Ok this was my Q:We started going out 1 week & a helf ago, I am his first GF! we are 13 & in grade 8, he is shy so barly ever talk to me & when he does it like 15 word convo's, we have only hugged but I dono it it's because I am 1 1/2 ft shorter then him, Im his first gf or becuase he doesnt like me, or is he just waiting for me to make the first move also: is it reall true that guys have a hard time with first relationships
& I got this awnser is it right?:You have to talk to him ALOT. n alot of love talk. then u have to go reali slow with him. start off by kissing him on the cheek n he'll want more. You have to have alot of one on one time with him like none of your friends. bring him over to your house or go over to his house and watch a movie and cuddle and stuff. you hav to be patient but not too patient. on the phone, since you guys are dating, talk about ANYTHING that comes to mind n like tell him what u think about it and stuff n u hav a good conversation. dont hold back
2007-02-10 12:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yes 3rd person Im sorry, it's just simalar thing happend & I was pissed @ the moment I dono though but ya maybe(not to be mean just 4 help) U should try moving up to the guitar, cause g players are sexeh
2007-02-10 13:03:33 · update #1
ok this is like really weird cause ur story is EXACTLY like my first realtionship every detail......the 8th grade...the first gf .... the whole shy thing
byt considering that this is what my realtaionship udes to be then what i say is tat you take it slow mybe if you want tell him that you feel you can take it a little faster but that yall dont have to if he is uncomfortable...but yeah kiss the cheek and stuff....like me i was waitng for her to make the first move and yeah IM me to let me know if the relationship turned out good or IM me right now cause i can give you move insight on this answer
2007-02-10 13:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is sort of right: talking usually helps, as long as he gets to talk too. He likely doesn't care if you're shorter than him. It's true, though, that first relationships aren't easy for either guys or girls.
It's probably true that he'll wait for you to start that first kiss. But that's not what's important anyway. The main thing is for you to explore how you really feel about him.
Are you *both* talking more and more about what you like, how you feel about things? Do you both enjoy just hanging out together? And this is really important: are you treating him with respect? Does he respect you?
You're probably doing just fine. You're both learning what a relationship is about. Keep treating each other like real people, not like toys to play with.
2007-02-10 21:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! you guys are 13....not to sound rude but what does a 13 yr old boy have to talk about?? you will find out that guys dont like talking much at any age! he sounds like he is really shy and not sure what to do with a "girlfriend". he might only be comfortable with hugging right now...or unsure of how to kiss...you can start off with little things like giving him a kiss on the cheek and seeing how he reacts.
2007-02-10 20:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my guy used to be like that. Untill I told him i wanted to spend more time together. And it worked!
2007-02-10 20:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sydnee :)(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea u pretty much have the right idea. hell like that if u do wut u said in the second paragraph. but im still pissed bout ur answer to my ukulele question lol. if ur askin sh!t like this, i dont think u need to be talkin.
2007-02-10 21:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Q-Tip M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋