What do women like to do on a first date? ladies only?

Question

what do you like to do on a first date? name three things that are at the top of your list.

Answer 1

Go to a place like Starbucks or a simple restaurant so you can talk and get to know each other, preferably a lunch date as it is more likely to get a yes than a dinner date for a first date.

I would also suggest a double date so you get to know each other in a group like setting and you may each know someone and be more casual and comfortable.

You can go to a public place like a park if you are both into riding bikes or rollerblading or a simple walk, if the girl is comfortable with that.

Movies are not my first choice for a first date as you cannot really talk or get to know someone.

Have fun with your first date... Smile and look at her in the eyes to let her know you are interested. Be yourself.

Answer 2

Movies is an idea. you cant go wrong there....taking her to a nice restaurant is always good... you guys will have a change to take and get to know each other better...I am love to do fun things like go bowling or go to Dave&busters or a gameworks.... Go for a walk on the beach... But to be safe i would probably go with the movies because that way while you are waiting for the movie to start you can find out what kind of things she likes and you can use that for the second date.

Answer 3

I like to get to know the guy. So take her to do something that you like, that way you will feel comfortable and more apt to be yourself. But please don't tell her how many times you've been there or with whom. If you do, don't be coy about it. We hate to hear about your past life without asking you. We more or less want your life to begin with us (if we are into you), if not, we don't give a damn what you say as long as it's not disrespectful.

Another good view is to take her to a comfortable spot that way you won't get the fake her, some people need a little push to be themselves. You want to be able to talk to her while not being to personable. Smaller restaraunts sometimes do the trick where there is walking room and soft music.

You may even want to do something exotic like try a new italian/mexican/indian/thai restaraunt. That way you can create a new exprience together (kinda hard to hide behind this one too).

I guess my real point is to try get to know her asap to make it easy for you both if you don't want to get together again.

Answer 4

Im a Jr. in high school... As a 16 yr old I like to know that a guy knows me. If you know anything about her at all, like whats her favorite color, whats her favorite animal, what does she like to do (soccer, dance, etc), tie those things into the date so that she knows that your trying. If none of that sounds right just stick to dinner and a movie, or if you want to get more personal with her lunch at a park, and go skating. Just tie something fun into it so that she will remember it...

My current boyfriend of 3 years, for our first date took me to a dog shelter to brush and feed dogs, because he knew I absolutley adored dogs... && see I still remember it! AFTER THREE YEARS! good luck... and remember just have fun!

Answer 5

Walk on the beach in the moonlight under the stars talking about anything and everything, taking a hike to a waterfall or pretty scenic area and having a picinic, go out to dinner to the melting pot and just be silly and carry on a conversation over fondue.

Answer 6

On my first date, I took my man out to eat and we just conversed. We talked more about ourselves and our likes and dislikes. We also kissed but only on da cheeks. And we did not have sex because that's a bad first impression. You want to get to know the person more, so that later on in the relationship, you wouldn't have to worry about the other person wantin to be with you only for sex. After all, sex is sex. It does not have to be "good' if the person is in need of any type of pussy or any type of dick, so don't ever let that be an impression!

Answer 7

Well...
Dinner is always very nice. You can talk and eat. Don't rush. Just stretch it out. As soon as the meal is over, you don't have to get up and leave....stay a while...order a dessert.

After dinner, maybe ask her where she'd like to go (I like to go to the bar so I can dance). If she doesn't know have ideas ready to suggest and give her a choice (movie, dancing...). Avoid going to your house or hers (unless she suggests) b/c it can be very awkward and the date will go on forever. Whereas if you go to see a movie, when it's done you can take her home. Not to mention I personally don't like going to anyones house on the first date (it screams loser). LOL.

P.S. give her a single rose...that's hot!

Answer 8

hmm well maybe go to the park and have a picnic with roses or maybe if your not totally comfortable with eachother yet go on a double date with friends thats always a good way to break the ice, or the movies are always good dinner and a movie classic most girls love it. or im the type of girl who would love to just rent movies and go to eachothers house and just cuddle and watch them. or lay under the stars just find out what she likes and really it wont matter how amazing the date is cuz if she likes you she will just be happy to be with you and talk to you! good luck!

Answer 9

Coffee, Ice cream, lunch.
Something short and sweet so that if you don't click you can look forward to getting out of there asap, but if you do click you can linger and let it go on to other things (not sex, perv!... unless she wants it!!!)
We like to talk, we want to know who you are so we can judge if we want to know you more. So get over any nevousness you have and think of three things that are intresting to you so you have something to tell her (ie. your favorite pet, fav. artist, fav. band, how great you get along with your mom/dad/brothers/sisters/etc., your childhood nickname, etc.) Just avoid negative things, sports (unless you know shes into it to) and don't lie...if this does go anywhere she will eventually find out that you never had a puppy die on you and might just end it there.

Good Luck!

Answer 10

Something very casual is most comfortable to me, perhaps a baseball game, a walk in the park, or putt putt golf. I do not suggest a movie, as you cannot talk and get to know each other in a movie theater.