Singles & Dating - 5 March 2007

you met this guy over a summer, thought that you loved him and he loved you...

he leaves to go back home, (out of state)
you cry because you miss him.
you im almost every day and save every conversation....
one day he tells you to go to some ones blog and asks you if they are pretty.

He then says that he is going to marry her one day.

you let him know how hurt you are and all he as to say is, I am sorry I lead you on.

just wondering how you would feel in that situation.

2007-03-05 04:24:23 · 9 answers · asked by squirrely 3

I really like this guy & sometimes if he hasn't texted or called me in a while I start missing him like crazy. Now I'm usually not the type of girl that just HAS to hear from or see a guy alot (I've always been more of an independent, "I don't need a man to make me happy" kind of girl), but I just can't stop thinking about this guy & feeling better (more content) when I hear his voice, get a txt, or see him. Can someone please help me understand what's going on with me...am I falling in love...how can I stop feeling this way?! Thanx...

2007-03-05 04:24:01 · 2 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1

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2007-03-05 04:23:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, me and my bf have been dating for only a few weeks. We see each other in school everyday, and we hang out when we can. Over the past few days, I've realized that I'm getting more feelings for him. I don't just like him anymore, I think I'm starting to actually love him. But I don't want to fall in love cause last time I did that, I got hurt badly. I know that my bf now isn't like the other guy, but I'm still worried. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel, or wait a while.

2007-03-05 04:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is he really sorry?
A friend of mine at work and I had a fight. We haven't talked for over a month since he told me that I was too weird for him to be friends with and that it was best that we ignore each other since I began to like him as more than friend. The thing is he already has a gf overseas. I've been ignoring him, but he keeps throwing glances at me. One time he was looking and I caught him looking and then he lowered his eyes like he couldn't look at me.

2007-03-05 04:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this great girl online , chatted for a few hours, exchanged cell messages for a month. We met briefly for about 3 minutes. I like her a lot , but as for her ?.One time I was showing off about something , and she messaged me "stop it , I don't need u explaining all that. I'm already impressed by you as it is.I already told u the tickin part is missing and we said we'll see about that".
Cell messages come & go , and one day she says "I feel I am doing you injustice , I enjoy very much our chit chats & I'm sure I'll enjoy meetin u even more , but a girl knows who will be her best friend and who will be something more" . Once I got that , I just stopped messaging her all together but she called me "which is very rare , she gets bad migranes from talking on the cell", she called just to check on me & say she's worried why I haven't messaged in two days . is there hope for me with this girl? If so , how?

2007-03-05 04:21:37 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering 3

2007-03-05 04:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by connie w 1

When ever he is with his friends...he acts as if he don't know me....and then when we are alone...all he wants to do is have sex....He says he loves me, but I don't feel it...it doesn't feel like his love is real....we have been together for three years...what should I do?

2007-03-05 04:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by sHy_gUrL 1

I've done the dinners(both home cooked and eat out), flowers, chocolates, cards, rose petal floor with backrubs and wine,customized M&M's, I like the weekend getaways but don't know what kind of themes to use other than lodges, bed and breakfast, and the outdoors. But I'd like to hear some new ideas and thoughts on the matter. So I thought I'd go to the source and see what you ladies have to suggest.

2007-03-05 04:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does she mean when she says that you would be great together and knows how well you would treat her. but she just can't date you.

2007-03-05 04:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 04:16:34 · 10 answers · asked by jamal w 1

2007-03-05 04:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Love is suppose to be unconditional and there aren't no limits, right? I'm 19 and im dating a guy who's 51 ( I know the whole age thing is a big diffrence ) but if you like someone and connect with them then its not a issue, however, I have a daughter who's almost 2 years old and he loves her to pieces and im pregnant ( 38 weeks ) with my 2nd ( not his ) and he has been so supportive with me through alot, Even with my pregnancy , However I don't feel to SEXY with my big pregnant belly, and he is like you'll lose it, ..I just feel like he won't love me or as much if I keep my wweight, and love is suppose tp be unconditional? sometimes I joke around that, would you still be with me if I kept all my weight on after the baby and he is like * lets hope that doesn't happen * ...and give me a smile as if to say it won't happen....How do I know if he loves me unconditionally?

2007-03-05 04:14:47 · 27 answers · asked by mom4ever 1

i mean what percentage of the time??? what oodds does the average guy have???

2007-03-05 04:14:41 · 12 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2

there's this guy who comes down to where i live every weekend with my friend and we just hang out okay i really like him and was planning on telling him how i fell when my cousin suddenly meets him and like him too and he finds out and i guess since he found that out he likes her but i know for a fact if he knew how i felt he would choose me but okay so now there going out and dhe has a long distamce relationship already it's not fair because she also knew i liked him im so mad and frustrated and kinda heartbroken i want him bak i dont care im not gonna be nice any more he was gonna be mine till she showed up i mean i know she my cousin but i didn't think that was right what would you do??

2007-03-05 04:13:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 04:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by makarand p 1

Is it a good idea to hit on girls who I study with (at university) ?

Or is it unwise to fish in your own fishtank ?

2007-03-05 04:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do? I don't cheat on her unless the other girl is super hot.

2007-03-05 04:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work for a consulting company and last week, there was a client visit, a guy, whom I had to take out for lunch and be with for the afternoon.

It wasn't a big deal, I have done these things before with no problems.

But this time I found the guy rather nice looking. However, I hope I din't let on how I felt. We were talking of politics at lunch as people do when they meet for the first time...He was all right except he seemed quite shy, and even embaressed.

Then he mentioned girlfriend totally out of context. Now this hurt me big time. Maybe I am being very sensitive here, but I couldn't stand the thought that he guessed I found him sweet and had to mention his gf to let me know he's not available.

But would a guy really think a woman is into him and he needs to tell her he's not available the first time he has met her and that in a work situation? I mean I din't honestly say anything flirty etc..

I feel insulted..waaaaah

2007-03-05 04:12:21 · 15 answers · asked by bourbon 2

wot wud u do if a 14 year old girl started sleeping with an 87 year old man????!!!!

2007-03-05 04:12:19 · 47 answers · asked by N H 2

Do you think this is cheating or not? My boyfriend used to sneak phone calls to a girl at all hours of the day. She would even pose as his supervisor and call him at home and see if he could get away to meet with her. When I confronted him on it about a couple phone calls made at one in the morning to this girl he said he called because it was about a job. Now from my experience you don’t call about jobs at that time of day. He also said that it wasn’t cheating. What is your opinion on the subject is this considered cheating?

2007-03-05 04:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by Tabatha 1

2007-03-05 04:11:04 · 15 answers · asked by connie w 1

...and I have not slept together? We have been dating for almost three months and we see each other almost everyday. We both live with our parents (I am still in college and he had to sell his house~long story), but their were two weekends in a row where either my parents or his parents were out of town...and we didn't do anything. He hasn't even tried to get me into bed.

It's not that I want to rush into anything...but I was just wondering if it is normal for a guy to be willing to wait when he really cares about the person he is with.

I just feel like maybe I am doing something to make him back off...I don't mean to...and I don't know what it is I am doing.

He is not a virgin..and he is not shy.

By the way...we are both in our mid-twenties!

2007-03-05 04:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by southernbell 2

me and my bf split up on saturday he said he didnt love me any more. but last night he txt me askin how i was and apologised for sayin he didnt love me. i bought him a ring a while ago and he left it here he is coming down 2nite to get it how do i act with him what do i say? HELP PLEASE

2007-03-05 04:08:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could you look past their "professional job" and see the person?

I am talking about being in adult films and that kinda thing.

2007-03-05 04:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

yeah, its for the unmarried people. pre-marital sex. it is said as immoral and people still do it..

2007-03-05 04:05:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend left to go get food on Sunday and left her phone at the house. When it rang I picked it up thinking it may be her from a pay phone. But it was her ex calling. The ex said that she was returning a phone call. I havent confronted my girlfriend about this, I honestly dont know what to do!! Help!

2007-03-05 04:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by whit2982 1

to see your b00bs why not just show them or is there something wrong with them that you dont want men to see them if they are nice i would want eveyone to know

2007-03-05 04:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

... despite the fact its an ace film! so cool! (and no im not gay rom-coms are cool) but anyways thats for another question however I wanted to ask
(reffering back to the movie) why do exes ring up exes and tell them stuff like "oh im getting married" or similar stuff
Id have thought that was quite a low thing to do and quite sad to be honest ok im only a 20yr old male so most people maybe saying your too young to understand but seriously why do people do this to each other its sad isnt it?

2007-03-05 04:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Music fan 4

My boyfriend signed us up for "Pornflix". I am not sure the real name of the place, but it is the porn equivalent for Netflix.

I agreed to watch porn with him previously, so I guess he took it upon himself to try out this site. When we watch the porn, he has all these "rules" so that no one gets upset/hurt over the experience. We have watched it together a couple times and it went well.

Last night he told me he had already watched the next two DVDs on the list that we had received and sent them back for two more. I got super pissed. This was something we were supposed to be sharing together and he went and ruined it by watching the porn alone and "taking care of things".

Am I right in being upset? I feel disgusted with him and betrayed that he did that. I despise when guys watch porn, but I thought if we did this together, maybe it would be ok. For him to do it alone broke that trust between us.

He kept saying he didn't know what the big deal was. Am I wrong???

2007-03-05 04:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Trixie 2