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NOTE: This is serious! This is not a joke!

I have a guy friend that is okay looking but can never seem to get girls, because he has low self-esteem and carries himself poorly...as in, he acts really quiet, stiff, and nervous around people. He is afraid to show his emotions or be assertive, and as a result people often mistake him for being a "slow" person even though he's not(he has a Bachelor's degree!).

I told him about these guys that I recently met that have their own p*rn site. My friend wouldn't fit in on that site, b/c the guys' site is for tattooed alternative-looking guys & my friend just doesn't have the confidence or look. But my friend is considering other kinds of p*rn, so he can make some money but (most importantly) get laid so that his confidence will go up. Good idea or bad idea?

Also, what's a good way to get started? Are there any sites that will take inexperienced guys? For example, videos featuring a seductive school teacher seducing geeky guys? Ideas?

2007-08-09 03:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Uh actually...I used to pay for sex, and *I'M* a girl. Before I had implants, college degree, and status, I would indirectly pay for sex...not outright in the sense of prostitution, but in the sense of spending all this $ on gas to drive up to the guy, spend a lot of money on drinks for myself at bars until I was drunk enough to muster courage to approach guys, etc. There were even a few times I admittedly got roped into paying a guy's way. Does that make me less of a woman?...probably. But point is, I was NEVER hideously ugly(even before the plastic surgery), and I STILL had to pay for sex.

2007-08-13 02:44:35 · update #1

4 answers

Very bad idea. Women don't have to pay for sex; the only way he can make money being a manwhore is being a manwhore to gay men, especially if he is into "specialty" acts. Even then, he runs the risk of being busted for prostitution, unless he moves to Amsterdam.

Best thing for him to do to get into a field that pays a lot of money to pay for plastic surgery, nice clothes, hot car and cool crib with a jacuzzi, then all he needs to do is go to any club any night of the week, flash his cash, mention his jacuzzi and buy drinks for the club ho's that show interest and he will could get action any night of the week.

2007-08-12 21:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1 0

This really sounds like a bad idea. I don't know about your friend but there are other ways of living than getting laid. And just because you can doesn't mean that your confidence will go up. Tell him to try to find leadership opportunities that will offer him chances to build up his confidence among closed groups, where it might be easier for him to relax. Don't let him waste his Bachelor's degree!

2007-08-09 05:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by ChiChi 1 · 1 0

I think if u sat down and talked to you friend it might work, but u have to remember sex changes everything, it could bring out feelings in you that u didnt realize u had, or in him. So if u think after talking to him and u both feel u can do it. go for it, But doing so does have the potential to destroy ur friendship. And dont go hoe it up at a bar either ur better than that! if all else fails just masturbate and save ur needs for someone whose worth satisfying them with

2016-05-17 22:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Is this a serious question? I am not meaning to judge, but come on!!!!!!!!!! What kind of bachelor's degree does this friend of yours have? if you are any kind of friend, you would not put silly ideas in his head.......I think this is a very bad idea!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-12 14:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by LILA 1 · 1 0

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