What do you all think about snooping? Like looking at emails and stuff?
2007-03-05 05:27:55 · 24 answers · asked by kungfumasterzod 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there done that...it doesn't solve nothing b/c then u just build untrue **** in your head and it makes the situation worse the best solution is to ask so u can feel better and know what to do...
2007-03-05 05:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely think that not only is it Ok, but it is sometimes necessary to snoop. Especially if you are married. If your spouse is exhibiting some strange behavior and you have reasonable cause to suspect something and he's not forth-coming with answers, then as underhanded and sneaky as it may seem...you need to snoop.
Just be prepared for what you find and be prepared to 'fess up that you snooped.
2007-03-05 13:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okays. If they are not doing anything wrong they have nothing to hide so there for they should not mind you looking through their phone. I do it. Looking through their things does show you have a trust issue but if you are looking they must have given you a reason to look. Just be careful because it can start a lot of arguments and problems in your relationship. Good Luck!! Hope I Helped!!
2007-03-05 13:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alawintaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that she might be cheating then you probably have a good reason or suspension. So I would defintley loook before you asked her, because once she thinks that you might know somehitng and she is chesting she might try covering her tracks more and then you may never know. Sometimes you have to snoop to get to the truth.
2007-03-05 13:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i go through my boyfriends phone but he never had a problem with it and i do it right in front of him when we are chillin and watching a movie i go through it just cus im bored and he told me "i have nothing to hide and i dont care"
but we talked about it first and i dont do it cus i dont trust him and he knows it
but i think you need to ask him about it first and there are signs to watch out for
first if he kisses you differently (it means he doesn't have the same passion her used to for you and he might have passion with someone else)
and if he all the sudden wants to dress nice and takes care of himself more for no reason (remember when you first started dating and you both dressed really mice to impress each other and then as you got comfy with each other you didn't feel the need to well maybe he feels the need to dress nice to impress someone else)
also if he tries to start fights alot ( he is starting fights cus he doesn't want to tell you he is cheating and the guilt is getting to him and also he might want to make your relationship slowly drop so you are the one that dumps him so he can be with this other girl)
and if he is all the sudden really helpful and wants to give you things alot more ( he feels guilty for cheating and he thinks that if he is kinder and helps you more it will cover up what he has done)
but the biggest one is if you suspect he is cheating then there are only two outcomes for this
(and this one you have to be really honest with your self k)
the first out come is that you are so over reacting and you are more of a jealous person and you need trust and sometimes people have bad moods or off days its OK dont automatically dont to think he is a cheater
or the second out come
is if you think he is cheating most likely he already has and its probably not the first time
2007-03-05 13:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its wrong to snoop into someones private info. Would I do it if I suspected cheating..... YES, but i am sure I would feel bad after wards (well somewhat anyway)
2007-03-05 13:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by M B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we're all human and curious by nature... even if we have trust for another person, sometimes the questions and the unknowns may get the best of us... espcially if the other person is acting suspicious or is giving us reason to be concerned.
I have looked at others' phones and even e-mails before, thinking something may be amiss; I admit it. (And -- sad, but true -- I was usually right!) And I plan to "snoop" through my daughter's stuff when she is older... if she gives me reason to doubt her or if there's reason for me to be concerned for her well being.
2007-03-05 13:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by bethiswriting 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have good reason to believe cheating is taking place and are married ask about it first. If the same suspicions continue you should do what you need to to verify what is true. If true they are putting you at risk for decease. You have every right to know what is going on.
2007-03-05 13:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv'e done it before, bout it doesn't make u feel any better. Especially if it confirms your suspicions. Relationships are based so heavily on trust and if u cant trust this person you should leave.. Try talking to them first and be honest with her/him, get it out in the open and u might find what u are looking for... Good look with it...
2007-03-05 13:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Point 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No good, been there done that you will get just what you are looking for 9 out 10 is going to be there like my mom always told as a little girl "WHAT'S DID IN THE DARK WILL COME TO THE LIGHT" get it and now I tell it to my kids get it .Lol
2007-03-05 13:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Queendee_nola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doin it sometimes is ok jus to keep an eye on them but only to a certain extent..not to where u check every email and check every phone call...there does need to be some space and trust between the two people
2007-03-05 13:31:33 · answer #11 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋