I've had 2 gfs. They both cheated on me. It hurts like hell. And I've been talking to people around 30...and they told me that cheating will eventually happen in all the relationships. Is this true? How could anyone get back with the person that cheated on them? I have this notion that once the girl cheats....her goodies become all filthy cuz of another man's dirtiness. It grosses me out. Am I being too ...I dont know the word...but my main question....is though...will all the girls I'll date will eventually cheat on me (cuz I never will). And if not...then how do u tell if a girl would become a cheater?
THnx
2007-03-05 05:39:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, not every woman will cheat on you. You need to find a steady, good woman. I'm not sure how old you are but you seriously need to consider just playing the field until the right ones comes along. You know in your heart which one you are meant to be with. You will just know it down to your core.
I think that the character of the person you are with should tell you whether they will cheat or not. If they lie or are out or gone a lot and aren't completely honest or seems like they aren't completely honest then they probably will cheat on you. Find someone who is always honest time and time again. That is the one you want. Now you just need to find the completely honest one with the entire package that fits your likes and dislikes.
Good luck
2007-03-05 05:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by yomama23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not true, and unfortunately, there is no real way of knowing if woman will or will not cheat.
Some women are pure and committed, and you'll never have to worry about them cheating.
Some women intend to be pure and committed, but the man isn't taking care of business the way that she'd like, and while she may actually love him, she decides to go out and cheat to satisfy her physical desires.
Some women are sluts and no matter what you do and how well you do it, they'll still cheat because that's what sluts do.
Your best bet would be to really pay attention when you meet a girl. If you meet a girl and SHE actually initiates the sex after only knowing her a short time, then chances are that she might end up cheating (but of course there are no guarantees!) and if you meet a girl and she makes you wait what feels like an eternity before being intimate, then chances are that she will not be one to cheat (but once again, there are no guarantees - some women might actually make you wait, and all the while they're sleeping with someone else)
Good Luck!!
2007-03-05 05:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all girls do not cheat on there man. If they truly like or love u and value a relationship they will not. Find someone that u have the same interest in things. Romance her keep heart with u make her feel like no man could do better than u. Find out what her interest and feeling are also. I know it hurts when someone cheats on u. But there is someone out there just for u. Don't give up. Date them a little longer before u commit to understand if a women u find in the future wants to be with u only. She out there. Good luck
2007-03-05 05:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by chyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just not true! Not everybody cheats! I have been in a lot relationships where neither one of us cheated. Yeah it does happen but everybody does not do it. You have had just a bad string of luck lately. (we all go through it)
If someone does cheat on you. Don't take them back! Once a cheat always a cheat! You can't tell who will become a cheater! Just tell them your story. I've always told the women I dated just break up with me before you want to go cheat. (have some honor)
2007-03-05 05:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.Know It All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to first understand why some women cheat, now these are just some reasons im sure there are many more.
1. not getting enough attention at home.
2. lonelyness
3. not sexually satisfied
4. needs a friend
5. revenge
6. not in love
There are no guarentees that everyone girl you date will or won't cheat. I have cheated. On my first husband. Why did I cheat refer to numbers 1, 2,4 and 6. I was with him for 11 years. and cheated within 1 year of dating.
My 2nd husband cheated on me. (what goes around comes around).
Then I met my current bf (5 years together) and I never even look at another man. He satisfies me in every way possible. He however, did kiss another girl 1 year ago, I forgave him.
So to answer you question, you may be dating women who want to be with more than one man, or they may not be satisfied in the realtionship. Look and anyalize your relationships and never be afraid to ask you partner what they like or want. This goes for sexually and NON sexual.
Best of luck to ya.
2007-03-05 05:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating will not eventually happen in every relatonship you were misinformed by people that are bitter. Cheating is a unmoral charcteristic. People that dont have morals cheat, and they dont honor their body. How can you tell..well if you know if she has alot of partners in the past that can be a sign because that lacks morals, if shes constantly looking around at other men that may be a sign. If she had regular schedule of doing things when she met you and without notice start changn habits and personality.
2007-03-05 05:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls cheat. I think once a woman grows up and is serious about her man she will not cheat. I wouldnt take back a man who cheated on me no way it is dirty. You should ask if the girl has cheated before if she says yes she might do it again or if the chick acts shady shes probly a cheater. Youll find a woman who will be only yours.
2007-03-05 05:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is definitely not true, i have never ever cheated on any of my boyfriends, and i never plan to cheat either. Maybe your just looking at the wrong type of girls. Think about this, are based on looks? Maybe you should get to really know what the girl is like on the inside, that's where the real beauty is. you can tell by how they act and if they lie to you alot.
2007-03-05 05:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in several serious relationships and the girl never cheated on me. I've known many friends whose girlfriend or boyfriend didn't cheat on them. I have also known the opposite. IT doen't always happen and it doesn't have to happen but if it does happen do you really want that person back. Except for vernerial diseases, the woman does not become physically tainted. IF you were really affraid of another man's taint on a woman then you' donly date virgins. Maybe you need to date other types of women!
2007-03-05 05:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by James J. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldnt expect that all relationships will end with someone cheating. There are healthy, loving, non-cheating relationships that exist everywhere. You may need to start relationships that have more communication in the future. Tell her everything and expect the same in return. Cultivate honesty in the ones you love. It will pay off big time in the end. Good luck to ya. Sorry for your troubles.
2007-03-05 05:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋