she has stopped telling me she loves me, along with treating me like dirt. Also when I tell her that I love her all she replies with is "I know" I don't want to think shes in love with another guy, but it is ALWAYS possible......please help with something! Please anyone?
2007-03-04 19:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by Nanukin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk BUT the thing is you need to tell her all your problems not sounding like blaming her - say it like you are sad about the things that happen and you want to know what is done wrongs towards her - what she thinks about it. and when speaking to you - use more sentences like - i am... or i feel...
Try to describe your feelings and ask her what she thinks about it!
2007-03-04 19:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah not to be negative but this does not sound good for you. It sounds like she is losing interest or has found interest in another guy. I may be wrong but it does sound as if things are on the edge of a break up. Sorry = ( could be wrong on the positive note. Try asking her about it.
2007-03-04 19:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Malice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there bro. It's hard, but the truth is, you should let her go. At this point the nicer you are to her, the more it's going to confirm to her that you accept being treated this way. I know it seems romantic to keep treating her like a princess. But a time comes when you have to let her know that you have standards, and she doesn't reach them anymore.
I know it's hard. Good luck. I hope I've helped.
2007-03-04 19:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by infamousheavyt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes the truth hurts. And if she is not who she use to be, just ask her what she wants out of your relationship. Just be up front about your problems and ask her if she still wants to be together. You know knowing the truth is better than feeling like crap. So be strong and face her. And if she says she wants nothing to do with you don't take it to the heart there will be more fish in the sea and they will be even better!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 19:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she treats you like dirt, then you know she is not a nice person. Why waste your time on her? Don't you want someone that sees your qualities, and enjjoys you.
YOU ARE LETTING HER TREAT YOU LIKE DIRT, BECAUSE YOU ALLOW HER TO.
2007-03-04 19:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No communication? You need to have a talk and (I'm sorry) be prepared for the worst. Tear off that bandage and move on!
2007-03-04 19:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of her feelings for another guy, she clearly does not have the same feelings for you she may have had at one time. Either talk about it openly, or end it (or both!).
2007-03-04 19:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by iloveroses1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do: DO NOT ASSUME!!! no one can tell you exactly whats going on besides her. maybe shes going through something emotional. try talking to her about it. and yes please try to keep positive. it is a possiblity but dont let it come to that. always communicate. i wish you luck!!
2007-03-04 19:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~*LoSt*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethings wrong...doesnt mean she's loving someone else.
means somethings wrong in the relationship. its a lot easier sometimes to blame it on external influences isnt it? peace
2007-03-04 19:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww~ poor guy. well, not trying to be mean, but give her space. and ask around to her friends but don't let them tell her that you asked them. and if it seems like what they say means that she doesn't want you. let go. my friend once said, 'loving also means knowing to let go of someone you love. to let them go to their love and be happy...' now that i think of it, she's right.
2007-03-04 19:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋