but, what are our chances of staying together we both really love each other and were able to tell each other everything. But what are our chances of lasting? everyone says that we look really cute together!!
2007-02-10 12:42:49 · 15 answers · asked by katies_sexy_bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both truley love each other i think you will last! try living together and if you dont fight much or at all and get alon well then mary her!
good luck.
2007-02-10 12:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you commit to the relatinship and have an open communication you both will last. You just need to keep on doing new things together and now the old boring stuff. Also, both of you should talk more about the future how you want it to be. Ex: how to raise your children together, helping one another out, talkin about chores, RESPONSIBILITIES. My bf and I are also very serious and plan on gettin married next year or 2 yrs from now. We always talk about the future and how we want things to be and we are very alike. Just love one another and keep the spark going. It is a very scary feeling thinking that down the line it won't work out. I'm sure it goes through everyones mind that "what if it doesn't work out?" This and that. Just be positive. Good Luck
2007-02-10 12:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by xratedmami05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees, unfortunately. I dated my, now husband 7 years and lived with him about 4 of those years before we got married. We are still happily married going on 12 years this year and have two great son's. I think you have to consider these questions. #1. Is she your best friend? #2. Can you imagine your life without her in it? Do you make each other laugh and share the same sense of humor? Thinking of the idea of marriage with her, do you NOT consider that divorce is an option if it doesn't work? Is she supportive when you need encouragement? These are all valid and very important questions for a successful relationship. Your heart and your head have to agree. Good luck.
2007-02-10 12:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by jmpnjckflsh611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chances of lasting depends upon the choices you make. Salvation will allow you to treat your wife the way God intended and vice versa. God is love, so if you both get a real relationship with God he will allow your marriage to not only last, but it will be healthy and strong. If God is not in the marriage chances are adultery could arise. Adultery is the #1 cause of broken marriages. With God in your life the bible way it can be beautiful and both can be faithful to one another FOR REAL without involving anyone else. Getting saved is the first step in being truly happy in a marriage. Most marriages fail because people leave God out of their lives as if he doesn't exist. I'm not talking about being a churchgoer. I am talking about living a life pleasing to God and in return he will bless you. You seem to have your priorities in order. It's good you two love each other and want to do it right. Be sure about it though, marriage is a serious step. It can be beautiful if you want it to be.
2007-02-10 13:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For starters, you need to be sure that ur relationship will work.. asides from commitment. No offence.. but if ure still pondering, you dont really sound ready. You need to also agree on things such as family, financial wise etc before you decide as a number of couples, at a stage or another, have failed relationships bcoz of this. As much as we'd love to think so long as theres love itll work, sadly, it just isnt so. Nonetheless, i wish you all the best and good luck to both of you. Cheers
2007-02-10 12:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be together for a lifetime if they love each other and promise to always work to make the relationship better. I'd say it has nothing to do with you two being cute together and everything to do with how much Need her.
2007-02-10 12:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's really hard to tell, you can think you love someone and then the love not be their like you thought, many things play a role in what will happen, you may or may not get your hart broken, but id rather get my hart broken then to of had the chance and passed it up, ( Go for it man )---------no matter the outcome its better to take chances
2007-02-10 13:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Scott c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda in the same boat....no matter what there are ALWAYS going to be the people that say you will not make it and are making a big mistake. but to be honest if you truely feel like you two are ment to be together forever then go for it. just be sure to think everything through before you decide anything "life changing". good luck!
2007-02-10 12:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be too focused on your relationship for your own good. That spells trouble. You should stop thinking about each other so much and start thinking more about yourselves. If you spend too much time on each other, you'll get bored pretty damn quickly. And, for crying out loud, change your damn screen name! You're a case for the Save the Testicles Foundation in the making.
2007-02-10 13:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you say that your in love with her ..then why are you concerned stay positive .. if you truley love her and keep everything that yall have now then yall will stay together
2007-02-10 12:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋