We never talked and then one day we started talking.We had a few of the same interests which gave us more to talk about.He just started paying more attention to me. We flirted a whole lot too the smiling,laughing,joking,eye contact from across the room,doing things for eachother. Then one day he just goes a bit funny and doesn't talk to me for nearly two weeks.After 2 weeks everythings the way it was again.What happened?is he trying to keep his distance from me because he likes me and we work together. he does still talk to me sometimes just not as often.what do you think.and i don't want any lectures about coworkers relationships,coz i really don't care
2007-03-04 00:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's prolly going out with another girl and he doesn't want to be tempted to cheat on her, so he doesn't talk to you as much as he did.
2007-03-04 00:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the other women in your or his area, gathered up enough gossip to convince a supervisor that something was on the verge of happening between you two. He was spoken to by one of TPB. After two weeks the pressure was reduced, so he can wink at you. Don't get to excited by any of this, standard office BS. No fishing off the company pier. If you want to know him better, wait for a 3 day weekend, slip out of town together, or meet in a different town. Rent a car to do this in. And if you don't mind, please refrain from thinking that every action this man has, has something to do with you.
2007-03-04 08:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is interested he will tell you, if he cools
off and does not speak to you ever again or only in
a detached way, find someone else, however he
could be on the defensive, in which case he is shy
then you could give him a chance, I know a bit
about this stuff, I SAW someone was so interested
that I took off down the road, so that he would not
know how I felt about him.....Now I am sorry, so give
him a chance...............................................................
2007-03-04 08:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably had other things on his mind. Trust me, sumtimes, I forget 2 put on my shoes in the morning when im thinking about stuff. Maybe he had family troubles or a lot of projects due. Don't worry though, it's natural.
2007-03-04 08:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hi... You have raised up a excellent question... I can tell you about guys,not only this man... Mans are ego types... They look 4 gal... sweet talk and then will not call or sms us... They are really a ****** up people in this world... Imagine a world without guys... We girls must give in to them whatever they did... so,we must not be stupid... we must be extra smarter.... If you have this talking to you... ok fine talk to him.... if you think he's goin beyond..its our turn 2 say goodbye... give yourself period of days or mths and watch his attitude n character... tell him... if you like mi...u like mi... if you don;t like mi... say you don't like mi coz we gals r nt cheap... All the best... I no you cn do it... God bless u...
2007-03-04 08:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by pLaYgAl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was busy or had some sort of personal problem for 2 weeks. Have you asked him what happened for 2 weeks?
2007-03-04 08:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it. It could be for many reasons personal, health related. You will never really know until u ask.
2007-03-04 08:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing is happening to me at school right now and its really getting me mad so i would say that whenever he tries to talk to you let him and add tot he convo but when he isnt talking to you (for that 2 week period) talk to him still and ask him about hows he doing and just light convo
2007-03-04 08:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Office romances are almost ALWAYS a disaster. I suggest you look elsewhere for your personal life.
2007-03-04 08:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight and ask him what the deal is...it will save you time and heartache.
2007-03-04 08:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by christine_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋