Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a month, and I'm starting to think about us. She has a strange body type, where she is chubby, but also a little strong... I thought she was really cute when I asked her out, but now I just see her as being fat. I'm not shallow or anything, but I would just like to end our relationship so I can experience other girls. I don't know how she would feel about breaking up, cause she's a little immature, but I also can't stand looking at her anymore. What do I do? If I do break up with her, how should I do it?
2007-02-10 12:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by usaaaaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for number one that is mean and i think you should tell her you need some space so you want hurt her that bad
2007-02-10 12:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by babygirlnikkibuttercup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut, if it says break up end it on that very instant. Your gut knows what to do even if it doesnt seem like the right thing to do at the moment. Even if you regret it later there will be more girls, and if shes really that disgusting to you why are you still going out in the first place?
2007-02-10 13:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..its all about your happiness..here.so u go right a head and break up with her..damp her quick..tell..her that umm..honey am not ready as yet to have a well bond relationship.I thought I was ready but all of this..is not for me..am not worth..it..u deserve someone way better off than me..that will make u happier than u r now...I mean if we could be friends its okay..but I don't wanna have a bond relationship as yet.hope that helps chow...
2007-02-10 13:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stay with her out of pity. However, it sounds like you need to say as little as possible about why you want to see other people. Put as much of it on yourself as you can, "I am too flighty; I do not deserve you; you deserve someone better than me, etc" without lying about it. Short, direct, self-directed, compassionate and get going, for her sake.
2007-02-10 13:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm not shallow"
UHHHHhhh ok?
Do HER a favor and break up.
2007-02-10 12:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋