I moved in with my ex who is also my best friend about a month ago.We are high school sweet hearts and first loves.Growing up trying to find ourselves we hurt each other a few times,he tried to work it out but I said no.Something came up financially and since he is my best friend I am now living with him.Feelings came back so I tried to verbally tell him how I feel.He says he still loves me too but likes this other girl that every one keeps telling him she most likely doesnt like him.I dont want to feel like im stepping on toes, but if he hasnt even told her that he even likes her after all these months that he shouldnt close of his options and at least try.Since we live together I try not to bring it up but it always seems to find its way in the convo.Im going to be here for another six months and I have a lot of pride so I feel like i might be begging.I dont if I should keep trying even though he likes this girl that only sees him as a friend. Any advice? Why doesnt he want to try?
2007-07-30 07:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you've already told him once.. theres no need to keep bringing it up.. he knows how you feel and if he feels the same he would have let you know.. you just need to control your feelings about him and find someone else.
2007-07-30 07:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is clear to him, the confusion is in YOUR head. He took you back out of consideration and concern he still feels for you. Take advantage of that but don't try to impose your yourself on him more than you already have. He has the right to see anyone he wishes and it is not up to you to decide if the person he is seeing is good for him or not. Don't confuse love with the helping hand he decided to extend to you. Remember that men have different 'feelings' than woman do when it comes to 'love'. Clear the air first before both of you end up more hurt than the first time you broke up.
2007-07-30 14:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him if you 2 can get back? Maybe you need to let go of your pride and be forward with him. If he tells you no, then it's no and leave it at that. Maybe he hasn't asked the other girl because he's scared of being rejected or feels something else he's not sure of. But don't worry about her, ask him about you two. Let him deal with the other girl on his own.
2007-07-30 14:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry your life is so messed up that you would be considering staying with a guy who admits he has someone else he wants to be with. A strong person would move on. Give it a try.
2007-07-30 14:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋