Singles & Dating - 10 February 2007

How do u no if ur in love because i think i am in love with my ex... he likes me and i like him but i broke his heart last time and now i feel really bad and i want him back so bad please help need advice thanks!!!!

2007-02-10 14:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok How can I get the guts to ask out a guy in my class he's cute and I think he likes me a little my name is Shannon and his name is Ben just in case you need 2 know

2007-02-10 14:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon P 1

I'm 16 and I've liked this girl for about a year now. I'm absolutely crazy about her and shes the only girl I've ever liked this much. We are good friends but i don't see her much because she lives in a town thats right outside of mine. and recently i really haven't seen her much because shes dating a guy now, but i know shes just having fun... Getting Experience.
She said one night when at my house that shes just trying to gain experience. I'm not really worried about me losing my "chance" because her relationships usually last a little over a month. Simply because she just doesn't feel like being in a relationship anymore.

She found out exactly a year ago that i liked her, she didn't have feelings for me then. I've heard that when someone isn't interested at first.. they wont ever. I have a hard time believing that can be 100% true.. and since then our friendship improved.

Its been bothering me for a long time. Just wanted to get a wide group of peoples opinions. Thanks.

2007-02-10 14:11:19 · 2 answers · asked by oneal1845 2

2007-02-10 14:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 14:10:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 35, and have been hurt and dissapointed too many times. I was married to my kids father for 6 years and he cheated on me. Engaged to a man for 4 years only to be told that he didn't want to get married due to all the drama his ex-wife took him through, so I ended it. I've been dating a good man a little over a month, and I know he wants a relationship, we have not had sex, but come very close to it, he respects the fact that I don't want casual sex. However I do like him alot and spending time with him, but I'm scared to give another man my heart. I have 2 kids 15, 11, so it's not just about me, they have been hurt as well. And are afraid to let anyone get close to them as well. I don't know how to trust again, or where to start, I don't want to push him away, but at the same time I don't want to rush into anything, but how will I know I'm ready to trust, love, or be with him sexually without confussing the feelings with lust and desire?

2007-02-10 14:09:08 · 7 answers · asked by hollarbackatchagurl 1

because we all know that sometimes friends and or other people are nicer and more comfortable being with than with your family that always makes you low. . . and friends comfort you more often than your family.

2007-02-10 14:08:18 · 6 answers · asked by Sherah O 1

i've liked this guy for like a year but have been really afraid to tell him, because we're friends and i don't want to wreck that. ok the truth is i'm scared out of my mind that i'll do something entirely retarded and humiliate myself. not only that but he's a total church boy and has decided that he doesn't want to date until he's 16 which is a good couple years away. I NEED HELP! PLEASE.

2007-02-10 14:08:15 · 12 answers · asked by stephina10 2

My BF of 4 months doesn't compromise.We spend most of our time together within his dorm room.Our only dates have been ones I personally initiated. Ive talked 2 him many times about how our relationship shouldnt be spent in his room,&how we should include our friends when we spend time 2gether,rather than only hang out alone,& he's agreed but hasn't acted on it. I've invited him 2 go out w/ my friends & I, but he has social anxiety so he doesnt usually come.
So I've realized that we operate in different social mannerisms.I now go out with my friends more &see him @ a more personal level.
Here's the real bummer-He does not want to celebrate VALENTINEs Day with me!

His theory is that V-Day is a superficial creation of society, and he hates it.I explained to him why I enjoy it.He told me that he is uncomfortable with my expectations from him as a male in this relationship.It hurts me that he is overlooking my feelings of wanting 2celebrate our relationship b/c he wants 2 make a statemnt.

2007-02-10 14:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by dancer87 1

when you are in one of those relationships when you never really know whats happening. Lets say i knew you, and we both kinda liked each other, but we didn't know where it was going. If i always brought up "us" like "do you like me or should i move on?" or something like that, would that annoy you? would i seem clingy? or is that OK?

2007-02-10 14:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by magicalmayhem_07 1

This is for a class of mine that i had to make a poll and i need 20 answers as to why or why you wont date outside of your race.

2007-02-10 14:04:10 · 16 answers · asked by BabyGurl 1

2007-02-10 14:03:52 · 18 answers · asked by Kiniline 1

I have this guy who tells me when he has been thinking about me sometimes. Like if he has seen or heard something that reminded him of me. We used to flirt alot more than we do now but now he acts different. We do still flirt but not as much and i have walked past his friends who i have nothing to do with and they said hello to me.And lately i can be talking to someone and they'll keep bringing him up.What the hell is going on?and how often do guys think about girls that they like?

2007-02-10 14:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2

We've been together for four and a half years. I hear such a bad rap about moving in before marriage but some good stories too. What do I believe? I want to marry him eventually but I think we are both still young (24) and waiting until we finish school and have enough for a downpayment on a house before we make the leap.

2007-02-10 14:01:31 · 8 answers · asked by red_shoes_lady 2

2007-02-10 14:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by marlone 1

eyes, hot body but it's not a compliment. There is too many of you"

What did he mean? Does he mean I am ugly?

And why would everyone in LA look like me? I've never been to LA. Besides, I have dark brown hair. And it's long.

2007-02-10 14:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by Mara D 1

I need help with a situation that I am in at the moment. I have this guy I really like and he is 44 and I am only 21. I have slept with him a cuple of times. But he tells me he needs space. I have had a problem in the past that has led to him changing his number. He changed his number and another friend gave me this, but I am not sure how to deal with the problem.

My question is, how do I give him space? I have had problems with giving him space in the past which led to arguments. Dont say just do it. I need other alternatives to how I can get him out of my mind and move on. How do I get him out of my mind? How???

2007-02-10 14:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-10 13:58:39 · 2 answers · asked by J J 1

My friend met him online. When they met in person she checked his id to prove his age. She says she's just getting her "groove back" but I think she is making a mistake. I even think he is too. He is in college. I often ponder on their connection. Maybe it's not my business to worry about other grown folks. But to me I see him as a child. What do you think?

2007-02-10 13:56:09 · 7 answers · asked by Kena L 1

I would just ask her stuff in class things like.."what does that say? or can i see her notes....so I asked her so when r u taking ur test(were ina jc college right now)...she was like smiling on monday...soo ur going to ut? (she had a binder witha ut cover on it, that looks like she put in)...she was like yeah smiling..i said im gonna apply there she was like really.ill know in 2 months...i was like cool..( I was standing up and she was sittint down and this was the end of class)so i guess she thought iw as leaving and she said bye..so i said see ya..(she had to get her stuff in the bag)...next time i c her...what if i mention something like so u got a hot date for valentines day?..(casually) if she says no..can u be my valentine? then before i let her respond ..i can be like "ur lol ur like noooo..i wont" lol then she might laugh and i can put my "finger" by eye and pretend like a tear was dripping...like anime haha how does that sound?? my plan haha

2007-02-10 13:55:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seeking authentic answers . . . not crast ' obvious ' answers.. I'm 40+ age range and when coming to know a guy the guy seems interested in me personally yet at times it's revealed that he is really only interested in sharing a sexual relationship.

I may be mutuallly attracted to a guy that way . . . yet I don't care to share with him in that manner as I want to come to know him personally first.

Socializing and kisses are fine to share...Yet, I've found myself in situations, while kissing a guy, that it seems clear that he wants to share more after having only gone out 4 or 5 times.

Suggested phrases / conversations to have with the guy to let him know you still want to know him personally...yet more intimate touching is not something that is sought out on dates ?
Keep to public dates ?
If I go to his home or my home how to keep on the 'safe side'.
Does a guy assume that when at his or your own home that it's a signal from a woman that she is open to the thought of sex ?

2007-02-10 13:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by onelight 5

i always get a guy who seems nice, but then hurts me.how can i get a guy who is what he seems?

2007-02-10 13:51:35 · 15 answers · asked by HarleyQuinn2011 1

I have seen this guy around school. When I first walked passed him, I noticed at the corner of my eye that he was staring at me (my face, to be exact.) I looked back at him, and he did not avert his gaze. A couple of days later, I was walking with my friend and telling her about him, then suddenly, he walked passed us! My friend said, "THAT'S HIM?!" sort of loudly, so I'm guessing he probably heard us.

And now, whenever we walk pass each other, I noticed that he'd look straight ahead, then when we're a foot from each other, he'd glance at me for a couple of seconds, then look away. (I saw this at the corner of my eye)

Does he think I like and stalk him? (which I don't!)
Does he think I'm attractive?
What exactly is he thinking?
Next time, should I maintain eye contact and smile?

We don't know each other at all, if that helps.

2007-02-10 13:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1

If I talk about another girl, or look at another girl or even talk to another girl, my girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her. Friday at school I was talking to a girl in the hall because she wanted to know what we had for homework the night before, because she was away and we are in the same Science class. Whe I was done talking to her, My girlfriend came up to me and kept asking me why I was talking to that girl, and then she says shes mad at me and walks off with her friends and her friends give me nasty looks all day. This happened just two days after my girlfriend told me she kissed another guy and how sorry she is.

Tonight she calls me, tells me she hates me and wants to break up then calls back 5 minutes later and says she was joking. She did the same 3 weeks ago but it was a text message. I haven't even done anything to her for all this.

Do girls always act like that? Are women just the same? Because I am not looking forward to dating when I'm older if that's true.

2007-02-10 13:50:56 · 20 answers · asked by Joseph 2

im 16.
i really like this girl
she likes me (almost definatly)
she cares about me and i care about her..
what should i get her ?
nothing too expensive, but nothin too cheap
something decently priced

whats a good gift for valentines day ?

2007-02-10 13:50:30 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3

She's very shy. It's hard to have a conversation with her a lot, and she rarely laughs. I'm pretty funny too.

What could I do to win her over? I've tried being funny and being her friend, it's not really working to get her. Could a special Valentine show her i want to go out with her?

2007-02-10 13:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by Rain. 6

Have you ever thought of how good somthing was until it was actually gone?

2007-02-10 13:49:16 · 1 answers · asked by SWAY 2

cuz i watch porn like a couple times a week and i feel like i'm a freak or somethin but i love it....help.

2007-02-10 13:49:11 · 28 answers · asked by luv_him_4eva 1

okay, so he told me that he wanted to come over to watch a movie and all... i told him i'd have to call him when my mom got home. sooo, i'm calling and calling, and finally i got ahold of him... and he was at a party... he told me that he would come right over as soon as my mom got home, but it turns out he's at a party... sooo, should i be getting some type of message about this or what? it really seems like he's extremely into me too. all the time he's all over me... but idk, it seems like something always comes up, besides that one date last saturday, and he told my friends that he's gonna ask me out this weekend, but so far he's just at a party. what do i do?

2007-02-10 13:48:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica K 1

I really need help help!!!

2007-02-10 13:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by AMANDA S. 1