he blows me off alot to go hang with his friends but when i call his friends they say he was never there. does that mean he is cheating? please help
2007-07-30 06:49:11 · 29 answers · asked by lexii1993 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if he is not cheating he is LYING his **** off and that should be a sign that you need to get rid of the fool!
2007-07-30 07:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tom T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely yes because if he is telling u that he is with his friends and when u call is friends phone and they tell u that he never been here which means he is lying to u about where hes been and he is trying to use his friends as an alibi because between u and me i no a lot of my male friends use that excuse and don't be no where around they guy friends they be out on a double date with me or do-in other things if u no what i mean but u should also ask him what him and his friends was do-in then if he tells u what they where do-in then just b like well when i called your friends and ask for u, they said that u wasn't there so where were u
2007-07-30 14:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not cheating he's certainly lying and thats not good either! Tell him you know he has not been where he says he has been and ask for an explanation. Lying is never good, it shows a total lack of respect for you. Cheating is only one step further down the same line.
2007-07-30 13:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by rachielewis1971 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm he blows you off all the time, and when you talk to his friends he's not there...he is probably cheating on you!
2007-07-30 14:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could but this is a poor way to find out. No one on Answers knows the two of you enough to answer. From what little you've said I would believe he is cheating, but I have no way of knowing. There are much better ways to find out, but do not let him waste your time. If he can't appreciate you, then someone out there can. So you need to find out from him or from any real method open to you, but find out. I hope this helps.
2007-07-30 13:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that could mean that he's cheating but don't jump to conclusions yet, wait till you get some real info that he was with another girl then you'll know for sure.
2007-07-30 13:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, there is your proof that he indeed is up to no good. His own friends are telling you he is really not with them...what else do you want to know....just right there ...he is not only a cheater but also a liar.Now ,is up to you .you decide if you want to put up with that crap or not. You deserve better than that. the first time you a victim and the second time your a volunteer.
2007-07-30 14:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Canela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I would say most likely yes, either cheating, or lying to you as an excuse to get some time apart for whatever reason, either way, it is NOT good that he is lying to you.. speak to him about this FAST.
2007-07-30 13:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. You need to sit down with him and ask him what's up. I dont know if he's cheating but he dosent sound like he's being honest. Sorry I am not much help but I dont know his character or yours.
2007-07-30 13:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter really does it? He is clearly lying about where he goes and what he is doing. You should get clear of his lies and deceit as soon as possible. Find a man you can trust...even when it is bad news.
2007-07-30 13:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Witchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋