Singles & Dating - 25 May 2007

is he just not into me or what?
i dont want to call him cause i dont want to sound needy or desperate

2007-05-25 20:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 (male) and have been "hanging out" with this girl for months, having now blindly taken a step toward dating. I say "blindly" because I like her and all, but I'm not physically attracted to her. But she is head over heels for me! She wants to hold hands, kiss, make lots of bodily contact, while I just enjoy her company and making her happy, but not feeling any passion for her. Yet I keep relenting and basically leading her on into getting what she wants, while all I would rather do is just be friends.

Now at the same time, there is another girl I met this year to whom I am extremely attracted, and dream of dating. She seems to be interested in me, and I want to pursue her, but am afraid of hurting the girl who likes me. On top of this, the girl I'm currently "with" really looks down on the girl I like, and I know she would be crushed if I ditched her for the girl that I have the hots for.

I'm torn between the girl that I like and the girl that I want to love. Any advice

2007-05-25 20:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by Justin M 2

my boyfriend and i are near the end of high school and we have been going out for about a year. he asked me to marry him, but when i couldnt say anything he got mad and said forget it i love him but i think its a little too soon. i want to go to college!! what do i do and say to him!!! please help!!

2007-05-25 20:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by bubbles2994 2

I have tried dating other people...and it hasn't worked. After six months of being broken up with him... i still think about him daily. is this norma;??? we only dated for a year and a half...but i was very in love with him. he was my best friend.

2007-05-25 20:15:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

for attention? People always seem to like me at first because I am nice and talkative. then I notice some people resenting me and calling me names like a brownnoser and an attention whore..I feel like I am just very social but this has been coming up since Highschool and now that i am a junior in college I want it to stop.

2007-05-25 19:56:18 · 15 answers · asked by happygolucky 6

Im just to embarrassed to talk to should i just be brave and tell her?

2007-05-25 19:54:11 · 1 answers · asked by garshion_diredeath 2

2007-05-25 19:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is it that they just feel like they can blame it on the booze later?

2007-05-25 19:46:43 · 22 answers · asked by heaven1904 2

It certainly doesn't attract all girls; but why would someone who drives a Mercedes garner more attention for girls than someone who drives a Corolla?

Is the answer really as simple as "because the guy with the Mercedes has more money" or is it more complicated because you can say the guy with the Merc has more class and taste?

2007-05-25 19:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my guy friend are ever so close as of 3 mo. ago. We keep in touch all da time. I support him in everything he does. Today he str8 up told me 'I love you'. He knows I support him 100%. I told him I love him too. I wonder if he is loving me as more than a friend too. Usually he says 'I got alot of love for you' or 'I got much love for you'. I tell him right back. I want to know what to do. Because I don't know what to do. Yea I like him, I just wonder often if he likes me? What is your opinion?

2007-05-25 19:44:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it bad for the health if you make love in the water.

2007-05-25 19:41:14 · 18 answers · asked by tellay 2

2007-05-25 19:40:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife has this ex that she says was really horrible to her and she claimed to hate him. about 6 months before we married i found a text message from him saved to her phone from him saying basically that he will always love her. it was the only message she had saved. i have some serious trust issues and she knows this and i almost left her over it. she said she was stupid and that he was moving away. she swore to me that he would be out of our lives for good and begged me to forgive her. she even changed her phone #. i recently found her myspace page(that she neglected to tell me about) and discovered that they have been talking back and forth again and he has even been to her work. I feel very betrayed and even though it seems extreme to someone outside the situation im considering ending our relationship. i have lost trust in her completely and have become obsessed with wondering what else she could be hiding from me. advise please!!!

2007-05-25 19:38:31 · 13 answers · asked by speedy 2

will she be grossed out im 5-7 200 shes 5-2 110 im alot bigger than her and i want to do this but i just want her to be grossed out what should i do

2007-05-25 19:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by AaronR 1

2007-05-25 19:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

On one hand, I have a lot of compassion for you [though it may come out totally wrong] and I care about you, definitely want to support you and all that. I like when you are around and I think you are very sweet. I want you in my life, I want to be friends and I want to have the option of more than friends. I feel butterflies when you kiss me and when I read your letters [the nice ones at least]. I love that you want to communicate, how open and honest you are. I love your art and you have great taste in music, politics, everything really. I really do like you and your amazing qualities. You are most definitely a great catch.

On the other hand, I'm scared to look you in the eye [this is so rare for me], a lot of things I say to you come out wrong or twisted and I have a hard time thinking when you are around. My view on us is distorted because of an imbalance in our relationship. I feel like I was given too much power in needing to decide what 'we' would be.. when i just wanted to be with you without constraints. I don't know why we have to be all or nothing, it's so black and white - i cant commit to only you because it would be unfair to you [since i dont want to be monogamous] i cant handle not having you at all, I want to be friends, I want you in my life. I wish you would come around to this and realize that neither of us are going to get what we want, we need to find some common ground - a place where we meet in the middle. Our differences aren't huge enough to keep us apart, there are many more positive than there are negative [at least in my eyes]. While we can't have a monogamous relationship, I still want to continue to care about you and to receive your respect. I still want to hang out with you and sleep next to you. I still want to talk to you and know how you are doing.

BUT... it seems that you don't want to come to meet me half-way... maybe you are considering this, or maybe you want to drop me completely from your life. I think this may be true, but I hope not.
I know you have yet again ignored me and you want to 'move on', but if you find yourself willing to let down your wall please let me know - because I am more than willing to work something out.

2007-05-25 19:20:36 · 8 answers · asked by HeckofaDude 2

Ive been dating this guy for 8 months and i know his real attitude when his drunk he could be the bad guy ever on earth. his very naughty esp. if his with his friends.

But if his not drunk his very nice to me and very sweet.
so that means i love his company if his not drunk.

But sometimes we go out with his friends and you cannot take away from him not to drink. so he act very stupid when his drunk, why guys when there drunk they change or they become monster and started to do crazy staff.

I hate him when his drunk but i still go out with him.

And i love him if he is not drunk. we go along together very well.

2007-05-25 19:20:12 · 12 answers · asked by tellay 2

A Lot of girls on here say shyness is cute but would u really date a shy guy over an outgoing guy. please be honest

2007-05-25 19:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

This might sound like a stupid question, but I don't know what to think. Here's the situation in a nutshell: I was in a very serious relationship with my son's father and broke it off, knowing that I was not happy with him and was "settling" for what I thought was all I could get. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need to be happy again so I can feel good about myself and be a better mom. I am going out with a guy from work tomorrow night, a date I guess, and my son's uncle (his dad's brother) keeps telling me it isn't going to work out with him and he's going to disappoint me. Me and my son's uncle are truely best friends, can talk about anything. I understand he just wants to see me happy, but he insists this guy is going to hurt me (emotionally). He just "has a feeling". It's not because he wants to date me, and he's happy that I broke up with my ex, I just can't understand why he is saying this. Details...

2007-05-25 19:07:20 · 5 answers · asked by Just Me 7

Ok so it's the first week in uni and we're on the bus.This girl sits next to me who i have to admit i thought was really hot the moment i saw her which was bout a few days back.We start talkin , get to know each other and it was a pretty long ride of bout and hour and a half.The more we talked the more we made each other smile.And since we were sitting next to each other our faces were real close and she was giving me this dreamy,ALMOST sensual smile,like u know her head resting on the seat cushion.Then just b4 we reach uni she tells me that i smile like a certain actor and turns around and smiles and says that was a compliment.Was this flirting or just normal beggining of the term making new friends chit chat?Shud i make a move on this girl?Or im just so confused

P.S. if I shud make a move any tips on how

2007-05-25 19:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Rida 3

i ****** up my relationship with my girlfriend. weve been going out for 5 months and things have been going well but in the last few days everything has gone to hell she even suggested that i leave for a few days but i dont have anywhere to go. she thinks that ive been a total dick and i have but she doesnt want to talk about it no matter how many times i try. i feel like im doing all the talking. i feel like its a onesided relationship. i know i ****** up but i need her support to change my way of life ive already changed so much already, more then she knows. she dont understand thats its not that easy. and latley shes been talking to this guy who we both know is madly in love with her and its makeing me uncomfortable she says its just to talk about the problems with me but i dont know

2007-05-25 18:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-25 18:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just made out with my girlfriend and was with her for about 2 hours. Probably for about an hour or more we were making out which lead to an erection for nearly the whole time. Now my testicle hurts really bad if i touch or move it. Is this ok? or is there something wrong?

2007-05-25 18:48:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a "mature chick" and have never been outstandingly pretty. A bit fuller-figured and not a "glossy girl". What I'm wondering is, from the male viewpoint, why do men (of all ages) still come on to me/ask me out? I'm friendly but not suggestive. Doesn't my age make men - especially younger guys - less interested? I'm not complaining! Just curious how men REALLY feel about older women.

2007-05-25 18:47:59 · 24 answers · asked by alterego 2

I heard this somewhere "when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted" Is that true? theres this guy I like and he likes me, but we can't get into a relationship at the moment..but at the beginning he'd always contact me, but now we ALWAYS talk... do you think if i play a lil hard to get for a few days (it is abnormal for us not to talk on a daily basis) it will make him more interested in me? What do you think?

2007-05-25 18:45:44 · 28 answers · asked by Lena 1

When I like a guy, I often find myself googling anything I can about them instead of asking them myself. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months and although I feel close to him I still like checking what he writes in different discussion forums. He does not know I do this. Should I stop, am I a stalker, should I tell him? I am not sure why I do it. I guess it makes me feel close to him when he isn't there.

2007-05-25 18:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5

I have always been fairly heavy throughout my life, and at the moment I am 5'9'' and I have held steady at 200 lbs. [finally an end to the yo-yo-ing of my weight?]

However, it is extremely embarassing to step on a scale. Friends, coworkers, and classmates all believe I weigh FAR LESS than I actually do -> Almost always about 30-50 less than my actual weight.

Are there certain characteristics that you think may be the reason that people *think* I look skinner than I am?

[Curious]

2007-05-25 18:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.

2007-05-25 18:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-25 18:31:55 · 8 answers · asked by KiaClaire 3

It absolutely drives me i nsane. I'd rather hear "youre a crazy ***** and i'm leaving you because i hate you" than that.

2007-05-25 18:29:48 · 25 answers · asked by GCTA 4