Guys-How do you feel when you truly like and care about a girl but she doesn't give you a chance besides being friends, and especially if she has no reason for not liking you?
Girls-How do you feel when you know you have a guy that really genuinely likes you but for some reason or not at all you won't give him a chance?
2007-03-04 19:22:52 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, don't blame the girl... you only got urself to blame if a girl doesn t like you. Because man, a girl is not gonna like if she doesnt feel any ATTRACTION for you. Yeah thats right, it means that you are attracted 2 her but she aint attracted to you. That's why she says 'lets just be friends' because she doesn't want 2 hurt your feelings. for a girl to like you she's gotta have a reason to like you, wat i mean is you gotta have some value. She has got to NOTICE you. The only way you can do that is by being the guy that everybody wants to be around. you have to be confident, you have to be funny (buy some comedy books for gods sake), have a passion (learn the guitar, piano, play a sport), and above all creative (unpredictable with everything u do, wild), well groomed (brush your teeth regularly, get some nice clothes- doesn't have to be expensive) and girls will throw themselves at your feet. Like you said, she has to have a reason to like you, or at least notice you in the first place. Once you are in a relationship then you guys can really get to know each other. Trust me man, i have gone through 'lets just be friends' so many times and goddammit it rlly sux. You keep asking yourself "what's goin on?? what am i doing wrong??". but thats all the past. email me if you have any questions. hope my answer helped
2007-03-04 19:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gave it a shot--got the effect and you don't like how it turned out--you wrote and got some answers----what will it take to make you see that you don't stand a chance--you have given this way too much time----stop with the drama and move on. Next time, see where it goes and if it isn't going anywhere, move on again--it has to work out at some point---so keep trying...good luck
2007-03-05 03:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very awkward for a girl to have a guy who likes her when she really thinks nothing of him than friends, some take advantage of it though to get what they want. Others simply pretend like nothing happened and treat him the same although they do find it awkward.
2007-03-05 03:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks when you like a girl and they don't give you a chance.
2007-03-05 03:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy
i would feel bad, well the thing is, the guy she likes has "more" qualities than me and he enters first. thats the sad part.
2007-03-05 03:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she only consider you as friend,or she's not attracted to you at all,its hard to love someone, if you don't have feeling's.
2007-03-05 03:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rona V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chemistry is all that matters
2007-03-05 03:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there might be no chemistry, sparks.......
2007-03-05 03:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋