallet. Im not as interested in him as he is in me so should i accept?
2007-08-07 23:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by alt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
andra, i dont need his gifts.. i like him but not as much as he likes me
2007-08-07 23:10:43 · update #1
yeah that is pretty embarrassing. can't help you
2007-08-07 23:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lux 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Welllllll....he's obviously interested in you (in your mind or your body, I'm not sure!) and he thinks that he can compete with the other guys by offering something maybe they can't...money. It's fun to have a boyfriend with money, but if you're not really into him then it won't ever go far.
Don't lead him on, don't tell him you love him if you don't and don't talk about the future. But if you want to hang out with him and he wants to spend his money on you and you're honest with him...well, I don't think there's any harm. Just don't use his feelings for you to get stuff. But it really sounds like you're not that kind of girl anyway.
2007-08-08 06:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Janey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay....i'm a guy. but if you think he is giving u too much. Just say am sorry but i dont wanna be swamped with gifts. i am instrested inyou and not your money.
hope this helps you a little.
2007-08-08 06:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the lavish gifts and him being overly generous is making you uncomfortable.
2007-08-08 06:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
His attitude is silly for long term and if you aren't that interested, start backing out now.
2007-08-08 06:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not interested in him, why are you still there? For his gifts? Don't make him spend his resources on a lost cause.....
2007-08-08 06:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Andra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's too late for asking. don't u think. u should have refused earlier.
2007-08-08 06:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by The Monk 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋