There is a guy I have liked for about a year and a half now. He is really nice and fun and just a good person. I have come to the realization that nothing will ever happen between us (tragic, I know). I am able to kind of get over him and not really think about it, but then we hang out and I fall back into the same feelings. It's not like it's controlling my life or anything, but is it worth it to keep the friendship if I know I will have these feelings come back each time we're around each other? It's not like we're very close friends or anything, but he is one of the best people I know. I don't want to miss out on being around a genuinely good person if I don't have to. Please, no ridiculously rude answers. I am just looking to see what other people would do.
2007-03-04 19:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did I not say I have realized nothing will ever happen between us? Honestly, I didn't say that for fun, I truly know nothing will ever happen. I am a very realistic person, I have no need to get a grip and am not living in a dream world. I'm just looking for opinions about whether or not the friendship is worth it.
2007-03-04 19:29:23 · update #1
Although, the real man do date does sound rather nice ;) Hmmm, I'll look into that.
2007-03-04 19:30:48 · update #2
Women and men are different when it comes to certain things---emotions are a woman thing--that's why you feel the way you do over him and his friendship.... get a grip--FLASH--he is only a friend--a good one at that. I am good friends with a lot of women--I am not falling apart over any of them....and neither should you. You must have a dream sequence that puts you two together--but in reality-you aren't going to be a couple--so it is a fantasy---get a grip, see it for what it is. Just enjoy the nice guy aspect--find a real man to date and see where that goes. Smile and good luck
2007-03-04 19:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you... i'd keep him around, it's always nice to have good people around you. It keeps you inspired and well, maybe someday... who knows.
2007-03-04 19:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur happiness is all that matters. so make a decision that u will be happy with.
2007-03-04 19:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋