2007-05-14 09:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by Siggy263 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it should read why cant he commit
2007-05-14 09:26:12 · update #1
It sounds like he doesn't love you.
2007-05-14 09:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My friend who lives in Detroit, I haven't talked to her for years, dated this guy for six years all in hopes that he would commit and pop the question, well he did not, until the sixth year she finally talked to him about it, and he told her that he had no plans on marrying her!
Well, they broke up and she found a man and they have been married for 12 years now I guess with two boys!
Talk to him, he just might not want to buy the cow but get the milk for free!!!
Life is to short, talk to him before you waste another 12 years!
2007-05-14 09:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean why can't he commit? If he's your boyfriend I'm assuming he's already commited to you.
if he can't commit should you be with him might be a better question.
however I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs now. We dated other people and each other for a full year before committing to each other. I think we were both scared because we knew we wouldn't ever date anyone else once we got serious. it's an unnerving prospect. maybe your man's just scared...
Or he could just be a jerk.
2007-05-14 09:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have been dating for 12 years then that is commitment. If your talking about marriage, maybe he feels that you already are married. It is possible that he doesn't feel the same way about you like you feel about him, maybe it's not love but rather just being used to having someone there.
2007-05-14 09:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by gotstobe06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may have issues with himself, or he may not be the marriage type. I think the both of you need to sort out your issues with the commitment thing because if y'all have been together that long and he hasn't made a commitment yet then I think there is something seriously wrong.
2007-05-14 09:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he loves you that's all that matters. What do you mean by commit? As in marriage? You don't need that. Society has build that thought into our brains that we should get married, but you don't have to. If he loves you, then that's it.
2007-05-14 16:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think guys are honestly afraid of commitment. I am sure you already knew that though. He loves you and no its not because he just wants sex he probably just scared of being a married man. You need to explain to him how much being married to him means to you. Ask him if he sees you two getting married.
2007-05-14 09:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ive been with mine for 15 years and 4 kids later we are getting married next year so hang in there - it will happen eventually!!!!
2007-05-14 09:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by brien123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he say when you ask him why he doesn't want to get married? How old are you two? Do you have kids? Are you finished with college?
2007-05-14 09:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he doesn't really like you all that much. if a guy is really into you, he won't be afraid of marriage or the thought of spending the rest of his life with you. he will want that more than anything in the world. >L
2007-05-14 09:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by L 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well love takes time
maybe hes just making sure
2007-05-14 09:26:50 · answer #11 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋