Singles & Dating - 30 July 2007

Ok,i'm 16 and I'm a virgin! i have been with my boyfriend(19) for about one year.He's not a virgin and wants me to have sex with him.My first problem is my family,if they found out they would kill me because it not ok with my culture! My friends told me just do it,and nobody will know but I'm so scared ,I know its gonna be so painful for the first time and it hurts female so much ! I dont want to loose my boyfriend cause I do love him and I think its time to do it now! Most of the girls in our school are having sex , So I was wondering why cant i have sex with my bf?!? What should I do? I really want to be happy with my boy but my parents do not let me :( Can I trust my friends and just loose it?!?

Thanks for ur advices~

2007-07-30 09:02:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he told me he loved me and i was the best girlfriend he had ever had...right before he broke up with me. he said he just got tired of me and maybe in a couple of months we could go back out. a week later he said he couldnt stop thinking about me. and of course it was the same for me.do u think he really likes me and how do i get him back. its really sad but i still love him.

2007-07-30 09:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie H 1

That’s a statement, not a question

2007-07-30 08:59:14 · 27 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1

What should I do?

2007-07-30 08:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by sugarplum 3

2007-07-30 08:57:57 · 1 answers · asked by 408 1

need some ideas, I am tired of the routine.thanks in advance!

2007-07-30 08:38:14 · 2 answers · asked by Canela 3

so i was talkin to this guy for a few months and we hung out quite a few times and went out a few times- well the last time we went out was like a double date with my friend and her b/f. well after having some drinks we decided to go back to my place and hang out for a little bit- well i hadnt eaten dinner and i got sick because i drink too much- and i never do so i was really embaressed- well he went home that night and everything was fine- i havnt talked to him since and it was a week ago- so im not sure what to think- everything was fine before and i think it would be really immature for a guy to not talk to me cause i got sick- what do you think?? im asking again so i can also tell you- i have tried to call him but he didnt return my call

2007-07-30 08:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by ADNAMA 1

2007-07-30 08:32:55 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would u ever get back with ur exboyfriend if he cheated on u with a girl or a guy!?

2007-07-30 08:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by **spoiled ** 1

This guy told me he liked me alot after i told him i liked him. We would be dating but he just hasnt asked me yet and i told him i wont ask him so he said he will when the time is right. A week later he has a girlfriend. How can guys do this dont they care about anyone but themselves???

2007-07-30 08:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by Nessa 2

this guy that you are totally into...doesn't email you or talk to you for 6 days. Here is the situation...I am in a class with this guy. We have never really talked before in person, just a tiny tiny bit over the internet. Last tuesday, i facebooked him but still haven't gotten a response. Should i let it go...or what?

PLEASEEEE HELP!!! I'm desperate.

2007-07-30 08:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by iluvsummer'07 1

2007-07-30 08:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend and I have always had feelings toward eachother. Even though we were with other people before (he has 2 kids not w/ me). We have had sex numerous times. But when we tried explaing our feelings to one another we just didn't believe eachother as odd as it sounds. Before he left to Iraq we had a disagreement. But a week before he left I poured out my feelings to him and confessed my deepest love (over the phone he was in Forthood). I cried and he had never expierenced anything like it from me before. Then he kind of cried and also confessed to me. He said he wished it would of happened long before. We talked everyday and all night long until the day he left. He also told me that he wasn't going to ask me to wait for him until he got back but it was good if I did. And I sure have waited!!! I love him so much. When he first left I didn't hear from him at all until he was on leave and came down for 10 days. We hung out. he doesn't want to hear much about love now :( so idk.

2007-07-30 08:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by toughcookie 2

2007-07-30 08:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by philly bob 1

My fiancée kissed another guy a few days ago and begged for forgiveness (which i did cos i'm crazy about her) but she can't give me a valid reason for doing it.

The best she can come up with is, sometimes i wish i wasn't so 'tied up' so young. What does this mean?

2007-07-30 08:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by liam316 2

Ive been going out with this guy for about 2 months. Im 15 and hes 16. We are having sex and see each other at least every other day. Weve never talked about our relationship. I dont know if im his girlfriend or even if were dating exclusively. Weve never met each others parents (which i guess isnt a big deal) but i want to be his girlfriend and date exclusivley. im afraid if i talk to him about it, itll scare him.
Do you think its too soon for me to talk to him about it? plus i dont know what to say to him. please help me

2007-07-30 08:15:30 · 14 answers · asked by Ash 1

ok so i have this new boyfriend & he's great... i love to bring him places with me. he takes interest in the things that are important to me. he knows i love church and he wants to go with me. problem is... my ex-boyfriend goes 2 my church. we're still really close friends..we usually sit together and hang out sometimes. i dont want either one of them to feel uncomfortable... advice???

2007-07-30 08:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by **CHRIST*a rock that is higher** 2

I like this guy and he seems to like me also. I am not so sure though. He says he flirts alot but the people that he flirts with he doesn't kiss them. So is he just using me or what?! He does whatever i ask him to. i am really confused!

2007-07-30 08:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbelle 1

I recently started dating a boy from work about a month ago. He's Mexican and I'm Caucasian. He speaks some English & I speak some Spanish so we make it work when we're together. I go to school 2 hours away and have to go back in a week. We really care for each other and he recently told me he wanted to try to make it work while I'm at school. I do too but we have trouble understanding each other on the phone. We text message each other but I'm afraid that won't be enough to stay close while I'm away. I'll only be able to return about once a month and he'll only be able to visit me about once a month. Any tips on how to remain close despite the distance & cross our language barrier?

2007-07-30 07:58:39 · 4 answers · asked by Erica!! 3

mine was i was 13 i was rollerblading home and i was just standing outside my doorway before i went inside and my worst enemy saw me with 2 friends he started cursing at me and came up to me his friend went behind me and grabbed my hands while my enemy took the hose that was on the ground and tried to use it but it didn't work so i saw the opportunity and i kicked the guy holding me with the rollerblades right on his foot then turned around and hit him in the face he went down then i went after the enemy i kind of like speared him and kicked him in the nuts with the rollerblades and then kicked him in the mouth with the rollerblade and he started to bleed. the 3rd guy didn't do anything he just ran away. after that anytime i saw my enemy if i was alone he would jump me with his friends if he was alone i would jump him with mine. it went on for another 2 years until he moved away. i'll never forgot that fight it was one of my greatest physical fights. he was also a bully in school....

2007-07-30 07:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should you get married so stupid boys don't flirt with you and touch you, etc?

2007-07-30 07:51:04 · 24 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

Heres the situation. I'm 26 female and hes 25. We met on eharmony back in april. He lives an hour and 45mins away from me. We've been on three dates. Talk, and text eachother throughout our day. He wants to move fast and I dont. He gets annoyed when I cant meet up with him because I have errands and stuff to do after work, and thats a far drive to do after 5pm. I'm not ready for sex with him yet. It seems so difficult already. I think hes awesome and cute and funny and handsome. We click when we talk, he lets me know everything hes thinking. I'm having issues with him living far away from me. I havent told him that. Just seems we cant be a normal couple if he lives an hour and 45 mins away from me. I'm guarded with my feelings still with him. My question to u is what should I do, and what do you think i'm doing??

2007-07-30 07:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1

2007-07-30 07:47:05 · 11 answers · asked by dynamic1980 1

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and our relationship has been good but now it is falling apart slowly, we don't even have any romance maybe once every two weeks, the love isn't there anymore and we rarely communicate and sure don't go places anymore, it isn't him that is the problem it is me, it is like my interest in him have faded away. On the other hand I met this guy from the internet that I am truly interest in but one thing about him he is not ready for a relationship, he is a laid back person just chilling and taking his time, we see each other every now and then. I have to continously bother him by calling him and texting him just to come over to see him and when i text him things that surely not related to sex he will not respond. If I text him regarding doing romantic things he will respond in no time. Am I just wasting my time? Do he seems like he is just trying to get and easy piece of you know what? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

2007-07-30 07:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3

One of my male friends said....and I quote....."I will never commit to any woman. I will be single forever". Well, he just called me and told me that he now has a girlfriend. I'm happy for him, but I'm jealous in the same sense. Now, out of all my friends, I am the only single one! I'm 26 and I've never been in a long term relationship. I'm starting to think that there is something wrong with me. This can't be normal! I'm not as picky as I used to be, but I think that I should be somewhat choosy when it comes to potential boyfriends. As long as they approach me respectfully, I will give any man who approaches me a chance unless they are way older than me, or the same height as me. I feel like a loser. Does anyone have anything positive to say to me to make me feel better? What can I do other than wear a shirt that says "I'm single!"??? I don't want to be single anymore!

2007-07-30 07:40:54 · 4 answers · asked by Nicky 2

How can i become a good kisser??? do you have tips i can use when kissing??? please respond!!!!!

2007-07-30 07:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHY can't it be the other way around ?! women fought HOW LONG for equal rights ??? EXCERSISE THEM ! ! !

2007-07-30 07:35:14 · 7 answers · asked by Provocative 3

2007-07-30 07:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ Try to ♥ 2

i heard from many people that americans treat people from kuwait as terrorists

2007-07-30 07:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy puts his arm over you while u were walking. how would that make you feel? would it get you mad? will you push away?
answer honestly plz.

2007-07-30 07:32:08 · 42 answers · asked by GOW insane 2