I'm in love with this guy and he knows I have feelings for him but not to what extent. (we aren't dating) I'm starting school soon so I will be moving away, not too far, but far enough I won't see him everyday and I know it's going to kill me. I see him almost everyday and talk to him everyday so I'm afraid us not seeing each other all the time is going to change things for the worse. It's apparant that he has feelings for me too, he pretty much told my friend, but he still has feelings for his ex too. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know what to say and I wish I could tell him how I truely feel but I don't want to push him away or scare him. What should I do? Please help!
2007-08-06 03:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by *A* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell him
I did it once and it scared me to death and he pretty much rejected me but Im still alive and kicking :P
and we still talk a lot and now I have a wonderful boyfreind and Im over it and we still talk he moved in germany for a few months
so youll be far away in case he rejects you so you wont feel humiliated and the only thing that can be done is telling him how u feel and u know that
maybe he doesnt make his first move because youll be moving away so you cant exactly blame him for that
so just do it and get it done
best of luck
2007-08-06 03:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by ADA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has to know or have an inclination that you like him. Let's just leave it at that.
Since you are moving away - if it is meant to be and if he truly wants to try to work things out with you, he will still call you and you guys can visit each other once a month or so. I would not seriously talk to him about it unless he brings it up. Sort of mention that you hope nothing changes when you leave. Some men can get a little weird with distance.
We all have feelings for ex's. It is what we plan on doing with those feelings, that is the problem here. Definitely talk to him about it - face to face - about the ex.
2007-08-06 03:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this one day at the time, and see what becomes of your relationship. if you're not living that far from him, perhaps you could talk by phone, email or IM...and maybe visit each other from time to time.
you're young... enjoy life while you can, hon..... be happy you were able to meet this person and that he walked through your life. never know what will happen in the future.
hugs
2007-08-06 03:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell him, you will be glad you got it off your chest and he will thank you for it too. You wont be able to see him that much once school starts anyway. Better to be up front so that he doesn't get the wrong idea and end up with someone else.
2007-08-06 03:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should go up to him and ask hows he is doing and then after he tells you then you should ask if he has anything that he want to talk about and then tell him how you really fill about him ( right after he says it).
2007-08-06 03:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by A M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him.
let that do the talking for you.
you'l know if hes not ready or whatever if he pulls away
:)
2007-08-06 03:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Laura w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋