I am asking this question because I am curious-
In the past (say, a couple of years ago) I used to be the really flirty type. I wore revealing clothes and used to talk a flirty voice- this was actually me, I wasn't trying too hard (in my opinion, anyway). I seemed very sensual, VERY girly, and kind of loud, too. I also easily talked about sex and other sensual things, but didn't get asked out that much.
Now I am a little older, I dress more casual (a lot more covered up!), and I am not flirty- actually I wouldn't consider myself much of a flirt. Maybe a little shy and very serious. And I don't talk in a high voice like I used to, I talk from my diaphragm. In my opinion, perhaps I have gotten a little more boring- I am also more into politics and other serious things. But at the same time, I find that a lot more guys flirt with me and ask me out and I don't even ask for it or try to attract attention as much. Why is that?
2007-02-10
12:54:38
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purringout
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