My first boyfriend/love, of 11 months, dumped me last week. Of course i was heart broken blah blah blah ( the usual) Im still confused about his reasons. He wasnt popular then and he is now, and he wants to spend more time with his friends, i got that much. But his feelings for me.....thats what im confused about. He doesnt love me anymore, i know that much. But we still make out sometimes. He thinks im hot and all. I dont even know if he likes me or not. Im so confused. FYI im 17.
2007-03-04 00:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being used (duh). Love and sex are not the same thing. You are using the word love and he is using the word sex.
Do you understand why you still make out with him, knowing that he does not love you? Assuming that you are the hottest girl around.
2007-03-04 00:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gal, you have had it! Your are giving away yourself for what? Your self esteem is far too low. Take a look at yourself. Get to know yourself a bit better and you will see why the relationship didn't last. Also, look at it this way. What is he getting out of you? Obviously, he isn't giving you anything but you are giving you all. You think that is fair? Clean up your act and find someone worthy of you - AFTER YOU TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF.
2007-03-04 00:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by charliehc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
He doesn't want to be committed, but he does want the physical side of the relationship.The guy's messing wid ur head. If his reason for dumping you was that he got really popular and didn't think u were good enuff for him, then your mind should be crystal clear. Get rid of him.
2007-03-04 00:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by ScreamBloodyMurder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that he's popular he's called it quits and you are still making out with him even though you don't know if he likes you? What's wrong with you? He's not going to get back with you. Move around!
2007-03-04 00:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by mocha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called 'using another' . You are an object in his eyes.. a trophy.
. he doesn't love you but you are allowing him to do whatever he wants with you. Have a little self respect and find a nice guy. Being friends with a 'player' doesn't do anything for your self esteem.
2007-03-04 00:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and don't look back. Ending makes for a new beginning.
2007-03-04 00:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by joeB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to screw as many girls as possible with out any sort of commitment. Go find some o ne better, you deserve that
2007-03-04 00:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and you should have more respect for yourself then to make out with someone that your not even sure likes you ! dont give him anything, if he dont love you why you giving in to him
2007-03-04 00:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're still young my dear..u still haf alot to learn in lyf...
by the tot of him,thinking you hot and all is all about satisfying his sexual needs....
dont ever think about him again...he thinks you're atoy doll whom he can play wif if he wants and shelve it wen he dont...
think again..he chose his frens than you...
better still if you pick me...
how bout u adn me...get to know each other??
2007-03-04 00:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋