He confessed to me that he like me for about 4 years, funny thing is I've liked him for about 4 years as well. On ash wednesday I went to church and prayed to god to help me forget about him if is not meant to be, but that night he called out of know where. Now we finally started talking and even made out on the first date. Also he has a girlfriend but hes constantly calling me. Whay should I do?
2007-03-05 02:29:41 · 20 answers · asked by Christina L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth, you do not want to be the other woman.
2007-03-05 02:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell him you won't want to go far in relationship if he's going to keep his gf.
Tell him on your 3rd date or so.
Don't even think about sleeping him. You shouldn't sell yourself too cheap.
If the problem is about age, it really doesn't matter if you two like each other very much. Don't just make yourself a fool, being the young, easy lover.
2007-03-05 10:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and see what is supposed to be. You should really stay away from him until his gf is out of the picture. If he really likes you then it shouldnt be long ..... Guys with gf's is just asking for trouble. Dont ever be second in a mans life! You want to have it all or nothing!! Trust me...it can only lead to trouble...big time! Good luck with everything!
2007-03-05 10:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. well 2 things popped into my mind....
he has a gf and he's calling you???? hmmmmmmm
now that's a real faithful guy....... who's he going to be calling if he gets together with you?
the other thing - 7 yrs..
That's not a bad thing... it just depends on where the 7 years is...
are you 17 and he's 24... yikes..... or are you 23 and he's 30.. big difference.. guys take longer to mature
But for me.. I'd be worried about the first one
2007-03-05 10:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is nothing wrong with the age difference unless you are a teenager.
Second if you are of age and he is really into, then he shouldn't have his little security blanket with the other girlfriend. Good luck
2007-03-05 10:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he have a g/f and she already start calling you so be careful you might get hurt.If he truly likes you then why the heck he have a g/f and still made out with you.If he can do that to his girl then what won't he do to you?? think..........
2007-03-05 10:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its either you or the girlfriend for starters, otherwise its cool. I have a bigger problem than seven years, mine is 20 year difference, but we still get a long great.
2007-03-05 10:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men will lie just get into a woman's pants. it sounds like he is setting you up to be his girl on the side. be careful and don't get your heart broken.
I'm not saying i have done this but i know of a few friends that have. be careful.
2007-03-05 10:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number! if your heart and god think you should be together then tell him. if your age difference matters to him he wouldnt tell you he liked you, and call you out of the blue.
2007-03-05 10:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore20_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep going for it, i was dateing my wifes little sister, i knew she had a crush on me, she would always talk to me and stair at me, we were at a party, me and my g/f at the time were drunk as went home woke to my surpise she was sleepping with another girl in bed next to me, haveing sex she turned gay, then i date her sister and now we are married with our first on the way.
we are still close she cums and visits us all the time,.
2007-03-05 10:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by bandit k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with a man who would cheat on his girlfriend to date you? Even if he dumps her and goes for you, you're always going to wonder when he will cheat on you.
2007-03-05 10:33:29 · answer #11 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋