Singles & Dating - 14 May 2007

im invited to a bday party and know my ex is gonna be there and my current on and off ''bed buddy'' who is his best mate will be there aswell. so do i go and have a good time, trying to avoid any drama in just showing both of them the cold shoulder and to hang out manly with my girlfriends. or should i better stay at home?

2007-05-14 09:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

aw man how bout its this dude i met hes so sexy but hes bad as hell i love his thuggish ways and the way he talks to me dont get me wrong he doesnt derespect me but he knows how to please me ( im not talkin bout sexually either). he keeps it real gudta thats wat i like about him the most he tells it like it is and doenst beat around the busch like most guys do and yea i know he might have otha chicks but im at the point where i dont even care. the point is imma goodie goodie and hes a thug and my family and friends would go crazy if they knew i was dating him what should i do?

2007-05-14 09:42:38 · 34 answers · asked by number1galleta 1

i dont know why she hated me so much? today i left my friend a mother's day greeting on her website and for some reason my ex's wife has some comment on her page...it was 2mths ago actually we both was been invited in a bday party...

i was upset that i know in my heart she was talking about me in that message saying that are friend shouldn't invited a ugly stranger..not physically but mentally...blahblah....those stuff....

is she jealous of me or what?? i didnt even talked to my ex when i saw him at that party...

i'm the one who broke upw/myex cuz he accidentally pussed me while we were arguing so that day i broke w/him and i never get back...so she the nxt gf she used to called me when they barely dating...for some reason she got my number at first she trying to be friends w/me...my ex used to beat her up everytime they get in a fight...

so anyways i'm not sure maybe she just saying that so i would never get back w/my ex...so she could have him..why she hated me??

2007-05-14 09:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by tyrha69 1

From meeting.........to dating.........to courting..........to engagement........all the way up to the wedding day. What's appropriate, what's not.........what you can do and can't do....etc.

2007-05-14 09:35:02 · 3 answers · asked by deadbeat 1

hey my b/f is 42 and i'm 19 yrs old..my family doesn't know about him bcuz they would kill me if they did, but anyway we spend alot of time with each other, i go over his place often..he cooks for me,treats me very good..but the only pblm is I think im falling in love with him, IT'S REALLY WIERD!!how can I explain myself to my family..i just dont know what to do or say to them, but nowadayz it aint really working for us 2 we've had fights anD argruments, bcuz OF his friends , im not too sure, i left him for 2 dayz now, he has my phone and doesn't wanna give it back to me, should i stay with him or leave him?? i'm confused..HELPPP!!

2007-05-14 09:30:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gave my number to a guy I just met and my friend has a problem with being quiet and loudly said "omg hes hispanic!" (we <3 hispanic guys) and by bf heard and now hes all scared that hes gonna lose me to this hispanic guy and i feel really really really bad.I'm not dating this hispanic guy or anything. how do i apologize to him?

2007-05-14 09:26:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I am newly single and am floundering in the dating world. A few questions that sorely need answers: 1) How do I know when a guy is interested, and how do I approach him? 2) Why don't people hit on me? I've had plenty of people tell me I'm hot so what's the deal? 3) I don't wish to just "sleep with people", so how can you tell if that's all someone else wants?

2007-05-14 09:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by danagator414 1

2007-05-14 09:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by Siggy263 1

2007-05-14 09:19:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it because she's just a woman.. She's hurt me.. She became ignorant, heartless in a sense.. but still.. I am still thinking of her tenderness and of her soft skin and her lips kissing me her arms laying around me, her warmth.. life's such a creep..

2007-05-14 09:13:36 · 40 answers · asked by Cengiz K 4

me and my boyfriend are a planning to to stay in a resort in chennai for a day..but we are a little scared ...pls help us

2007-05-14 09:11:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to ask this because I just read a question here about a man looking for an asian women for a one night stand. Do a lot of men have a fetish for asian women? And if so why? Also, can you see yourself being in a commited relationship with an asian women. Keep this in mind, the asian women is fully educated, born in the good ol' USA and just like every other women but Asian.

2007-05-14 09:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by basmusiq 5

I have talked to her a few times, I only see her at soccer practice. The season is almost over, and I want to talk to her some more.

2007-05-14 09:04:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was just after lunch and he did this human lie detector thing on me and he asked me if i liked his friend and all i could d was stare and laugh at him and he said that means i like him. i denied it but he insisted that i did. lucky for me the guy i like was not around. Ok so right now i am freaking thinking this guy is going to tell his friend that i like him. so naturally i went to my friend for help and as i was telling her he over heard me say that i really did like him and i was so mad i almost kicked him in the balls. then he said he promised he would not tell people that i liked him anymore. but how can i be sure he will keep the secret.

2007-05-14 09:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i've been going out with an 21year old for about a month now but my parents don't know about this but i'm only 17 years old and when I call him he always says that he has to do something or he's about to leave to go to a meeting and that i should call him later and i've only seen him twice i need to know what is going on can anyone HELP ME thanx?

2007-05-14 09:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do with this unwanted attention? There is a manager at work, in another department, not too much older than me, who obviously has a crush on me (yuck). He has not done anything ‘inappropriate’ just gives me the creeps. He acts like he knows me, keeps popping into my office for no reason and watches me all the time. Also last week I found it weird that he happened to take the same shuttle van I took. I catch him looking at me from the other floor he's on...I have never lead him on, the only thing I ever did was say good morning the elevator, as I do to everyone. He came in my office just 10 minutes ago and it freaked me out... He was friendly but I guess what bothers me is he acts like he knows me... He also confessed he didnt have a reason to be on my floor.. I do not want any of his attention…I also don’t want to go to HR and make a big stink…What do you think?

2007-05-14 08:57:11 · 2 answers · asked by Girl Next Door 2

Someone's answer to another question made me realize that I might have a problem on my hands. Let's see where should I start with this. My question is: Would you consider this to be abuse? My boyfriend always expects perfection to the point where it causes an arguement if I'm not. Mainly it's just little things like how I do something or the way I answer him...
If you think this is abusive please give me some ideas on what to do. I don't want to leave him over this, I just want to fix it and continue with our relationship. We have a happy and loving relationship aside from this issue and I don't want to lose that.

2007-05-14 08:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by dvlbeneathwings 2

2007-05-14 08:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not to be a pervert or anything, but I'm just being curious. To us guys it feels really good. But girls tend to make a lot of noise while having sex? Is it because it hurts, feels good, or are they just making fake noises? Please give a reasonable mature answer. Don't call me a perve cause i'm not.

2007-05-14 08:53:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ex now lives abroad, I think he maybe married now, I have emailed him but no reply, Should I give up, or carry on, What do you think I should do next. Don't wanna seem desperate!

2007-05-14 08:50:50 · 26 answers · asked by thumperj317 1

so my boyfriend and i were talking about sex and he said when we move in together if he wakes up in the middle of the night and wants to do it he will get me up and i said no i wont get up for that in a joking way and then he said well i will just have my way while ur sleeping if i have to and that made me mad because i said well what if i dont want it and he got all mad at me does any one else think its wrong for guys to do that

2007-05-14 08:45:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship for almost a year. He's been extremely stressed with his family and work not doing well. Things were fine until recently when he's began pulling away from me. It feels as if we took a step back and now dating not in a relationship. We want to work things out but we don't know where to start. We live an hour away from each other and he's so busy with with work and family I only see him after he gets out of work during the week. Our backgrounds are so different, and with everything else we found ourselves at a standstill. He says he's confused and doesn't know what he wants, but he doesn't want to lose me. He's looking to me for answers that I can't give him cause I'm just as confused as he is. CAn we make it work and if we can how?

2007-05-14 08:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by darkwaterz 1

Bag of Bones- (Nicole Richie)
Thin- (Kirsten Dunce)
Normal- (Beyonce Knowles)
Thick- (America Ferrera)
Fat- (Monique)

2007-05-14 08:43:06 · 20 answers · asked by Camille w 1

if a guy said you would be a great wife because you are a good cook? meaning he only sees you as a domesticated figure. but its better than saying you have great sex. or is it?

we don't want to be just sex objects but we are more than June Cleaver

what's your thoughts?

2007-05-14 08:41:57 · 31 answers · asked by auroa26 3

i recently met my online frnd for the first time, we just chit chatted for half an hour and while leaving,on the way,he asked me,if I could come to his room,i just said no.Everything went on well later on, He asked me after few days,if we could meet again.I asked him to decide the place,day n time.He decided and we agreed to meet up at that spot.On that particular day,he never responds to a call or sms,like this he himself asked me to meet and he wouldn't respond on that day.Like this he did twice.Once,I asked him for few books,which i need for reference,he said he will get it ,at the spot I said.But he didn't turn up and neither he gave any message,I was waiting for him at that spot. I tried to call,but he switched off his mobile. It was me again who called him later,he just said he 4got abt the books n went for a movie with his friends and apologized for it....why guys do such way,can't they tell directly if they don't like 2 continue friendship.what could be the reason for this

2007-05-14 08:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by whitu 1

A while back when my boyfriend and I started dating, I found out that he looked at porn. (Not that he was addicted, just that he did it occasionally). I got really upset when I found out, and I'm still not over it almost a year and a half later. If he isn't hard when I do the smallest thing like touch his leg or give him a hug, I get really offended. I just feel like if he can easily get off looking at some nasty girls, than he should get off just as easily looking at me who he "loves" and "thinks is the prettiest girl in the world". What is my problem? We've talked the issue over multiple times, but I can't help but get angry at him sometimes. Please help, I really don't want this to ruin my relationship! (Also, he touched some girl's boobs when we first started going out...which I consider cheating..and now I can't stand seeing any movies with adultery or hearing about adultery easier) What's up with me?

2007-05-14 08:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by weezerlvr 2

i have liked this guy whois on my brothers lacrosse team and I have liked him for a year. Well this year we have a class together and I thought that we might be able to start a relationship but I dont have the nerve to tell him the way I feel. I keep thinking about him and how we could have a potential relationship. But then I talked to someone and they said that he was a jerk but everytime hes near me hes really nice. I really like this guy and want to date him but I am nervous around him. I need help figuring out what to do.

2007-05-14 08:23:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

cigarettes will help

2007-05-14 08:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by Leslie W 1

I have been dating this guy for over 3 yrs and he has a lot of really great qualities. We are great friends, common interests, good sex, etc. We have a great relationship. However there is 1 problem...he is really cheap. Whenever he buys anything for us, he asks me for 1/2 the cash. Whenever I am the one paying, I don't even consider asking for 1/2. We drive my car EVERYWHERE so I am always buying gas. I sort of feel like once in a while he should offer to pay for gas or he should buy me dinner or something. We went to the bar on sat after I had made dinner (and paid for everything) for him and his bro and the cover was $3. He paid for his bro and not me! I don't want to start keeping a list of how much each of us spend or anything but I do think it should be more equal. This didn't bother me for a long time but now I am starting to feel taken advantage of. When I brought it up to him he got EXTREMELY defensive. Am I being silly? What is the right way to approach this?

2007-05-14 08:14:31 · 35 answers · asked by starbagoz19 1

met anyone online and it actually worked out?

2007-05-14 08:11:34 · 30 answers · asked by jess 2