should i follow my heart and go for aaron. or listen to my parents and dont talk to him and stay with my current boyfriend?? my parents found out that i was talking to aaron and didnt approve. but me and aaron went through alot. and there was too many tears and too many times that we had together to forget. we love each other to death and will die for each other. but nobody in the family on both sides want us to talk. my parents dont approve so wont let me talk to him. and even called his parents not to talk to me. my cousin bailed me out and told my mom that i was talking to him for 3 hrs at 12:00am. she got even more mad. i dont know wut the **** his problem is. but the problem that my parents have about aaron is that hes my cousins friend and my cousin warned me not to talk to him that it would cause drama...and hes 15 and im 12....and i started talking to him on myspace and was gonna meet him one day. but i love him to death and he loves me as much as i love him..HELP!
2007-07-30 06:34:11 · 24 answers · asked by snooky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are 12, you have to listen to your parents. You have to depend on them for food shelter and clothing!!
2007-07-30 06:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you don't want to hear this but to be honest with you, you are only 12 years old. You don't know what love is yet. You said there were too many tears and too many times that you had together to forget. You are only 12 years old, how many can you possibly have? No, both of you will not die for each other. You will agree with me when you are much older. Now? I know you want to kick me in the behind and you want to yell at me. You want to tell me that you do know what love is and that age doesn't mean anything when it comes to love. I was like that too when I was your age. If I were you I would listen to my parents. Your parents are there to protect you. They know a lot more than you do. They have been through so many life experiences that you can't even imagine. No, you do not know everything yet. You are still learning. You will live and learn. Good luck.
2007-07-30 06:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have never met this boy before? I wouldn't hang yourself up over him-while I am all for the love of your life this is complicated and it will be hard for you to be with Aaron and have everyone's approval. You are only 12-he is 15...you are going to go through many more skinned knees through ought your middle school & high school years. This should be something to learn from, yes it will be hard but you have to let go and if he comes back in time then don't ignore it ...but right now listen to your parents and family and stay with your current boyfriend...as long as it's ok with you. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do.
2007-07-30 06:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweety. See I understand ur problem. It happens to everyone in this age. Its casual. But still u 2 are not matured still. I won't say that, you should not talk with aaron. But you should be in ur limit i.e. upto a close friendship and not lover. Becos this age doesnot give the right solution for future specially for love.
At the same time, your parents are wrong. He he first you tell me whether u guys got any physical relationship too? If not then its good. Please dont have it now. Wait for 3 to 4 years then try for that. It doesn't matter.
Be in touch with aaron as a friend. express ur feelings as like a friend and not like a lover. Becos boys try to have a sex first when he get impressed by any girl.
Anyway all the best for your future. I think u might be learning in school. It's better concentrate in school. Meanwhile enjoy with him too. (with sweet kisses to him).
Bye and take care
2007-07-30 06:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
12 AND 15???? You may think you know what love is but believe me.... you don't. You and Aaron are not mature enough yet. Listen to your parents. They are wiser and much more mature. They may know something about him that you don't. Your cousin warned you about drama if you talked to him.... what do you think this is? Listen to your parents.... you will have many, many, many more boyfriends before you are ready to get serious about anyone.
2007-07-30 06:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by happi2bwu2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12 for crying out loud! Go play with your dolls and leave the adult stuff to the adults! I feel your parents are a little nuts in the 1st place to be allowing you to even date at your age.. You have no clue what life or love is about yet..
2007-07-30 07:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you, but a 12 year old is too young to have a 15 year old boyfriend. When you are 20, you will understand how much you have grown and what a difference those few years make.
2007-07-30 06:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to be mean but i agree with your parents!!! i would listen to them you might hate it now but trust me i went through the same thing!! i dated my best friend, i was so so in love, he was the best, but my parents thought he was no good and turns out after high school, they were right about him!!! you are really young to talk about love, and i would just move on from this crush there are more boys out there and chances are your not going to meet the guy you marry in high school! so don't dwell on it! just respect your parents wishes it will make your life a lot lot lot easier down the road when you really need your parents trust to do stuff!!!
good luck!
2007-07-30 06:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should listen to your parents and family expecially your cousin since hes that guys friend.. maybe he knows something about him that you dont and dont want you to get hurt... and hes 3yr older than you so maybe your parents have a problem with it. and your kinda to young to love someone that much. you still have a long while to be meeting new ppl through life.
2007-07-30 06:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE listen to your parents. They know what they are doing and they are the ONLY people in your life who want to do what is best for you all the time. They have only your interests at heart, Whoever you meet in life will never be able to give you that 100% support so please be guided by them . Stick to being with your girl friends and enjoying being a girl - forget about boys, whoever they are , you have plenty of time for that complication in your life.
2007-07-30 06:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very young, you should consider the things that your family is saying. not to sound like your parents but as someone else is young but older than you it might not even be love that your experiencing. someday in the near future and look back on it not with regret but with laughter that you were so distraught! my advice is just to really think about what your parents are saying to you. good luck!!
2007-07-30 06:43:26 · answer #11 · answered by floppydisk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋