I & my long D ex, we met on the plane, he was after me for 6 mths, did all those very romantic things even we’ re miles apart. Finally I was moved, he visited and we started. Things went sore after 6 months, we argued & I felt he was distant from me. I was upset and wanna call it quit completely but just coulda get over him. He would still call once in awhile, sometimes we spoke like strangers but sometimes he said he loved me. The main reason he upset me was so many times he said he was coming to see me, but finally called it off. I just dun understand why he wants to do that? If he thought he has hit and run, then why keep calling and said he would see me soon. I was very heart broken, did lot of crying last year. Today I suddenly realized it is mar now, the last time we met up was last year mar. it has been a month since the last time he called/ txt, finally today I feel like sending him a letter/ email and tell him all my feelings, then no matter what, I will move on. Should I?
2007-03-05 02:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah let him know you will not be his doormat anymore. It will provide closure in which you need.
2007-03-05 02:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he ought to enable this save him from you than he merely needed a speedy excuse. i have suggested it once and that i will assert it back, act like it doesn't hardship you.Ask if both of you need to merely be friends. tutor him you'd be that particular man or woman for him back. do not ever enable him see how damage you're (till when you're decrease back mutually). If he continuously is questioning you're waiting for him than he can do what he likes and understand even as he receives round to being with you than you'd be there. although, some adult men can enable the love of his existence bypass and not in any respect come to for years, and after quite a few worse relationships later. concentration on you and your needs and something else will artwork itself out.
2016-11-27 23:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by cordell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good idea. Make sure to be honest with him, but no need to hurt him. Include the good things you both had together in your email/msg, and why you think you two can't go on like this any more and wish him luck.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 02:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on. If you don't you are wasting alot of precious life. Please don't make yourself available when ever he wants to get together, it should never be one sided. If you let him to continue to walk all over you he always will. You deserve a real man, who is always there for you. Not once or twice a year.
2007-03-05 02:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes letting the person know your TRUE feelings is the easiest way to move on. Just let him know and then move on, forget about him
2007-03-05 02:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it sounds like a waste of time but if you want to do it then just do it. maybe it will help u feel better to know that at least u tried. good luck!!!
2007-03-05 02:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont revive stinks
2007-03-05 02:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it serves no purpose.
2007-03-05 02:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write!
2007-03-05 02:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Forest Breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋