Is it the payback or is it getting to spend time with me as a female?
Do guys generally ask to spend the entire day with you if you are "just a friend"?
I spent Monday night and Wednesday night doing what he needed on the computer. He said he owed me an entire Tuesday...that is the day we both have off at work.
Why would he insist on spending that much time with me?
Could he be "digging" me or is this an obligation thing?
2007-03-04 19:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only obligation is to his fascination with you. He digs you, he wants you, he may have set up the help thing just to be near you. Expect the I have to tell you a secret thing. It's coming.
2007-03-04 19:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go out and enjoy yourselves. I don't see it as a problem. He seems to be really thankful for the help you provided. If the context of the conversation gets alittle out of hand (you know, uncomfortable issues...), just be honest with him and let him know how you feel. How you will respond is up to you. Just be honest, and don't lead him around by the collar. At the same token, don't let him trap you into an unwanted situation either.
2007-03-05 03:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like perhaps he digs you! Not sure he would take that much trouble for an obligation! Take it slow and don't force anything, wait and see after that day.
2007-03-05 03:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by iloveroses1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you a lot and is wanting to get to know you better before he lets u know, whats on his mind. All the best Girl.
2007-03-05 03:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants you, although his calling it payback was a poorly worded answer.
2007-03-05 03:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by aabbcc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! he definitely is liking you and possibly looking to be more than "just friends" if he's wanting to spend his free time with you. good luck!
2007-03-05 03:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by rb_32368 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he definitely wants to hang out with you
2007-03-05 03:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by f d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could just be he's paying back your kindness... If you think it is more, ASK HIM...
2007-03-05 03:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not do his work instead of him he is using you
2007-03-05 03:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he digs you big time
2007-03-05 03:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by uxor01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋