Example: I was walking with the guy I like and my [girl] friend. I said, "and the guy in the library was pretty cute. You should've seen him". He turned to me, gave me a look, then looked away. We all continued walking. How do guys feel when girls talk about things like this? Jealousy? Awkwardness? I'm hoping for jealousy, but I'm sure there isn't any. If someone can please explain to me, I'd really appreciate it. ;D
2007-03-04 19:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by aimee! ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on the situation and how it's being said. When any girlfriend I've had says that kind of stuff when I'm around, a little red flag goes off in my head...not of her cheating, but of one of the many tests women do. The test is pretty simple...his reaction will show you whether he is either A) Confident about your attraction towards him and the stability of the relationship or B) Insecure and very untrustworthy of you. Based on his reaction you described, I'd lean more towards A. Then again, only you know for sure.
A lot of guys don't understand the little games and tests women do, and it can be very fun when they are picked up on. Ah, so to answer your question directly-it can either be fun or irritating, based mainly on the situation.
2007-03-04 19:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be jealous. I'd wonder if anyone ever talked about me like that. I still do. If it starts to work and you want to reel him in tell him that you've said that about him to all your friends. It will make him feel like a stud. He will associate that good feeling w/you. He will want to continue to feel that way. He wil ask you out.
2007-03-04 19:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indifferent.
2007-03-04 19:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ruprecht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that, I get really jealous when girls say that some other guy is fine around me cause it makes me feel like they don't consider me fine
2007-03-04 19:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
It gives the the guy the incentive to hit on your friend instead.
Hahahahahahah.
2007-03-04 19:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, i don't care..i got the girl..not the other guy..besides.. true beauty comes from within..skin beauty is there to be admired though.
2007-03-04 19:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Colin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awkward ness and jealously for sure, would make me not want you anymore thats for sure id go for a nother girl. it would make me think that you have no intrest in me cause your checking out other dudes
2007-03-04 19:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just awkward... I mean... how do you think he feels when you talk about a DIFFERENT guy in that way?
2007-03-04 19:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by politoed316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel the same way you would feel if it was the other way around. How would you feel? Think about it, and you got your answer.
2007-03-04 19:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who said it.
most of the time it is jealousy
2007-03-04 19:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋