He lives in a different town about two hours drive. He no more visit like he use to, anytime I comment on his behaviour, he tells me there is nothing wrong with that. For the past six weeks, we have not met but sometimes talk on the phone. He sometimes tells me he forgets to call. I have tried several times to inquire from him if we can still be in a relationship, I called him and told him I wanted to discuss our relationship with him but he told me to call later, I tried again but he refuse to pick my call. Shld. I keep trying or I should wait till he calls. I'm ready for anything. Pls. advice
2007-08-09 22:25:06 · 19 answers · asked by sweet81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid to say I think he's making it fairly obvious that he is not as interested anymore. As to why this is the case it's impossible to guess. You have tried to discuss the relationship with him but he is avoiding the issue. He doesn't even return your calls.
I think the best thing you can do is to avoid trying to contact him for a while and see if he reacts. If he doesn't try to make contact then you will know for sure that he is not interested. In which case you chalk it down to experience and you move on.
Sorry that you are going through this, and I hope you are ok...
2007-08-09 22:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Stu147 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be distancing himself from the relationship. If you really care about someone and miss them, you do not forget to call and you definitely don't avoid calls.
It doesn't sound like he is treating you very well. Why is it always you having to make the effort? Don't call him anymore, wait for him to call you. If he really cares about you and misses you, he will. If he doesn't, you should dump him. You have not known him long, so it might be a good chance for you to move on and find someone who makes more of an effort. You deserve it!
2007-08-10 05:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh!
That doesn't sound too good at all.
Looks like he's trying to give you a not so subtle hint that it's over between the two of you, doesn't it?
I'm so sorry but that's the way things appear from where I'm sitting.
P.S. Do not call him anymore! Let him make the next move and if he doesn't, well, just move on with your life! Good luck to you & take care!
2007-08-10 05:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lolita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, but it seems he may be giving you signals you don't want to read. You need to find something to interest you that has no relation to him, and try to put him out of your mind.
When HE calls or contacts you next, let him know you don't think a long distance relationship is working for you....and do something that makes you feel good.
Someone this insensitive is not worth your affection!
2007-08-10 05:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say girl drop him like history class,he's not being honest and like most young men he's afraid to confront you about.you sound like a smart young girl your mind is open let your heart do the same,spread your wings because there are alot of young studs out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. good luck to you....
2007-08-10 05:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by willthe thrill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious? He's avoiding you. For the last time, talk to him, and if he doesn't respond, then it is time to get over him. Move on. You have lots of important matters to do than to think of him. Just pray always.
2007-08-10 08:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet 81
So sweet of you to ask such a question.
Well it seems he doesnt deserve a good girl like you.
He doesnt know what he is loosing.
Any way lets move on....if he doesnt want you one time then we dont want him ten times.
I know it will hurt but he is not just worth it.
Just move on.
2007-08-10 05:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship is over. He is just too much of a coward to tell you straight out. Typical - men like to "slide" out of a relationship, not end it properly.
2007-08-10 05:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things look bleak girl.I f this relation is only 4 months long.....I would advice you to stop trying to work it out.Wait and see if he comes back to you.Set a time limit.If not walk out of this and proceed with your life.if you allow this to continue you will end up in a heart ache.The longer you try to stick to a relationship the harder it will be to walk out of it.Lokk at it this way,if he deserves you he will be back else......forget him
2007-08-10 05:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by life! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he does'nt care bout u like he used to. any1 who forgets to call sum1 he's dating really has a problem coz dat shouldn't happen at all.so pls save urself from hurting anymore b straight n find out wat he's up 2 u deserve 2 know were u stand with him.
2007-08-10 05:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋