Singles & Dating - 30 July 2007

i always wanted to be a doctor. i'v got admission in med school that is 1 and a half hour drive from my home...so i have to live in a dorm...and i am not happy :(
god had given me the perfect opportunity but i am always depressed and sad. i can meet my boyfrend. its like i am living in hell :(
i dont know wat to do
i know i sound stupid but i feel soo unhappy ...cant even concentrate on my studies...my whole life is just falling apart !

2007-07-30 07:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by Sidu 4

Have you ever felt a little attracted to him? Is that normal?

2007-07-30 07:29:38 · 16 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1

ok me and this boy started out as the best of friends in september and at the beginning he hated me and i just dnt no y, he hates my guts, wont talk to me but he looks at me through english, geography, and in history he comes and sits on sam's chair, sam sits next to me. and i just dnt no wot to do. oh he sits on sam.

2007-07-30 07:29:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 07:29:10 · 1 answers · asked by somalika 1

I have known this girl for quite some time, we have never dated but we have been very close, a while back she was raped by someone of a popular family in the town, nobody believed her, i stuck with her as the whole town hated her, and eventually me too. We stuck together for a long time, we loved each other immensely, but recently when i confronted her that I loved her more then just friends, she didn't feel the same way now it hurts to see her, or hear her voice, she still wants to be friends, but the way I see it i have two choices:

1. Cut off all comunications with her, in an attempt to get over her, even though I love her...

or

2. Keep in touch with her as a constant reminder that I failed to win her love...

Any advice would be helpful, and i mean ANY...

2007-07-30 07:29:08 · 2 answers · asked by Gordon P 1

so im going away for the weekend with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 6 months now i love him and he love me.. he is a caring person attentive with me and he does not pressure me about sex... i was the one that mention it.. i am 20 and he is 22... so my question is 20 old enough to have sex.... i believe that i am ready but the only thing that is keeping me form having sex is the chances of me getting pregnant i have looked up different types on contraceptives but im still a little scare... any advice or anything....... i am not a person that believe that you should have sex until u are married..

please only serious answers
no if you are asking this question then you are not ready please none of that


10 points for the best answer possible...

thank you...

2007-07-30 07:26:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi,right this is gona b a proper long question,and know im prob gona be upset at sum answers cos people will prob tell me what i already know but dont wana hear if ya dig!!

right ive been kinda seein this guy since march,he has a daughter which was never a issue,he sees her once a fortnight and doesnt get on with baby mum!so we saw each other couple nights of week for couple of months,slept together etc etc,chilled together too and got on really well,but he always kinda made it clear that he was not lookin for a realationship YET.
so after couple of months i started to really really like him so thought best to stop seein him cos didnt wana get hurt.
so did this but he contacted me again and we started seein each other again then couple of weeks ago,we was gettin down to it! and i felt really uncomfortable cos it all seemed really like regimented in bedroom,so got all insecure,he went in mood and stormed out

2007-07-30 07:19:47 · 4 answers · asked by sharpay 1

I moved in with my ex who is also my best friend about a month ago.We are high school sweet hearts and first loves.Growing up trying to find ourselves we hurt each other a few times,he tried to work it out but I said no.Something came up financially and since he is my best friend I am now living with him.Feelings came back so I tried to verbally tell him how I feel.He says he still loves me too but likes this other girl that every one keeps telling him she most likely doesnt like him.I dont want to feel like im stepping on toes, but if he hasnt even told her that he even likes her after all these months that he shouldnt close of his options and at least try.Since we live together I try not to bring it up but it always seems to find its way in the convo.Im going to be here for another six months and I have a lot of pride so I feel like i might be begging.I dont if I should keep trying even though he likes this girl that only sees him as a friend. Any advice? Why doesnt he want to try?

2007-07-30 07:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy H 1

I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now and we've really connected well so far. We were talking the other night and he said he wanted our relationship to not only be "boyfriend-girlfriend" but also like best friends, like we could tell each other anything and be ourselves without worry. All that sounds pretty awesome but I'm scared to completely be myself around him because I'm so self-concious and I really like and admire him and I just want to keep him feeling the same about me..I'm scared to! Is that normal? What can I do?
Serious answers please :/

2007-07-30 07:15:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has to return to Paris to finish her MBA. Then she would like to move back to the US next summer (2008). Is it possible to make this relationship last for a year with limited visiting? I've been in many relationships before but never one tested with 3,500 miles between us. She's willing to make a go of it but I'm skeptical that it could work. Six months? Maybe. A year? I just don't know. A lot happens in a year.

2007-07-30 07:12:49 · 22 answers · asked by Pip L 1

Especially when you respect the lady and trying to gain her love and confidence.

2007-07-30 07:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by ASKER 3

a white guy, a black guy and a mexican are riding in a police car,, whos driving??

2007-07-30 07:08:15 · 1 answers · asked by bam 2

Ok, I am really confused. I am 15 and everyone around me is trying to get a boyfriend. Has a boyfriend. Or has had sex. I think this is ridiculous! I don't want children ever! My goal in life is to never have sex or get married. Everyone says that this is weird, but I dont think it is such a bad idea. I have even been considered gay. But, I am not trust me! Everyone says my opinons will change as I get older. But, I dont think they will. I am a horse crazy nut who has big plans for the future. Can you actually be happy without ever dating or having sex?

2007-07-30 07:07:38 · 18 answers · asked by !LoverofHorseysandPoniesGalore! 2

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little oveer a year now. We are both pretty serious about continuing our relationship to a higher level. When we first met we were just casual friends, and co-workers and he told me about his previous life when he lived in a different state. Long story short he has a friend they have been friends since high school and its now 10 years later they still keep in touch. I pushed away the jealous tendencies of a female and let her call the house and so on.
Recently I found out that at one point they were more than friends and if never in a serious relationship they were :friends with benefits". Now i feel uncomfortable with her calling my house. I explained it to him and her and after some bickering he came to understand my point of view.
It's been a couple of months since this conversation and she's emailing em wanting to talk to him . How do i nip this in the butt, and let him know that I am serious!!!!

2007-07-30 07:02:45 · 32 answers · asked by it's me again 2

ther is this guy i like .but i am not sure if he would be in to my or not.i am a blonde that likes video games , cars , music ,sports anime, and japan(i live in the USA)

2007-07-30 07:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by Emo Ninja 1

this guy and i had been holding hands and flirting alot. about 2 weeks or so then i heard he was going to ask me out.
Then out of the blue he ask out another girl everyone was surprised. but like a month later he was talking to my best friend and said he made a mistake and was dumb for going out with the other girl.
so what i am getting at is does that mean he likes me or not?

2007-07-30 06:58:58 · 21 answers · asked by C.W. 3

2007-07-30 06:58:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone please explain this to me...

Why do half the people on this message board talk down and act like they are so much better then the other half?

Most people when it comes to a real, honest sex question, simply respond with "you need to wait until marriage to have sex." This is a moot point because obviously they already had sex and want a real answer but instead get your lecture on waiting till marriage.

Then there are some other people that when teenagers come on the board and ask a dating question, they lecture about being too young to date. Not many people actually want to help people with their questions, they just want to lecture them about what is right and wrong.

Anyone else agree with me?

2007-07-30 06:55:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he blows me off alot to go hang with his friends but when i call his friends they say he was never there. does that mean he is cheating? please help

2007-07-30 06:49:11 · 29 answers · asked by lexii1993 2

what do i do my bf want to go all the way but i am not ready he said i dont have a choice and please dont tell me to dump him cus that is not a choice for me i am not that pretty and i dont get asked out often i am only 12 and i really dont want to go all the way yet please help!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-30 06:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you guys feel if your really close guy friend (who you knew liked you), broke off contact with you for three weeks?

2007-07-30 06:42:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sent him a message on myspace asking him if he wants to get together somethime,he replied right away with yes and then asked where I work because he said he was just being nosey. (i cut hair) so i replied with: 'why,do you need a haircut'?and now its been a day,he got the message and no reply. Is he interested in me? Why is it a big deal where i work?

2007-07-30 06:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by kelly k 1

i met this guy Joe at school (college), we was getting along fine and he really seemed like he liked me a lot. He told me he loved me and that I was beautiful and stuff. Well since the semester is over he went back to his home town and He has found him another girlfriend and hasn't even told me anything about it, I know for sure he has another girlfriend though. Before he left he told me he was gonna miss me so much, and he didnt think he could go all summer without seeing me.... well he is doing just fine without me....Do you think he really could have liked me, but he just wanted someone there to have sex with or something? Whats your opinion???

2007-07-30 06:36:08 · 2 answers · asked by what? 3

I have been dating this guy for almost three years. We have a child together. Some of his ex girlfriends have tired to contact him through email and some girls that live near us found his myspace and are contacting him. He don't tell them that he is in a relationship and that he has a kid and he acts like he is single when he is talking to this girls.. I have confronted him about this and he tells me that there is nothing going on that he is just talking to them but his attitude has changed. How can I tell if he is just scared to tell me that it is over or if it is just talking and that is it. I need some help I don't really know what to do. We had talked about marriage awhile back and I started planning things and now he doesn't seem like it really matters to him.

2007-07-30 06:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole B 1

should i follow my heart and go for aaron. or listen to my parents and dont talk to him and stay with my current boyfriend?? my parents found out that i was talking to aaron and didnt approve. but me and aaron went through alot. and there was too many tears and too many times that we had together to forget. we love each other to death and will die for each other. but nobody in the family on both sides want us to talk. my parents dont approve so wont let me talk to him. and even called his parents not to talk to me. my cousin bailed me out and told my mom that i was talking to him for 3 hrs at 12:00am. she got even more mad. i dont know wut the **** his problem is. but the problem that my parents have about aaron is that hes my cousins friend and my cousin warned me not to talk to him that it would cause drama...and hes 15 and im 12....and i started talking to him on myspace and was gonna meet him one day. but i love him to death and he loves me as much as i love him..HELP!

2007-07-30 06:34:11 · 24 answers · asked by snooky 1

I have recently found out that a significant ex lover of my partner has died, should I tell her?

2007-07-30 06:33:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often do women put up with no foreplay? I've heard some women don't even like it. Am I right?

2007-07-30 06:32:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy and we kind of started flirting w/o really being serious because I've been in a really long relationship with my boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Then we started hanging out and we just can't stop talking to eachother. We talk about everything. We always joke that even though we are really close it doesn't mean anything. But I know I have a crush on this guy and he said that he had a little crush on me. So I just want to know if this guy means it when he says we are just friends or if he's really looking for more like a lot of other people think. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend I just would like to know if he and I are on the same page.

2007-07-30 06:30:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did these 3 images n the quotes. I dedicate them all 2 thz community. What do you think of them? If the qoutes are original - I truly don't know, coz they came from the heart, I matched the thought with a beautiful pic and put them together.

Love starts with a smile ....
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What is more beautiful....
http://img71.imageshack.us/img71/7265/gbideaofloveqt0.jpg

Loneliness....
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2007-07-30 06:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told him i dont want to talk to him for some of his acts, but then i thought that ITS NOT SO BAD...i can deal with it. So i was the one who called him back... if that bad? is ge gonna think less of me? Dont you think if he really wanted me , he would have called me?

2007-07-30 06:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by figure v 1