my ex of a year ago told me that he still likes me. Now since we have broken up i have dated 2 guys and he knew i datd them and how much i liked those guys at the time. problem is when we broke up he just totally stoped talking to me all together.. and now he keeps calling me baby anbd hunny and keeps asking me for a second chance.. i have made it clear that i sdont se him that way... and yet he is still persisting and he even told me he thinks i am "the one" m,ind you we were only together 1 and 1/2 months... so this is creepy...
what do u think i should do???
2007-05-25 16:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by opqt04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tired being friends with him.. i have said i will be your friend.. but i dont think he gets the hint.. i went over there one day to waqtch movie and hang out and he kept finding ways to put his arms around me he was hugging me non stop and was laying on me.... i told him to get off.. and have told him numerous times i dont see him as anything more than friends.. and he doiesnt understand why i wont give him another chance.. i keep telling him he messed things up.. and he hurt me
2007-05-26 04:41:00 · update #1
If he is a gentle man he would respect a lady wishes and let things be. Just explain to him he is pushing up on you in a creepy way that you we not compatible. You have that right to change your mind.
2007-05-25 16:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you FEEL is right. If you think it's creepy, it IS creepy. Keep him at arms length. If he's still persistent a year from now, give it a try. but don't rush into anything with him. Time will tell.
2007-05-25 16:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by VicStevens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you do not have any interest in getting back together with him. Ask him to leave you alone.
If it seems creepy it is probably because he is getting creepy. In case it gets creepier you need to have told him to leave you alone. Do not offer to be friends with him. You can say hi, etc. but NOTHING else.
Good luck
2007-05-25 16:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering his calls, tell him that if he doesnt leave you alone you will call the police and get a restraining order in place. Isnt that what you would normally do if somebody was stalking you?
2007-05-25 16:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Answers For Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep reminding him that friendship is what your offering. If he show signs of aggression, then maybe you should even avoid that. Let him know that your sorry things could not have worked out in his favor, but that everything happens for a reason.
2007-05-25 16:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop stalking you and f*** off. You have to blunt and bold cuz alot of guys are stupid. Teh dude does sound creepy and alil weird.
2007-05-25 16:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by mdang12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him. Tell him to leave you alone. It sounds to me like he is on the rebound and you might be a "booty call." Be careful.
2007-05-25 16:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order, that'll get the point across.
2007-05-25 16:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by TypicalNot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..he is a stalker. Find yourself a man and tell him to back the **** off or just lie to him and tell him that you have a bf.
2007-05-25 16:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by mimi66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone and be careful.lol
2007-05-25 16:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋