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I understand that we all get to a "comfort" level with someone, but it it starting to seem like my girl is getting to, well "comfortable." Is this how you are and is ok to an extent?

2007-05-25 14:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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yes, it's always a good sign when we are comfortable around someone else.

2007-05-25 14:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0 0

surely, i'm a lot older than you and that i have been with the help of this with a number of adult men. (I look interested in the person style). My adventure? They boost out of it. with the help of the time they're of their Nineteen Twenties and commence to handle more advantageous household initiatives the leisure drug use starts to decelerate and almost thoroughly stop. it really is a element youngsters do. My present day boyfriend at present turned right into a wide nonstop pothead in intense college, and now he does each now and then use like a pair of times a 365 days. yet it truly is all. He has an finished time pastime and a pair of youngsters so he fairly won't be able to attempt this anymore.

2016-11-27 19:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Yes there is a good percentage of women who balloon out when they get comfortable, it's a damn shame... MOST people usually start dating a person AT FIRST for their physical attractions (before they actually pick up on their personality), so it's a bit sad that women don't feel it necessary to keep up on their appearance, I believe this to be one of the top reasons why men start looking elsewhere for romance, Men picked their mate because they appeared at first to care about their physique, and now look...no peanut butter, but all that jelly!!! Booooooo!

2007-05-25 14:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I definitely was. As soon as my man said "I do" I gained 20 pounds of so called happy weight. I got comfortable because I no longer felt like I had to impress my man with my physical appearance.Boy, was I wrong. I now realize that what I did in the beginning to get him is exactly the same thing I needed to do to keep him. I would be pissed and look outside of our marriage if he got man boob's so I had to do my thing and lose the love handles.It's okay to gain a little, but keep your partner interested by keeping him or her physically attracted to you.

2007-05-25 14:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Christina S 2 · 0 0

Guys get like that too so don't even try to pin it on all of us women.

I admit I've let myself go a little but damn, I can be a busy girl...and lazy to boot. Time, energy, choices, even how much I can afford affects my eating habits. Now you, lay off that damn beer and those pretzels. You're getting a beer belly.

Pigs.

2007-05-25 14:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No, I'm not like that. I like my body, it is important to me to have a great body. I do it for myself, not for "my man" or to get a man.

My observation is that guys are even worse in that regard, on average. Love handles and a beer belly is a sure sign of a married man.

2007-05-25 14:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0 0

It really depends, actually. Sometimes, yes. We feel so secure with that person, and trust that person so much, that we feel it doesn't matter. If you've said, 'I love you' there's a trigger. She feels it'll take a lot for you to leave her, so she isn't working as hard to keep her. It's actually a huge self-esteem booster on both parts (it should be, anyway.)

2007-05-25 14:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0 0

I would care more about what I eat because I would want to look good for my man.

♥ xoxo

2007-05-25 14:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by em<3 6 · 0 0

i never care about what i eat i am very athletic sooo i know i am not gonna get fat!!!
if a guy has a problem with how much i eat i am still gonna eat i am always comfortable about eating!!!
anyways yeah idk about other girls tho!!!
but if you took me out trust me i would eat!!!

xoxo

2007-05-25 14:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

because after a while its no more need for the "chase" because you alreadly like us (or should) for whats inside and our habits should help you become closer to us to stregthen the bond

2007-05-25 14:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by LuvaBaby08 1 · 0 0

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