Singles & Dating - 5 March 2007

I've had 2 gfs. They both cheated on me. It hurts like hell. And I've been talking to people around 30...and they told me that cheating will eventually happen in all the relationships. Is this true? How could anyone get back with the person that cheated on them? I have this notion that once the girl cheats....her goodies become all filthy cuz of another man's dirtiness. It grosses me out. Am I being too ...I dont know the word...but my main question....is though...will all the girls I'll date will eventually cheat on me (cuz I never will). And if not...then how do u tell if a girl would become a cheater?
THnx

2007-03-05 05:39:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 1 yr says he's in love, is kind/thoughtful and has even talked about moving in with me. But he still fantasizes about other girls and looks at pics online when I'm not around. Is this normal? Can he honestly be in love or am I being stupid?

2007-03-05 05:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 05:37:57 · 12 answers · asked by anastasia 1

so i work with this guy, who ive never had more than a one word conversation with, literally. but everyone tells me hes the nicest guy there. i just really want to get to know him. thing is, hes incredibly cute and im not. im also EXTREMELY shy. i want to hang out with him, and get to know him, because he seems like a great guy. so what do i do?

2007-03-05 05:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by tiffanylovestodance 1

2007-03-05 05:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by tom2day 2

hi.. as far as my experience is that, girls go for the bad guys and they r so predictable. they don like nice guys. its just timing and nothing concerned abt love and heart? why so??

2007-03-05 05:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by ee2007 2

2007-03-05 05:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by anastasia 1

ok im sure alot of you have read about ym gf and i, been going for 2 and a half years, and its amazing! but we almost broke up cuz i was being stupid, i was accusing her of cheating, and b4 that she was obsessed with sex, and now shes not really thinking about it =/ what can i do to make my girlfriend think/want sex alot more? lol i have been working out, getting a better body(not like im ugly) like when were at her house, i might put my hand down there, and she will kinda get mad and say "im not in the mood babe" , help me!!!

2007-03-05 05:35:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible to have sex with a person and not get emotionally attached.

2007-03-05 05:35:24 · 2 answers · asked by Tea 1

okay my girl friend said she wants to have sex and i dont think she is ready what should i do or should i say something to her?

2007-03-05 05:35:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The person you are ready to spend the rest of your life with is in prison for 2 years. The situation is that you were together for 3 years. You had to move away and he was in jail. You lost contact for a year. He gets married. You get in contact with him again and your feelings for eachother are stronger than ever. He divorces and wants to be with you. The catch is you got in contact with him while he is in prison and he has 2 years left. Just want to hear some seriouse answers please.

2007-03-05 05:34:08 · 16 answers · asked by ByouTfull 4

I recently asked my boyfriend why he hasn't tried to take our relationship to the next level...(meaning getting engaged) He told me that he'd love to do that but when the time is right. He said that when he get's his life in order he'll take that step.
Am I just wasting my time? I dont want to be one of those women waiting around for years.
Is he seeing someone else?

2007-03-05 05:33:54 · 10 answers · asked by *VS* 3

2007-03-05 05:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by callie r 1

when im around my friends im myself but when im around other people i have a hard time trying to talk to them, its usually the other person who opens up to me first and then i eventually open up to them. is there any way i can get rid of my shyness ? do guys actually like that ?

2007-03-05 05:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by Dia 3

I am extremly confused and i dont know what to do. To keep a long story short: my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. We decided to remain friends. After breaking up we did not really talk much and only hung out once. Recently, it seems like she is wanting to hang out with me more. we hung out yesterday (as friends) and she wants to hang out again today. I am fine with that I dont think it is that strange. What i find strange is that it seems like she wants me to be her boyfriend but without me actually being her boyfriend. I kind of feel like she is keeping me on "the back burner". Just things that she says and the way she acts, and the things we do. for example she wants to go to the circus with me (the circus is not something friends go too.. more of a relationship type event, or people w/ kids) She is pretty straighfoward and i think that if she wanted to get back with me she would have said something. I just dont understand because i am geting mixed signals

2007-03-05 05:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-05 05:30:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men how would u feel if an ex flame that you were still in love with was pregnant with anoher man's baby?

2007-03-05 05:28:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you all think about snooping? Like looking at emails and stuff?

2007-03-05 05:27:55 · 24 answers · asked by kungfumasterzod 2

i really like this guy but hes starting to get all hormonal or w/e on me and he only does it around his friends but when i call him hes all like "i like you i realy do but i just dont know" and hes all sensitive and he so nice to me even around his fiends except for that hormonal thingy.

2007-03-05 05:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by Christa...is Awesome =]] lol 1

You can give me a stranger and i can convince him to do anything...i can even make people laugh when they are most depressed...i can talk on stage..give extempores and anything.

The problem is...when i m talking to anyone i know personally..i can't sustain a conversation.i mean at that moment there is nothing to talk about..!!!!

This hs cost a lot of relationships...my last breakup ws because my girl said "why can't you talk to me like you usually do" n blah blah

i know i'll get a girl real fast...tht i always do...but i really want to have a lasting relationship... (i wish it works out with the same girl i broke up..)

2007-03-05 05:25:15 · 6 answers · asked by fire_kops 1

im only half romanian...what are your thoughts on us...no mean answers please

2007-03-05 05:25:03 · 13 answers · asked by Dia 3

2007-03-05 05:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by You want it i got it 1

dated for a long time knowing she wanted marriage but you did not with her? How long did you continue to date her and how far into the relationship did you know that she was not the one?

2007-03-05 05:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kat G 6

I was working at my part time job the other day at bill miller and i asked this girl if i could borrow her phone to call my parents to pick me up and she said only if i gave her a "wet one". what is it?

2007-03-05 05:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by The J 2

I have been going out with my girlfrind for a little over 3 months. Atfirst, I really liked her, but in the last while, our differences have made me reconsider whether I really want to continue being with her. The fact that I am a Catholic and she sees herself as an aethiest, is one of the things that keeps bugging me. Also, not that i have anything against here having fun, but she does like to get drunk pretty regularly, and because we live about 2.5 hours from each other, I sometimes wonder what she's doing. Although she really loves me to death, she is one of those girls that always wants sex, and I just can't help wondering If she ever does stuff with other guys when i'm not there. Because of these things, I have decided I want to break up. I'm just afraid of really hurting her, because she is still so loving towards me (always wants me to phone her, likes to give me gifts, makes future plans with us, etc.) What do i do? I want to move on without breaking her heart.

2007-03-05 05:18:32 · 38 answers · asked by Riley C 1

What's a girl's best friend? Diamonds ? Think again please. It's yours truely.

I have been involved with more than a few girls , and almost in every single case , I get the ultimate "I do like you very much , but as a friend".

How can I shake lose my life-long curse of being a girls' best friend? It's destroyed my love-life for so so long.

2007-03-05 05:18:16 · 4 answers · asked by T.S.Elliot 1

how do feel about about yourself as far as how many sex
partner you had? and dosen,t the body wear out afterwhile?
only serious answer please

2007-03-05 05:18:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

without hurting her

2007-03-05 05:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by meat head 1

Care to share your experiences, of getting dumped, dumping someone, etc. How did you cope after a sad breakup and how long did it take for you to move on?

2007-03-05 05:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by **** 2

So i met this guy not to long ago over the internet and we hit it off right away. We had a lot in common and we had great and extremely long conversations about all kinds of things.

We finally decided to meet and have hung out quite a few times since then. So of course you're all wondering if we slept together and the answer would be yes. Not right away but we did.

Everything has been going great and I thought we were very open with each other about what we were looking for. Both of us want a relationship and can see ourselves with one another but we both want to take it slow and not rush into anything serious.

So what's the problem? The problem is that he says the sweetest things to me and melts my heart with his words. He told me that he could see himself loving me. A few days later I told him the same and I feel like every since that day things have been weird between us. He doesn't call as much and he seems so nonchalant about us now.

Any insights????

2007-03-05 05:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. CityKitty 3