I'm 28, and I've been dating a girl for almost 3 months. We get on pretty well, but I'm not sure if I'm ready to get serious with her. When we started dating she said she was 33, and although I've never dated an older woman, I decided to give it a try, since it wasn't that huge of a difference. The other night, she drunkenly confessed that she is actually 37! She said she lied because she was afraid I'd freak out and not date her. This DID freak me out, since I thought 5 years was a lot! I don't know if I can handle a 9 year difference, and I'd like a family someday, but not really anytime soon. I feel like we're on totally different life schedules. I feel shallow now that her age matters, but if I'd known at the beginning I don't think I'd have gotten involved. Thoughts anyone?
2007-05-25
14:16:26
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Ashton
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