Singles & Dating - 23 May 2007

Whats uppp sexyyyyy???

2007-05-23 19:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Brooke 2

It is widely said that girls don't like pickup lines. How else to start a conversation? Many people suggest to use situation specific openers. But I have observed that that they don't necessarily lead to further conversations and you are back at square one wondering how to break the ice again.

2007-05-23 19:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by Kannan J 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years but lately we have been fighting alot. I was raped in febuary and have been depresed and my doctor put me on prozac. I think the medicine helps me and makes me feel better and less depressed, but my boyfriend doesent agree. he feels that i act differently. but he cant tell me how I am acting and what he doesent like about my personality when im on the medicine. He doesent want me to take it and has given me an ultimadum. basicaly its him or the medicine. what should i do?

2007-05-23 19:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by vesper_love 2

Ok heres my situation. I'm 20 years old, and was with the same guy since I was 14. Whenever we were younger we had always planned on getting married and "being together forever". Lately I've grown up though and realize we aren't really right for each other and I ended it about a month ago.
So heres the real question. I work with this guy, and he's easily one of the most amazing guys I've ever met... We have an insane amount of things in common and we just flow really well when we're around each other. Problem is, hes kind of seeing this girl. He says that he doesnt really like her much but he likes being with her because it's some sort of companionship & he flirts like crazy with me...
I have REALLY strong feelings for him, but I just don't know if I should say anything, or maybe wait a while? Or maybe just never say anything and wait to see if he says something?

I dont know I just need some advice..

2007-05-23 19:47:18 · 16 answers · asked by jestergirly1969 1

Ok well ive been going out w/ this guy for 3 weeks. We he recently yold me he loved me over the phone and i said i wasent ready to say it back, he told me again and again so i eventually told him back.
Hes really good to me, and calls like 3 times a day. He makes me things and sings to me. I really started falling for him.
Then i was gonna send him some pictures, and it dident work. And he was like what were they of. And i was like just me. And he was like were they naughty? and i said "you wish"
and he said not really cuz im eventually gonna get the real thing, and i was like NO YOUR NOT. and hes like if i marry you i will.
Later i was telling him i was excited to meet my future husband and know it was him, and he was like "do you know yet" and i said not yet. Ans he said ill just have to prove it to you.
Hes moving SO fast. and he tells me he loves me every 5 min.
i really really liked him but now im kinda freaking out. And backing off. what do i do

2007-05-23 19:39:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I both agreed to see each other, hang out for company and have sex once in a while. Would he want me more if I didn't have sex with him? WHAt would be the best way to get him back?

2007-05-23 19:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by alims94 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I am 28. he's 38. I have messed a few friends b-day cuz they were going 2 a club My boyfrined doesn't believe that girls can go to a club and hang out with their girlfriends instead of hooking up with a guy.. Or that girls can also dance with a guy but doesn't mean we have to get to know him , exchange number or start making out or anything intimate with the guy. Just dance and then not go any further than that. I also told him that a easy girl is someone that doesn't know how to say no or make it clear there is nothing more with the guy. I can go to a club have fun with me and my girs and leave the club with only my girls and my respect. I love my boyfriend so much, but he forbids me to go to clubs or bar because he doesn't trust me. When i never did anything to break his trust in the first place. he doesn't like the club, cuz he said he's tired of clubs. Is he right , should I not go clubbing while I am in a relationship?

2007-05-23 19:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Sonia D 1

my best friend like's one of my mates... he doesnt feel the same way and tease's her behind her back. i keep telling her to just leave him alone coz she makes it worste for herself...then i stayed at her house and she gave me the phone and it was him on it asking me out on her cell phone. i ddnt know what to say but i said no coz i only see him as a mate. now my friends mad at me... what do i do now?

2007-05-23 19:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by eelamme_13 1 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for four years now. He told me about a year ago that he NEVER wants to have children. He knew that I did all along and just strung me along anyway until he told me about a year ago. I have been taking the birth control pill the whole time that we have been dating. I told him that I would never purposely trap him, but I have been thinking about doing it lately. I even haven't been taking my birth control pill purposely and now I've gotten my period about six days too soon. Is getting pregnant by him knowing that he doesnt want children wrong?

2007-05-23 19:16:32 · 32 answers · asked by juniper555 5

even though i got turned down, shoul i give up on love or try again?



P.S PLEASE BE HONEST.

2007-05-23 19:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting mixed signals from one of my male friends. He is always telling me his "criteria" for a spouse, we have a lot of mutual interest and values and we can talk for hours. I feel some "sexual tension"; but he has never approached me other than anything platonic. Does he seem to be interested in me and he's just being a gentleman; or is there nothing to it?

2007-05-23 19:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by isis 2

2007-05-23 19:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by I ♥ Futbol 2

theres a gurl whom i like very much...i asked her out a week before...1st she said yes 2 me...then after 2 days she said shes confused n now shes not even talkin to me......can ne 1 help me plz...

2007-05-23 19:07:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 18:55:06 · 19 answers · asked by ranaji 1

2007-05-23 18:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 18:54:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

And being around other kids at school or wherever, and playing a game and nobody ever picks you or throws the ball to you?
And you feel like you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, because you dont understand what you did wrong, but still no one will even look at you like they're going to play with you?
And you have no idea what to do, because even when you make the effort to try to get someone to pass the ball or talk to you, they just blow you off?
No matter how hard you try..

2007-05-23 18:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2

should i date a guy who wants sex everday i meet this hot guy on connecting singles should i date this guy

2007-05-23 18:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by jennifer h 1

what does it mean when a guy wants to have sex everyday is that a bad sign

2007-05-23 18:15:57 · 32 answers · asked by jennifer h 1

I've been together with my now fiance for almost 3 years now. Of course everything in the beginning was hot and heavy and then a little over a year ago we had our daughter and it slowly started to vanish. Less and less we'd be having sex...and it wouldn't even be as good. Now I know things change after you have a baby...and I might not be totally the same as I was before...but I'm still okay. More and more he needs porn to get in the right mood and it makes me feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore...but he says he does. Before we got engaged I slept with someone else and realized it wasn't worth it. But I still find myself thinking of other guys and sort of wishing something would happen with them. I just feel like the spark has gone out in our relationship. What should I do?

2007-05-23 18:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2

A friend and i met at school and it started as a random hookup. I had never had a serious relationship before. As i pushed her away less and less things snowballed. we live together and have extremely compatable personalities. Things were perfect for almost a two years now and she had started to maybe look like the one. Her X cheated and really hurt her so i never questioned her loyalty.
I found out a week ago she kissed a guy at a party. Her story is she had a small crush on him and it was "coincidence" to see him at the party i missed. Im told they hung out alot and had a questionably close relationship. He kissed her and she kissed back but immediatley felt bad and left the party. Neither of them were drinking. She cried alot for a day or two. were still together but with a huge elephant in the livingroom problem. Ive been thinking about how much i like her and how she betrayed me all day every day. I think her persuit of the crush is just as bad as sexual cheating. What do i do?

2007-05-23 18:09:36 · 31 answers · asked by viewsonic1687 1

Hi, I am a christian woman who has fallen for a good friend that is Muslim. Never in a million years did I think that this could happen to me. He is one of the best people I know and I truly love him. He does not know this yet, because I have not decided what I am going to do. I know that he has feelings for me as well. Does anyone have any experiences with this type of situation?

2007-05-23 18:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by uuummk 5

Where should I look. I am attractive a bit overweight but I am extremely well proportioned. I catch guys looking at me all the time but I am so shy I don't know what to do. Please anyone with advice.

2007-05-23 18:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been together for about a year and a half. When he first met me he told everyone he knew that i was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. He tells me things like that all the time... That said, I am confused and infuriated as to why he looks at other girls. He doesn't gawk, but he looks nonetheless. What makes me FURIOUS is when our gay mutual guy friend tells me when my boyfriend says a girl is hot when im not there. It makes me so mad, I throw tantrums and cry for hours. I can look at a guy and think he's nice looking but it stops there; I don't go on about it to friends. Yes, I know I sound like a basket case but i really don't know how to deal with this. If he thinks im so hot why is he telling his friends how hot other girls are behind my back? Can i stop it or curb the behavior? it's killing me!

2007-05-23 18:00:04 · 11 answers · asked by L K 1

Been going out with my girlfriend for awhile now and think that we should change things up a bit. We kiss all the time and both have talked about going farther. She is alright with my grabbing her breast but I am unsure on how to do it.. I think that it should be done while we are kissing, but if you have any pointers please help me out.

2007-05-23 17:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Like woahhh!!! (: 3

It just started one day when I grabbed a drink after work. I introduced myself to him and told him that I work right by him at another store. That night he gave us a free round. So a couple of days later, he comes by my store and he remembered who I was and my name, and honestly, I didn't remember his name. Last thursday, I go out to the bar and he's working, and the whole night, he would be giving me and my friends free rounds, he would immediately come up to me when I'd go to the bar and take my order. He would ask where my man was. That night he tried to "holler" at me after he got off of work, but i didn't hear him. He would even bring up making out with other men. I decide a few days later to leave my number to another bartender to give to him... since he wasn't working. from what I heard, he was happy to get my number and said he would call me. So, the next day at work, he walks by my store, which was WAY out of the way for him, and he came by to say hi after he got my number.

2007-05-23 17:56:40 · 5 answers · asked by CROWN_PRINCESS 1

how do you do that? i mean i always have my heart broken when i never even dated anyone! and im 15 already.

please dont say i'm tooo young or anything like that. i mean is it even possible to love someone and then not getting hurt??? please be specific and detailed

2007-05-23 17:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is just that. A scorpio man who is very opinionated and tough. Two traits that I love and fear at the same time. Lately, we have had several arguments over issues that don't necessarily need to be argued over and he has even went so far as to say our relationship is going downhill fast. Don't get me wrong, I am not perfect by far and sometimes I do tend to take the argument a whole lot farther than necessary but it really hurt when he said that. He has said that he thinks I am trying to change to appease him when in actuality, I know that we are both to strong people who sometimes have to bend so the relationship won't break and for the most part I don't mind being the one bended. I love this man and would love to see our relationship flourish, so I guess my question to you is not can it work, but what are some good ways to make sure we are going in the right direction?

2007-05-23 17:53:17 · 7 answers · asked by Mirry 2

I like to think it's quality over quantity, and I've only had 2. I'm told that I'm very attractive, so that's not why the number's low, it's just that I only have sex with people I love. Sex is awesome, and I don't have any moral hang-ups over it, but I just don't feel comfortable giving it away so easy. I know the average woman has 13 partners by the time she's 30 though, and probably more in her lifetime. So, is it bad to eliminate all the hook-ups and one-night-stands from your lineup and save it for just a few people you care about? Or are those experiences that people should have?

2007-05-23 17:52:50 · 8 answers · asked by Natalia 3

I've been casually seeing this guy for awhile. He made the first move...and we've become close. I've developed and openly discussed my feelings for him. He claims he likes me but he's not good with commitment and doesn't want anything "serious"... but when we're together he's playful and he seems to want to spend time with me...when I ask him to go places or on trips, he jumps at the chance, but then shows no interest when were there...he calls me all the time, says nice things..boosts my confidence... but then will tell me about a date he went on... is this someone I should stop wasting my time on?

2007-05-23 17:52:15 · 1 answers · asked by hipmama 2