Singles & Dating - 4 March 2007

Those of you how read my last question "what the hell?!" you know that my bf dumped me 2 weeks ago. Well, there is this guy named John that i really like. He made me laugh everytime i cried. We have known eachother for alittle for than a semester (of school). Me and him talked for a while on the phone, and came clean about how we thought each other was attractive. Its weird now, because we planned on going out the last 2 fridays. and his mom needed him to work and his car broke down. so we didnt go out. at all. I call him maybe, every other day, and he rarely answers, and when he doesnt he doesnt even call me back. Is he not interested? Maybe im just covered in "guy repelent".

2007-03-04 00:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i've had a huge crush on my guy friend for six months but he had a gf so i'd given up. well last week he broke up with her (she was really bad for him, he would always get depressed with her) and told me he liked me from the first day we met which was exactly how i felt. we went out all through the week and had a date on friday and he held me through the whole thing. we talked so much over the computer and he said he was totally over her and everything and that i was really important to him and we could just sit and cuddle and hold hands... last night he sent me an email saying that he wasn't over her, he'd need a while to get over her, and he might never be able to be with me. i cried all night and i can't picture what's going to happen next. help, please!!!

2007-03-04 00:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a major crush on this guy for 5 months, and I still don't knnow what to do. I know that he likes me as a friend, but that's not enough to me! I want more than just as a friend. What do you think I should do to get him attracted to me?

2007-03-04 00:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by clandestine 3

2007-03-04 00:42:45 · 3 answers · asked by Abu3ode 1

i met this girl at a club i go to about a month ago i only see her on satadays as thats when the club is open . i talk to her all the time now and i really fancy her . we have the same persanality and we even share the same hobbys which strangley enough is fishing i was really supprised when she said she does fishing she really dosent look like the sort of girl who would like fishing she is really very pretty . anyway i like here and i think she may be starting to like me .

iv fallen head over heals in love it all seems like a dream i get that gut feeling she is the one . it was as if an angel made us meat or something . to me she is perfect . she has everything i like in a girl looks and a good personality

anyway my question is whats the best way to ask a girl out this may seem a really wierd question but im a really shy guy and my knees start shaking every time i have been about to ask her and i have bottled it every time help please????????????

2007-03-04 00:42:33 · 2 answers · asked by eddy m 2

2007-03-04 00:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by maureen 1

are there any telltale signs, its difficult to know as he is a friend?

2007-03-04 00:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by THKE 1

Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."

This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.

Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this? If there was something, would she REALLY call him and act like I wasn't there to see what he would say?

Confused?

2007-03-04 00:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 00:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4

this girl i work with, i have huge crush on..

she's really nice to me, smiles everyday, looks at me and stuff.
BUT SHE DOSE NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT GOING OUT WITH ME.

I asked her out once around x-mas. she said she has plans with her family. and she said u have plans too. you'll have fun there.
i was heartbrooken, but next week at work, she was beeing all nice to me and friendly asking me how my weekend was?

i asked her out again last weekend, she said she gets off late, i said i would wait. but i leave work and i go back to work, but she got done before she said she would (but that could be b/c she finish her work quick)

how should i behave when i see her at work again monday?

WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? IS SHE INTRESTED?

2007-03-04 00:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by S. 1

I have been dating someone for about six months. He is separated and through the final stages of a divorce, so I have kept things totally above board -- no physical contact. He had told me he would like to become intimate a while back, but last night I said I would like to, and he pulled back. At the end of our date, he gave me a quick kiss and hug, and left. I'd thought about asking him in, but he hadn't done much more than put his arm around me all evening (and immediately took it off again). I want to respect his boundaries -- he has as much right to say no as I do. He's said he doesn't want to get hurt -- and he knows I am not after marriage. Is this relationship worth pursuing? The lack of physical intimacy is making me unhappy, and I feel like I must have misread him somehow.

2007-03-04 00:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by Mary 1

me and my boyfriend have been together 5 months, weve done almost everythin except sex, he says that he wants to do 'somthin special' for me i just have to think of wat i want, please could you give me some ideas except the obvious! please help, serious answers only please
thanx
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2007-03-04 00:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

worthless? somone u love so much but you feel like they dnt care about you? they say they do and make make plans with you but nothing ever comes of it? and when you try and talk about things thats eating you up inside and they just get all defensive and walk away and leave you crying and all alone.

2007-03-04 00:22:38 · 27 answers · asked by me_me 1

my ex girlfriend left me over a year ago now, she then went out with another guy for 1 year and in that time fell pregnant to him. they have broken up and because of the pregnancy they arent speaking to each other. all this time i have still had feelings for my ex even with everything that has happened. i really think im in love with her, she is the only girl i want to be with. we have remained close all this time. we still have an amazing connection that i havent felt with any other girl. i should be angry at her for leaving me and for getting pregnant to the guy she left me for, especially since i would love to have kids of my own. but i just cant hate her. i love her and i would be with her again even though she is pregnant..the baby isnt a problem i just want to be with her. does this seem like a wierd situation? am i crazy to want to still be with her? is it wierd to wanna be with a girl thats pregnant to another guy? should i give it a try or give up and move on?

2007-03-04 00:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Michael P 1

2007-03-04 00:19:49 · 3 answers · asked by mhrhashemi 3

I talk to this one girl i like on msn and i make fun of her by saying she wishes she looked as good as me that she should stop eating her feelings meaning that i call her fat and ugly. She actually is not and knows im joking but could she still take it the wrong way

2007-03-04 00:16:48 · 17 answers · asked by wassup 4

my girlfriend likes to take pictures of her feet and other girl feet...what does she mean by this...and when i ask her does she like me to kiss her feet,she says no....what does it she mean by this...does she hava a foot fetish or just shy about it

2007-03-04 00:16:01 · 2 answers · asked by Mr. Sai 1

2007-03-04 00:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well theres a guy i sit next to him in almost all of my classes because they are assigned seats hes really cute! i want to know if he likes me we talk a lot, he has a nickname for me, hes always listening to what i say to my friends, and always puts his arm close to me and o yea he always looks at my legs idk why...

2007-03-04 00:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked this guy but he likes someone else.We were good friends but he started to ignore me but he just talked to me today,does that mean he is not angry?

2007-03-04 00:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by joytotheworld 1

My first boyfriend/love, of 11 months, dumped me last week. Of course i was heart broken blah blah blah ( the usual) Im still confused about his reasons. He wasnt popular then and he is now, and he wants to spend more time with his friends, i got that much. But his feelings for me.....thats what im confused about. He doesnt love me anymore, i know that much. But we still make out sometimes. He thinks im hot and all. I dont even know if he likes me or not. Im so confused. FYI im 17.

2007-03-04 00:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We never talked and then one day we started talking.We had a few of the same interests which gave us more to talk about.He just started paying more attention to me. We flirted a whole lot too the smiling,laughing,joking,eye contact from across the room,doing things for eachother. Then one day he just goes a bit funny and doesn't talk to me for nearly two weeks.After 2 weeks everythings the way it was again.What happened?is he trying to keep his distance from me because he likes me and we work together. he does still talk to me sometimes just not as often.what do you think.and i don't want any lectures about coworkers relationships,coz i really don't care

2007-03-04 00:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by debra 2

ok , please tell me what this sounds like. Dude emails me, says he pulled my resume offline, so he tells me can I work from home, I say yeah, (you know on my days off or when I get off work) ( Now tell me does this sound strange) I said doing what? (I was thinking it was that scam where they send you a check, and you cash it at your bank, you take 10 % and send them the rest) but it wasnt, he wants to send you packages, and you go to UPS and send them off, he sends you what label to put on them as well, He said he owns a store in Brooklyn, West Africa, and Berlin. I dont know it just dont add up to me and it is freakin me out, could be a terrorists, I asked him all these questions and in the end still only had what I had in the beginning. He called me, and it was "PRIVATE". Why would you rather discuss business online than the phone? That didnt make sense either, and if you have a business, why cant you send these " packages" yourselves. Im so confused, please serious help only...

2007-03-04 00:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 00:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by Randy J 1

2007-03-04 00:08:50 · 4 answers · asked by Seth R 2

2007-03-04 00:05:27 · 20 answers · asked by honniebabee 1

My girlfriend broke up with me, Don't really know why, but she said she didn't like me, anyway, From time to time she'll tell my best friend about guys she slept with and her realtionships, she won't tell anyone else just him. I got a friend who moved who was a friend of the both of us but more closer to me to ask her about these sexual relationships and she told him a completely different story and that she only kissed these guys. When I talk to her on the phone sometimes I'll steer the conversation to dating but she says she hasnt had any relationships. Why is she telling my best friend she's having sexual relationships and then telling completely diffrent storys to other people and to me? (She dosent like me and dosent want to get back together.) sorry if the question is long and complicated.

2007-03-04 00:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 00:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by lovely 2

Hi, I wanted to ask this because my girlfriend always ask me to hug her from behind when we sleep at night, because she feels totally protected and doesn't have any nightmares. So do women really love the idea of being protected by their boyfriends ?

2007-03-04 00:03:30 · 13 answers · asked by Polat Z 1

She's really hot.
She talks to other guys more than me.
And they talk to her alot too
She barely talks to me and she keeps sayin i don't like her.
what should i do about this
I'm planing to hang out with my friends untill she comes talk to me and hangs out with me.

2007-03-04 00:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by EZ 3