Should I tell my partner?

Question

I have recently found out that a significant ex lover of my partner has died, should I tell her?

Answer 1

yes, because if she finds out that you know, then the situation will worsen.

But be prepared that she may be upset, but don't let it get to you

Answer 2

YES, when my ex passed away my husband was the one who delivered the news to me , it was hard not to show emotions but i loved him more4 being a man & understanding the fact that i loved my ex once upon a time & my ex was a person who i shared a lot with ........ so please go a head & do it

Answer 3

Yes...this is significant news that would be pertinent for her...if someone you once knew died, would you want to know? She will find out eventually...maybe you want her to miss the funeral?

Answer 4

Yes of course,it might be upsetting for her,but its hard thing to get over.If you respect her and care about her you should tell her.

Answer 5

Sure. You have to trust each other. Don't worry if she gets upset. We often have good memories even though we move on.

Answer 6

yes I think she would want to know . I mean she should still have the right to speak to the family and send her condolences . I think she would appreciate it .

Answer 7

yes even though it was there ex they still have the right to know

Answer 8

Perhaps you should before she learns from someone else who might not be as sympathetic, if you see what i mean.

Answer 9

Er yeah. She/he'll kick your backside if you don't and they later found out you knew!

Answer 10

Yes cause you sud.the decent thing to do