Singles & Dating - 4 March 2007

I sort of have a crush on this English professor, and I think he's attracted to me too since I've caught him gazing at me a few times. Although he is a professor and I am a student, I'm was never his student and he has never been my teacher. Our age difference is about 10 years apart. Should I flirt with him and ask him out, or is that not ethical because of his position?

2007-03-04 19:43:37 · 9 answers · asked by Reviving Aerith 3

Its about my boyfriend. We are together for 4 months now. I jus found out he talke to some other girl.. well, I signed on yahoo, usin his screenname and some other girl imed him said "hey babe". I was pretending I was him and I said hey back to her and she kept askin me wen can she see me again on webcam. Then I signed off and I was hurt. He dont know that I found out about this. Pls help me... what will I do? Ask him to tell me the truth or jus leave him or what? Pls help me... I really love him and dont want to lose him. Im bout to move in with him da end of dis month. I dont know if he love me or not... Pls help me. I need ur advice!

2007-03-04 19:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by sandy v 1

2007-03-04 19:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by Daffodil 3

he's asked me about my future plans... he wants me to be close to him, but would not say why. he e-mails every day. when we were together, he teases me, suggests holidays (which i didn't follow up), brings me out. i feel protected. all he does in his wonderful sort of ways but he has not mentioned about the C word. commitment. are we in love? :)

2007-03-04 19:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3

mostly looking for romantic comedies...but still every suggestion is welcomed !!!
i can think of SOMETHINGS GOTTA GIVE and TWO CAN PLAY THAT GAME

2007-03-04 19:28:54 · 18 answers · asked by rohankhokar 2

Has his shi* together, good job, own apt (im 23 F, hes 28 M), good family, good upbringing, ultra-marathon runner blah blah the IDEAL bf resume, I thought I struck Gold.
A year later, I still feel like it isn't deep enough, like he doesn't move my spirit & inspire me & make me want to die for him. I always thought soulmates & marriage caliber relationships were when a man "gets" u, is a best friend to u, a confidant, a motivator, a nurturer, a refuge...someone u share dreams & lifelong goals with, someone who supports u in everything- he is none of those :(
Today he was pretty disrespectful to me, other times he has just been mean or distant and our phone conversations NEVER last over 15 min. I feel like it is more a convenient relationship for him and that I'm investing much more emotionally and putting more effort in it. He is easily bothered and I just cant let myself be 100% free w/him. It looks picture perfect but something is DEADLY wrong! Tips are deeply appreciated! Thank u :)

2007-03-04 19:27:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys-How do you feel when you truly like and care about a girl but she doesn't give you a chance besides being friends, and especially if she has no reason for not liking you?

Girls-How do you feel when you know you have a guy that really genuinely likes you but for some reason or not at all you won't give him a chance?

2007-03-04 19:22:52 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

they look the same to their mate? 10 or 15 pounds I can understand...but if you're to the point where you're buying clothes 10 sizes larger than a year ago, how can you not know it???

2007-03-04 19:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5

Example: I was walking with the guy I like and my [girl] friend. I said, "and the guy in the library was pretty cute. You should've seen him". He turned to me, gave me a look, then looked away. We all continued walking. How do guys feel when girls talk about things like this? Jealousy? Awkwardness? I'm hoping for jealousy, but I'm sure there isn't any. If someone can please explain to me, I'd really appreciate it. ;D

2007-03-04 19:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by aimee! ♥ 1

There is a guy I have liked for about a year and a half now. He is really nice and fun and just a good person. I have come to the realization that nothing will ever happen between us (tragic, I know). I am able to kind of get over him and not really think about it, but then we hang out and I fall back into the same feelings. It's not like it's controlling my life or anything, but is it worth it to keep the friendship if I know I will have these feelings come back each time we're around each other? It's not like we're very close friends or anything, but he is one of the best people I know. I don't want to miss out on being around a genuinely good person if I don't have to. Please, no ridiculously rude answers. I am just looking to see what other people would do.

2007-03-04 19:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has stopped telling me she loves me, along with treating me like dirt. Also when I tell her that I love her all she replies with is "I know" I don't want to think shes in love with another guy, but it is ALWAYS possible......please help with something! Please anyone?

2007-03-04 19:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by Nanukin 2

2007-03-04 19:13:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 19:10:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it the payback or is it getting to spend time with me as a female?
Do guys generally ask to spend the entire day with you if you are "just a friend"?
I spent Monday night and Wednesday night doing what he needed on the computer. He said he owed me an entire Tuesday...that is the day we both have off at work.
Why would he insist on spending that much time with me?
Could he be "digging" me or is this an obligation thing?

2007-03-04 19:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been going at it for about 5 months. We like hanging out a lot around each other, talking, laughing, eating, shopping, etc. Sometimes I feel like we've been doing the same things over and over again and it can get rather boring. I want to do something new and unusual that would bring some spark into the relationship again. Please provide me with some fun, inexpensive date ideas gift ideas. Thanks everybody!

2007-03-04 19:09:05 · 14 answers · asked by Keep It 100 2

Ive had this label since i was about 14. im now 25. i havent had many relationships. most of them have just been one night stands. is being a pretty boy going to leave me single. I think i have a great personality but have been told numerous times im not the kind of guy you date.

2007-03-04 19:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think about teens having sex without telling their parents?

2007-03-04 19:06:11 · 17 answers · asked by hot_babygal 1

That is, you are a guy and your girlfriend wants to have sex but you have to break it to her that you like to remain a virigin till marriage. will she take it the wrong way?
how to break it to her properly keeping yours and her diginity intact?

2007-03-04 19:04:43 · 14 answers · asked by Ezerage 2

how will god punish me for wasting my time and spending my fathers hard earn money at cyber cafe answering questions,only seriously married women and highly matuerly educated men should answer

2007-03-04 19:03:30 · 16 answers · asked by toploser 5

I don't go to bars or dance clubs so don't suggest it. I recently met a woman using the Internet, but when we met, it wasn't what either of us expected.

Help !

2007-03-04 19:01:43 · 16 answers · asked by Phillip 4

2007-03-04 18:59:00 · 23 answers · asked by pariya 1

ok if a gy knows you are dating his friend but they were not really all that good of friends and he lets you sit in his car and watches you leave what would you call that?

2007-03-04 18:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by poohbear27 2

Big breasted or small breasted women?
cause sometimes i wish my 34 B cups breast were an A cup!
5'0 and 17 and i weigh 97 i need breast reduction!
NO Jokes,critisim,rude,and dumb answers please!

2007-03-04 18:54:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok I want to put a somg on my myspace that kinda matches my mood... I have a really big crush on one of my closest friends but
i can't say anything to him b/c he has a GF and I am afraid if I tell him it will change the really close friendship we have... :( but I will listen to anything but rap and hardcore screming metal bands :)
Thanks

2007-03-04 18:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by Christina 4

people have asked what i like about this person and i could never give a real answer other than qualities that alot of other women have. ive been thinking for a few days now and i cannot come up with a definate reasons that set a person apart from someone else. so im asking women what is it about them that they want men to like them for (excluding something like "i want someone to like me for who i am")

2007-03-04 18:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by thelittlelim 2

i have tried many things, but it just seems bad luck follows me everywhere i go and im starting to hate my life. i feel completely unattractive, both inside and out, and get very anxious about work or social settings. i have learnt the guitar, tried exercising, saying/writing things down, but nothing seems to work. religion is not an option, because i cant buy into it. i realise that i am ugly (yellow teeth, very hairy back and shoulders, covered in freckles, short, overweight, pale, dry skin) and i just feel so ripped off with the way i look. i am 21 and never had a gf, or even a girl interested in me. i am too embarassed to talk to family or friends about how i feel as i see it as a weakness and something i should be able to deal with. i have also been smoking marijuana for the last couple of years since my father past away (i already felt bad about myself before this happened though). so what can you do to lift your self confidence and feel better about yourself?

2007-03-04 18:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best frien d to her and that she is my personal stalker. Why is she doing this?

I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.

Reasons i might think otherwise are that she spends time during her work to write me letters, calls me during breaks to grab food, and quotes chat conversation from and puts it into her profile. She has also subtly asked me to have dinner with her.

Is she trying to make me jealous because i feel like this is more intimidating?

2007-03-04 18:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

Yes, Yes, I know it sounds like a stupid question but my girl and I have been dating for a while now. We've came pretty close but she always stops me right before. Then she gets all frustrated because she says she really wants to do it but her gut keeps telling her no. I think it is that she is just scared because it'll be her 1st time. She's told me over and over that she wants to do it but she stops it from happening everytime. What can I do to help her get over her fear and doubt?

2007-03-04 18:46:45 · 25 answers · asked by Running Man 2

my boyfriend of one year always has to get drunk before he has sex with me can you tell me why this is and am i wasting my time and deserve something better should i let him go cus its just messed up in my opinion

2007-03-04 18:45:25 · 17 answers · asked by poohbear27 2

My little sister and I belongs to a choir group. There is a guy in the group which is very nice and gentleman. When the first time I saw him I know that I am attracted to him and I know I feel the same way too. But I have noticed that my sister is trying to get close to him. One day she admitted that he had a crush with the same guy. It is the first time that my sister confess something about the guy she likes and I can see that he likes that guy as much as I do....

It so hard for me to give way to my sis, but being her elder sister I need to. The guy is asking me why I am so far to him and why i'm ignoring him...

It is unfair with the three of us...What should I do?

2007-03-04 18:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous