So I met a guy, we hit it off, then he says he is not sure if he is over his ex and also he is not sure he is sexually attracted to me. He wants to be friends and we hang out a lot. I'm coo with that. Now girlfriend is hanging out with him when I have other plans. When I call either one of them, not knowing they are together, they invite me. I feell SO pissed. I know there is no sexuall attraction there at least from her to him. I'm not sure what to do.....just let ito go?
2007-08-07 21:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by janelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is hitting off with her and you are really only just a friend?
Go on with you life. If he is interested in you, he will come back to you. :-)
2007-08-07 21:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 21:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. You are getting jealous, which is perfectly understandable, but you must understand that you can't make her do what ever you want her to. (sorry if it sounds mean lol.) If you think that that makes her a bad friend, tell her and try to talk to her. If all else fails, and you're still bothered by the fact that she is talking to him, then maybe you should seek help. Lol, I mean its just a guy there's a bajillion others running around, and you look kinda cute so im sure you'd have no trouble finding a guy :p Hope everything turns out well!
2016-05-17 04:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-24 10:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new man who knows what he wants. A guy this unsure about his life is not somebody who can take care of you in the future and will only lead to drama, stress and trouble. Definately not a winner.
2007-08-07 21:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by caldreaminsurfer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its hard but there really is nothin u can do about it so try and let it go and get on with your life coz the only person u will be upsettin is urself and that not worth it just get yourself out there and find a nice man to take ur mind off it:)
good luck!!
2007-08-07 21:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like each other.. You either fight or flight or be friends.
Fight: If you like him show it.. Good chance though if you've already told him he has made his mind up about it.
Flight: leave the friendship.. (not suggested- whats that going to prove)
Friends: But its best to stay friends if they are nice, because your best of continuing to be friends. You'll find someone else... surely.
2007-08-07 21:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by No use for a name! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question
let it go
even if they have soemthing going on, its not really your problem, unless the guy's a jerk and you're concerned for your friend... but its between them and personal. you should be more supportive of your friend...
its natural to get angry or jealous in this kinds of situations but it happens...
besides, if the guy is alright, and the girl is alirght with him, you should let them enjoy themselves, while you move on with your own life...
cheers. everything will work out fine
2007-08-07 21:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mirza H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say about this one. I dont really think that she's your friend because she should have asked you if it was okay to hang out with him, with out you around-- thats just suspicious. i wouldnt really get mad at him, if i was you because he told you how he felt, which was the right thing to do. he has no commitment to you so basically he can hang out with whoever he wants. I think you should re-evaluate whether she is your "friend" or not.
2007-08-07 22:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come you feel there is no sexual attraction between the two. girl you can never be sure maybe there have done it before
2007-08-07 21:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by miss Kese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋