I've met a guy with the perfect personality for me but he does nothing for me physically. If i spend more time with him, would I eventually become attracted? Or should I just move on and forget about him?
Has anyone else ever been in this situation and then had it change?
2007-08-09 21:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by Nat R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've fallen for not so pretty girls with the best personalities, but nothing ugly. They were still attractive, well maybe to me, just not stunning. Usually you get hurt more from the more attractive ones. Damn all these beautiful girls.
2007-08-09 22:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Corey the Cosmonaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For girls, yeah we might look for a certain type of guy[ like the pretty boy thing with that girl you like] but in the end If we like someone, looks play a minor part. If there's an emotional attraction then the physical stuff will come with time. hope it helps :)
2016-04-01 09:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that love for another person doesnt have to be physical. Most importantly, both the guy and the girl have to be able to get along with one another. The key to friendships/relationships is communication.
I am currently in this situation right now. A guy with the personality that I would desire but we're currently friends right this moment, even though I have already confessed me interest in him. Personally I feel that he would only want to be friends with me even though he's glad being liked by someone is a good thing.
2007-08-09 22:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by preciouslittlestars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at a fork in the road, however I think from what you say, you would consider him... maybe...
Most relationships each partner is pointing out their imperfections, are jealous, and suspicious. I have had a few of those.
I have been seeing a woman for over a year now. Wasn't really my type, but I am happy now to call her mine. It does change, and I would say you met yourself a long time friend, whom will always be honest & fair. Life will be fun, I'd say give it a try.
2007-08-09 22:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Trivial pursuit of dating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with him, an beautiful person with an ugly personality would eventually seem ugly as well.
And the same thing goes the other way. It is the inside that counts, and if you truly like him, you will eventually see him as being beautiful.
2007-08-09 22:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you emotionally bond to someone there's the real attraction.
Everything else will fall into place.
2014-08-27 19:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you don't like them physically that it probably won't last long. You should probably look for someone else.If your not attracted to them at first I doubt you will later.
2007-08-09 22:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..generally personality would include physical things as well!
2007-08-09 22:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you just do whats best for you everything will work out and you will make the best decision.A little pressure from your friends will lead you astray .
2007-08-09 22:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by pee jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction isn't a choice. Try making out with him, you might be pleasantly surprised.
2007-08-09 22:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by damonrusst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋