Singles & Dating - 23 May 2007

My boyfriends friend is having a party, and she invited one of his ex's who is also a friend of hers. My boyfriend rarely hangs out with this friend, but since ALL of his friends are going, he wants to go to catch up with them (the dont get to see eachother much since they have graduated college). Anyway, I am 99% sure the ex will be there. My bf and her ended on good terms, but I am not one to be all "lets hang out" with exs. My bf said I dont have to go, but he is no matter what. I want to go to keep an eye on him, but what if we run into her? I dont want to be a Bit** but I dont want to be all happy either. ITs just weird

2007-05-23 05:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2

I am a woman and I have known my boyfriend for almost 2 years. The other night my boyfriend told me he wants to be the one in control in terms of making sure I'm comfortable being with him. He wants to be friends first before we take our relationship further. I know this is an old fashioned word, but how do you allow a man to "court" you? I really don't have a lot of dating experience and I want to do everything right in this situation.

2007-05-23 05:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys worry so much about a girls weight and looks? 20 years from now that wont matter.

2007-05-23 05:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine met a girl last weekend and wants to propose to her this upcoming weekend. Has he lost his mind or is the sex that good..

2007-05-23 05:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months ago, at the college I go to, I met a girl. I kinda knew she liked me and was interested as I caught her staring over at me in class a few times. She finally approached me one day and asked if I would want to hang out with her sometime. We Hung out twice and I hugged her after the first time hanging out. After the second time hanging out, She didnt return my calls and ignored me for about a week, until she finally told me what bothered her. She was expecting I kiss her that last time we hung out. I patched things up with her, and hung out with her once more, this time I hesitated a bit, but finally kissed her. She then sent me an email saying that I was a great guy and everything but was "too nice"! She had dated guys who cheated on her, yet I was too nice? I just don't get it at all. This girl was attracted to me and seemed to have a good time with me when we were hanging out, yet I was too nice, and now she does not speak to me at all or reply to my emails?!

2007-05-23 05:19:08 · 22 answers · asked by Undisputed 1

2007-05-23 05:15:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

this question is for women in their 20's who have abstained from sex for at least 4 years or more:

how long did it take for your vaginal muscles to adjust to having sex after those years of abstainance? I would appreciate some honest real answers

2007-05-23 05:15:33 · 1 answers · asked by nicky 1

why is it more likely for a guy, after he gets what he wants- to just break up with the girl when hes done sleeping around with her? why do guys do that? and why do they stay with the ones that dont give it up because they have something to work for but then fuss about not getting any?? what are guys thinking? and then they say they LOVE YOU and would NEVER leave you but then they do after the sex gets old.

2007-05-23 05:02:48 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica D 1

Okay so I was in a relationship with this guy for a year and 1/2. I was completely in love with him and when he broke up with me, it broke my heart. A few months after we had broken up I started dating one of my best friends, now I am with him and completely happy with him and it's amazing having a best friend as my boyfriend. The problem is, I still find myself thinking about the guy that I was with for a year and a 1/2. I still love the guy, and sometimes I imagine what it would be like to still be with him. Don't get me wrong, I completely love and care for my now boyfriend, but I just feel weird that I dream/think about my ex a lot. (my ex is an ****** and I wouldn't get back with him so it's not a cheating issue). My question I guess is, is it normal for me to still think about him all the time?

2007-05-23 04:40:28 · 39 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3

Is there any tall handsome guy out there, that would like to be friends with a fun and pretty 24yr girl that lives in NYC?

2007-05-23 04:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by natashaxxr 1

Marry a person with a different race?

2007-05-23 04:33:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

After i had my son who is now i have had a rapid weight loss from about 135 to 113 and can't seem to get past the 115 line. for most women they would be happy about this but im conserned i havent weighted that much is so many years. i am not comfortable with my wieght being so low. is there any kind of drink/ supplements i could be taking to help me gain about 15 lbs? really would like to stay in the 130-135 range. or has this ever happened to you or somene you know and what did you do about it?

2007-05-23 04:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 04:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by Kellie B 2

i've gone on about 6 dates with this guy, he's met my family and i've met his. we're hanging out tonight with another couple, and I would just like to know if he considers us a couple, but i dont know a good way to ask him so its not wierd. any ideas???

2007-05-23 04:23:36 · 15 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1

I was wondering if anyone has done this or knows anyone who has?

2007-05-23 04:21:26 · 22 answers · asked by Robbie Digital 3

2007-05-23 04:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by j.mckay29 1

I get to stay home today because I'm exempt from today's finals. The girl I'm talking about is an underclassman so we haven't seen each other today. She always answers the phone when I call anyway, except two times when she wasn't home. I was just wondering if she would want to talk to me even more since we won't see each other today, and how to ask her to hang out with me at a skating rink tomorrow night because a lot of people are supposed to be going tomorrow for some reason.

2007-05-23 04:10:10 · 11 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

okay so im 13 and my boyfriends 15 and we wanna have sex... hes not a virgin and i am.. hes kinda impationt so he gets what he wants from me.... we love eachother and we have been together for 3 months and i dont know what to do.... im going to his house soon and yeah im wondering if i should let him or not because if i dont i might loose him and i realy dont want that to happen becasue i love him so much and i mean people tell me that sex at my age is a bad thing but i have a friend who is turning 14 really soon and she has had sex with her boyfriend who is 14 going on 15 and nothing happened and they have been together 8 months i think it is maybe 7 1/2


what do i do?

2007-05-23 04:08:28 · 69 answers · asked by Nikki 1

Me and my girlfriend we are together for almost 3 months. I am 40 and she is 32
I go often at her appartment and she cooks for me. We have an honest relationship (I believe)
We have discussed about the medications we both take
We met at yahoo personals.
Yesterday I introduced her at my best friend. Before that she offered me a red rose.
Somehow we had a conversation after that and she proposed me to live with her for some time and marry her. That was suddent.
Its not that I don’t want but is it too early?
I have never been married and I don’t know what should I do and what movements so this can be succesfull. Maybe some more time to establish that we or she really is what she wants?
Please give some advices according to your experience
Thank you

2007-05-23 04:05:06 · 29 answers · asked by ianquestions 1

because before they were broken up they acted like they weren't neva going together cause he was always around me so do you thinl thats what i should do

2007-05-23 04:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

just turned 50

2007-05-23 03:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by Thomas W 2

To this date I have not met anyone who has not cheated on their significant other, for whatever reason, men and women. I have a hard time believing that people don't eventually cheat at some point in a relationship.

2007-05-23 03:56:48 · 17 answers · asked by funkyfree4 3

Alright, Here goes: I went to my fiancee's softball game and for the first time since they have started playing they won 17 to 7 and all the other fiancee's and girlfriends and wives that were sitting over by the diamond they were playing on said stuff like "you know we are getting some tonight" and I knew that I was the onlyo ne who wouldn't be... so the game is over and he gives me a victory kiss and all that and we leave to go pick up our kid's from the sitters and go home....on the way home I asked him jokingly if "i would be getting some" and he said "you work 11-5 tonight and you are off tommorrow so we can celebrate tommorrow" so I left it at that and went to work, the whole time I was at work i couldn't help but be upset over the fact that it's been a month since we last did anything and he keeps avoiding it, I wrote him a note for him to see this morning when he got up for work and it basically said that I acknowledge other couples affection and am wondering where we lost ours

2007-05-23 03:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3

I like someone and lately he has been asking me lots of personal stuff about myself. I did tell him a while ago that I liked him (not like that, I meant it as a friendly thing) and I was surprised that I was opening up to him and telling him stuff that I usually keep private. One day he was asking stuff and I said "Why have you gone all 50 cent on me?" In other words why the 21 questions like the song. He looked embarrassed like he'd been caught out and just said "I think i've heard that song" then talked about something else. However he is still asking stuff so I've started asking him more personal stuff and he is eager to answer. We talk about our families and stuff in the past as well as now. I am really starting to get attracted to him because we get along so well and we talk and laugh for ages. He has also asked about previous boyfriends that I took as an attempt to find out how many I've had! When he asks these questions he goes very serious and stares at me. Is he interested?

2007-05-23 03:51:02 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly M 1

I have hung out with this woman three times so far and everything seems too perfect. We have the same goals in life and we have this chemistry I haven't experienced much.....

2007-05-23 03:48:34 · 1 answers · asked by Mike B 1

once there was a girl my class i liked her a lot but i never got the chance to
tell her that i liked her.after some time a boy called dinny came into my path and gaythri also liked him i was heart broken but one day when dinny and gayathri where figthing and suddenly she began to cry i took her to the bathroom and gave her some wine then i acted like going into he bathroom
and i unlocked it purposfully so she came inside and i was naked and we began to have sex then we became gf and bf.

2007-05-23 03:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a bet going so please be honest.
Thanks.

2007-05-23 03:46:12 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica 4

2007-05-23 03:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend who would love to be my friend with "benefits" im extremely turned on by this friend but im not sure thats its a smart decision ive only had "benefits" lol twice in my life and i would really love to but is it to risque even if its only once
im totally confused because on top of that i a not in love with this friend and i wanted to wait until i was trully in love to have benefits but ive been celibiate or almost a year and i really want some benefits.......ok what should i do

2007-05-23 03:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by mzcokeacolababy07 2

we.ve dated 5 times and she knows we are in love with each other. i am so confused!!!!
please help me

2007-05-23 03:37:24 · 16 answers · asked by cheetoh/ waffles 1