Singles & Dating - 5 March 2007

2007-03-05 02:33:42 · 18 answers · asked by T-bo 1

I & my long D ex, we met on the plane, he was after me for 6 mths, did all those very romantic things even we’ re miles apart. Finally I was moved, he visited and we started. Things went sore after 6 months, we argued & I felt he was distant from me. I was upset and wanna call it quit completely but just coulda get over him. He would still call once in awhile, sometimes we spoke like strangers but sometimes he said he loved me. The main reason he upset me was so many times he said he was coming to see me, but finally called it off. I just dun understand why he wants to do that? If he thought he has hit and run, then why keep calling and said he would see me soon. I was very heart broken, did lot of crying last year. Today I suddenly realized it is mar now, the last time we met up was last year mar. it has been a month since the last time he called/ txt, finally today I feel like sending him a letter/ email and tell him all my feelings, then no matter what, I will move on. Should I?

2007-03-05 02:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by bebe 1

Would you get involved romantically with a co-worker? My instincts tell me that it's dangerous, but the litle head says "Go for it"....

2007-03-05 02:30:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He confessed to me that he like me for about 4 years, funny thing is I've liked him for about 4 years as well. On ash wednesday I went to church and prayed to god to help me forget about him if is not meant to be, but that night he called out of know where. Now we finally started talking and even made out on the first date. Also he has a girlfriend but hes constantly calling me. Whay should I do?

2007-03-05 02:29:41 · 20 answers · asked by Christina L 1

I have an uncomfortable problem with a female co-worker that is growing worse by the day. She and I have been friends for several months, and have shared some of the frustrations of both being in long-distance relationships with our fiances. Her boyfriend is in NY, my girlfriend is in St. Louis (our company is located outside Chicago). Last week, while in a storage cubicle she got very close to me and propositioned me in a very forward manner (to avoid a TOS violation with Yahoo, you'll have to use your imagination rather than me describe it). After the shock wore off, I laughed, quickly leaving the suddenly very small cubicle. After that, I avoided her but tried to talk to her in a business meeting the next day only to be greeted with a frosty attitude. Now it seems she is trashing me to my boss. She is a very attractive young woman. I can't imagine she is rejected often by men. What do I do?

2007-03-05 02:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 02:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

or say where is best to have a womans hand!

2007-03-05 02:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by devil at work 2

And he told me that he had just came back from a date. Then all of a sudden he said "Damn we had something good, I wonder what happened?" I told him, "only you know, because you broke off the relationship"..He broke it off without giving any reason Afterwards he said he was going to get married and I told him ok then I wont call you anymore. And he said Im just playing, you take everything so serious. He said "If anything its alot easier for you to get me to marry you, I would marry you before I marry another girl"
He also calls me everyday, and I never call or text him But I still love him..I just dont want him to know, because he would have the upper hand. And hes coming to see me on my b-day, he lives in California, and I stay in Fl....Could he be missing me? Whats he trying to say with all of this?
p.s. this sat. he sent me some pics of him, and asked me what I thought?..I just said he looked different, but he wanted me to check him out...

2007-03-05 02:26:33 · 10 answers · asked by gurl20073 2

My girlfriend of 6 months goes behind my back and email her ex. She says that she felt as if she had to email her ex and tell him how she felt. They were together for 2 years, and they broke up 5 months ago which is 1 month while she was with me. So she was cheating on me. But the funny thing: It was a long distance relationship all along. They lived 11 hours from each other and they met online. But she is still in love with him but he has a girlfriend. She doesn't want me to talk to my ex but she's willing to talk to hers and I told her about this. What shoud I do?

2007-03-05 02:26:24 · 10 answers · asked by Only human 1

Does the smell of his breath, hair, etc. bother you?

2007-03-05 02:24:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does the smell of his breath, hair, etc. bother you?

2007-03-05 02:23:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If he or she turned up at your doorstep, what would you do--even if you were married with kids etc....?

2007-03-05 02:22:24 · 11 answers · asked by darestobelieve 4

Serious question

2007-03-05 02:20:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a junior in college and I've been wanting to ask a female classmate of mine out on a date for a while. The only problem is I don't know how to approach her seeing as she doesn't know that I have these feelings for her. Can someone help me...please?

2007-03-05 02:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by chgriffin85 2

2007-03-05 02:17:56 · 10 answers · asked by bigdaddy200754 1

while talking about music with this co-worker-he interrupted the conversation , got close to my face, and asked if I was wearing lipstick, (i have thick lips) then he rant off about something and i only heard him saying something about me biting off his ''thing" -he does tend to joke like that. what could he have ment by that? he's 25 and engaged, and i am 19..

2007-03-05 02:17:14 · 18 answers · asked by precious 1

I am in love...and I thought it was mutual, but last nite he pulled a disappering act again (not answering my phone calls, and ignoring my knocks on the door) and when I finally did see him he was not himself, he was acting out in a suspicious manner; then today when he went to work I found earrings that did not belong to me in his bedroom.......

2007-03-05 02:15:02 · 28 answers · asked by Soo Hurt 2

i met my girlfriend in 2003. i just found out she cheated on me once in 03, 04, and 05 each time with the same guy. He is her ex but lives abroad now but when he has come back she has cheated. she says she didnt think i was serious during them times but i think i am the same now as i was then. 2 other thing are
1) ive cheated on her over 10 times. but hey, it was just sex and
im a guy and she has never found out. should i except it as a eye for a eye or do i need to find trust.
2) the sex is real good, real real good
should i keep her for a bit on the side cos i know i could still get a piece even if i were with someone else.. i know i seem hypocritical but hey im a product of my enviroment. HELP. no feministic replys please

2007-03-05 02:14:54 · 29 answers · asked by fethawi s 1

So I dated this guy that was in my "friends group" and knew it would be akward seeing him again we broke up and sure enuf we did. During the week, I have to see him a couple times and interact with him and others(i vollenteer at a youth center with them and dont' want to quit just cuz of this) but should I act happy and free like i'm fine, or let him see that i'm hurting over how it ended and tell him i still think about us??? I don't really want him back but in a way I want him to think I'm really strong and doing fine without him...

2007-03-05 02:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by shine_on 3

i wouldnt know ive never been in love and the way my life is going i dont think i ever will i just wanna konw wat its like from other ppls point of veiw. cuz well im just a kill joy and every one seems to have a better love life than me.

2007-03-05 02:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 1

i was with this guy for about 9 months . he was not that good to me but you could tell he wasa good person , maybe a little socially challenged. He managed to treat really bad becoz he didn't want to be in a relation , i finally left him and he said some pretty mean things to me . To the tune of i will never love you etc . I moved on with my life i cried a lot for about a week and then i started moving on . He calls me now a nd agin wanting to be my friend . He called me over the weekend to tell me how he met this girl and had liked but she had broken his heart , but he realized he didn't really know her . He had moved on etc , i told he needs to not call telling about crap like that , i was not ready o be his friend like that . I have not been reall talking to him over the months , i have not called him and i just dont understand why someone who broke my heart would call me to tell me this crap , is he just plain insensitive or a social retard . Then he asays he wants us to be friend

2007-03-05 02:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

and press thumbs down just to get your thrills?

2007-03-05 02:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend who I've been with for 5 years has recently shown interest in swinging - i.e. us having sex with other couples. He used to get jealous really easily, and now he never does. I still get jealous easily though. I feel like I've failed to please him and I'm not good enough etc etc this is why he wants to have sex with other people. Or he's been in this relationship so long and realizes he doesn't want to have sex with the same girl his whole life. And I'm afraid if I don't participate in swinging with him, that he'll cheat on me and we'll break up. I'm also afraid that now he's thinking it's ok if he has sex with someone else, as long as they don't have feelings for each other. I'm a very liberal, open-minded, and non-religious person, but I still can't see pleasure or happiness in watching my significant other have sex with someone else. Is this a big enough thing to end relationships? Have you ever had this problem? Any advice is greatly appreciated..

2007-03-05 02:07:38 · 36 answers · asked by Idaho 2

how do i handle this?

We also work together.

2007-03-05 02:07:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lynne 3

there is this guy in my class at university.. we are really close friends and i really like him.. everything was going on fine between us and it seemed to me that he liked me back.. my friends also guessed it to be so.. until, recently he told me to give him his space and let him free and he said : "we are just friends, u know"

i was hurt at all this.. i had been thinking that he liked me back all those days.. but..pain striked me so hard when i heard that from him.. i dont know what has gotten over him all of a sudden! i am so confused!

now what should i do? i mean, how should my behaviour towards him be?
A) just as before - indifferent to what happened
B) cold towards him and show that i dont care anymore
C) behave just as a classmate

please give ur ideas and suggestions...

2007-03-05 02:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She cried for like 6 hours streight, broke a bunch of stuff in her apt. and keept saying "i cant live without you" I had to listen to her cry all the time it broke my heart. Is this normal we were together for 3 years, should she be this upset?

2007-03-05 02:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by john 3

2007-03-05 02:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my boyfriend and I have had some troubles. He promises to be somewhere with me and just doesn't show up. We are both Christians and make it a point to be at church, especially on Sunday mornings. He'll tell me "I'll be there tomorrow" and then never show up. His excuse is I just couldn't get out of bed.
We do voluteer work with under priviledged kids with another couple. He text my email and said he'd be there. He never showed. I don't have a cellphone but the other couple does. He didn't bother to call them or anything. Later he was like "You don't have a cell so how was I suppose to contact you?" He's knoiwn this couple longer than me- he's known the guy since elementary! It would have been nothing to let him know whats going on.
He'd rather take the one night a week we have set aside for us to go play XBox with guys he sees all week. And then wonders why I get upset. He says he loves me and I really love him.
Am I asking too much? What am I doing wrong?

2007-03-05 02:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Chick-a-Dee 5

I want to have an*l s*x with my girlfriend but when we do it she bleeds and its really painful for her. We use lube but is there anyway i can make it pleasurable for her?

2007-03-05 02:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would make you settle with that one special girl after dating all those other women. This is the case between my fiance and I.
Yes, we are STD free.
Yes, my fiance was a player and loves women very much but has chosen me to marry. Is it my being, is it just the way that I am ? I know I am cool, but I didn't know I was this cool !

2007-03-05 02:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Kendra H 2