I am extremly confused and i dont know what to do. To keep a long story short: my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. We decided to remain friends. After breaking up we did not really talk much and only hung out once. Recently, it seems like she is wanting to hang out with me more. we hung out yesterday (as friends) and she wants to hang out again today. I am fine with that I dont think it is that strange. What i find strange is that it seems like she wants me to be her boyfriend but without me actually being her boyfriend. I kind of feel like she is keeping me on "the back burner". Just things that she says and the way she acts, and the things we do. for example she wants to go to the circus with me (the circus is not something friends go too.. more of a relationship type event, or people w/ kids) She is pretty straighfoward and i think that if she wanted to get back with me she would have said something. I just dont understand because i am geting mixed signals
2007-03-05 05:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes girls have a hard time telling a guy how they are feeling, especially if it is a guy that they have dated before. i would tell her that you are getting mixed signals from her and that you want to know how she is truly feeling. then tell her how you feel about the situation good luck :)
2007-03-05 05:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in Ireland and that sounds to me that she wants u to be her F**K Buddy (as we call it in Ireland).. Casual sex whenever suits u both without the hassle of the relationship.. If it suits u to have this kind of relationship with her, then go ahead.... Maybe Im wrong and this girl still really likes you. I dont know all the facts of ur relationship so I cant be of much more use,, sorry...
2007-03-05 13:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she wants to hang out with you to a place you think is a date place tell her you are bringing a girl you just meet.
or tell her you have a date and can't go 'hang out'
or just show up with another girl.
If you are just friends now, she should not mind.
try to get into her drawers and see what she says.
I think she is using you until she finds someone she wants to date!
2007-03-05 13:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Plus Size Panther! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is tell her how you are feeling about whats going on. if you have questions ask her what they are. maybe she wants you back and afraid that you might say no, maybe she wants you as a back up boyfriend, maybe she wants you be be a best friend, or more. good communications are best for any kind of relationships.
2007-03-05 13:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really didn't want to break up with you from the start she probably was mad at you and said it out of anger. Now she realize what she did was stupid and wants things to go back to the way it was.
2007-03-05 13:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey she just needs a close friend and u r that kind of guy that she needs..she trusts u and possibly there is sumthin about u and the circus that mekes here feel safe?
let me know what happens..if ya get bak together or not..oplz
2007-03-05 13:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Martariesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with her some more and ask her what she wants from ur relationship.. thats the easiest way
2007-03-05 13:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know just how you feel . give her more than enuff space if you no what i mean and date other people she will come around and ask you back or leave you
2007-03-05 13:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋