Is it because she's just a woman.. She's hurt me.. She became ignorant, heartless in a sense.. but still.. I am still thinking of her tenderness and of her soft skin and her lips kissing me her arms laying around me, her warmth.. life's such a creep..
2007-05-14 09:13:36 · 40 answers · asked by Cengiz K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't help who you love
2007-05-14 09:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by robin b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just following repeditive memory cycles. You need to re-invent the way you look apon you hapiness and your forward momentum in your life....like quiting any addiction,, the dopamine effec of the 'good times' will circle your brain for years and years until you make an strong effort to turn "OFF" those thoughts the moment they enter you brain.. and in time they will disappear.
you. can't go back,...right?.you can't drag it along behind you like a ball and chain.holding you back from having an open mind and heart for something new.
decide to move on,(pretent you busted up with here!!) funny how that make the world of difference!.
think and be possitive!
2007-05-14 09:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long was you with her? its hard to brake away from any one you have loved. and its not the idea or being in love. its love that has no reply and that hurts and makes you feel empty. two years is a long time but i know the feeling. it will pass eventually. maybe there are some things left unsaid? if its not possible to fix that. then try and move on! get yourself back on the dating market and have what i call medicine. make-love to all and everyone. don't be so quick to fall in love. have some fun then you will be ready to meet the next girl who will light your fire=) good luck=)
2007-05-18 06:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jonny E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After two years, you don't love her anymore. You might love the idea of her, or you might be using your "love" to keep yourself from moving on with your life or you might even have become attached to some romantic sense of tragedy about the whole thing. But you don't love her anymore because you don't know her anymore. The person you loved doesn't exist anymore - she's has had two years to become different. Don't be a loser. Suck it up and realize that she is one of millions of women, better than some, worse than others. Move on.
2007-05-14 09:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mark G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who just could not get over her broken heart, even though it was him that finished it for the most trivial of reasons. she went for 2 years, missing him like crazy. then she found another guy, accidentally through a wrongly sent text message to his mum, and now they are talking about moving in together. finally she has put the other guy to the back of her mind, and is getting on with loving her new guy lol. i reckon you need to move on as well mate. don't worry, love will find you again :D
2007-05-20 03:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by ktulu_has_awoken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know how you feel. I still love my ex and its coming up for nearly two years since we split. We keep in touch as friends and now I've heard he is engaged to be married in August. I don't want to get back with him and know that we both have to move on. He's just gone and done it sooner than I have. One piece of advice - one way to get over a boyfriend/girlfriend is to get under another!
2007-05-14 09:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Intern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably love her all your life. So you can't have her, keep thinking of the good memories, one day someone else will enter your heart and then hopefully your move on. Love is in some terms the hardest word to understand, it has so many meanings. Good Luck mate. Chin up. xx
2007-05-14 09:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating yourself up. No harm in still loving her but wouldn't it be nice to move on. The past is history tomorrow a mystery. Look to the future and find someone who will love you back. It takes two to tango.
2007-05-20 03:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ey its ok to love, and its ok to still love her.
It happens to the best of us. love is a hard thing to stop, you probably wont stop loving her until you find love again for someone else. I know how you feel and i felt like that for a long time too but just keep your head up she will either come back or something better will come your way.
i hope the best for you, good luck
2007-05-14 09:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you sound lonely, go and try doing something new every week or join a class or group for something you always wanted to know about or do - at worst it will take your mind off her for a few hours a week, at best you might meet someone new you like even more.
2007-05-14 09:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by SMGFAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, odnmt worry, you dont love her, you just love her body, you like the idea of being able to do things with a girl whenever you want, go out, get another girl (one who like u 4 u and not what u look like!!)and jsut talk to her about this - if she get angry when you talk about another girl with her and ur hurrt - she is not right for you
2007-05-22 08:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋